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10th USTMD70 e-magazine
USTMD70 e-magazine
MISANG PILIPINO IN FALL RIVER
by Mini
Santacruzan in MA: L-R: Prince Consort, Reyna Elena, Mini
Filipinos from Rhode Island and Massachusetts gathered to celebrate Misang Pilipino (Filipino Mass) in Fall River on July 9, 2006. It was dedicated to the Blessed Martyrs of Motril as the anniversary of their deaths is in July.
Held at the Sacred Heart Church, the service consisted of three devotions: to God the Father, to the eight Blessed Martyrs of Motril and the chaplet of the Divine Word. Fr. Angelo Michael Guarin of the Franciscan Order in Fall River is the Spiritual Adviser. We are happy that Fr. Martin Mary Fonte of Romblon, maternal cousin of Mini Festin, allowed Fr. Angelo to help us solemnly celebrate the liturgical devotions and to provide guidance to the apostolate
HOW DID THE DEVOTION TO GOD THE FATHER START?
In the summer of 2004, Linda Ravenscroft met her old friends Tony and Linda Jimenez who she has known since the 70s, in New Jersey. They were attending a mutual friend’s wedding. It was a surprise reunion that rekindled and brought back fond memories. They shared many things, the most important being their devotion to God the Father. It was amusing to note that for a prayer book, all they had were a few pieces of paper stapled together. Linda J. had the original copy of the novena from the Sisters of the Missionarie Unitas in Christo Ad Patrem in Anzio (Rome), Italy. Linda J. had organized a prayer group to honor God the Father in New York a few years back and encouraged Linda R. to organize a similar one in southeastern Massachusetts.
HOW DID THE FILIPINO MASS IN FALL RIVER START?
With some other friends, the two Linda’s began preparation to organize the apostolate in MA. In April 2005, God the Father’s Children’s Apostolate of Greater New England held its first Filipino Mass at the Church of the Sacred Heart, where Pastor Fr. Ray Cambra welcomed then. The church is near the Manila Jade Restaurant (operated by the Osmenas of Rhode Island) in the heart of Fall River. Since then, they have faithfully gathered every second Sunday of the month to pray and celebrate the devotion to honor God the Father. The devotion to the Martyrs of Motril was added right after the first Mass. The recitation of the chaplet of the Divine Word came later.
HOW DID THE GOD THE FATHER MOVEMENT START?
In 1932, an extraordinary event occurred. A nun in Anzio, Italy, named Mother Eugenia Revasio, reported that God the Eternal Father appeared to her on two separate occasions, i.e., July 1 and August 12, 1932. Her most important legacy to us is the message of the Father, the only private revelation made personally by God the Father, which was found to be authentic by the Catholic Church after a ten-year investigation .
WHO ARE BLESSED LEON AND THE SEVEN MARTYRS OF MOTRIL?
The Eight Blessed Martyrs of Motril were massacred in defense of their faith during the Spanish Civil War in 1936. Five of them served in the Philippines and the other three were imprisoned during the Philippine Revolution. They were beatified by Pope John Paul II in 1995.
The Martyrs of Motril served in the following places:
Liloan & Compostela, Cebu; Ubay, Carmen, Bilar, Loay, Dimiao, Sierra Bullones, Candijay in Bohol; San Narciso & San Felipe in Zambales, Sta, Cruz & Ermita in Manila, Calapan, Sablayan & Bongabong in Mindoro, Sto. Domingo, San Sebastian & San Nicholas churches in Manila; Banton, Azagra, Looc in Romblon.
The uncle of one of the martyrs, San Ezequiel Moreno, served in Puerto Princesa, Palawan; Las Pinas; Sto. Tomas, Batangas; Sta. Cruz, Manila; Imus, Cavite.
WHAT IS THE CHAPLET OF THE DIVINE MERCY?
Christ’s message of mercy, devout prayers and a good confession was delivered through St. Maria Faustina Kowalska, a Polish nun who kept a diary in the early 1900s of His private revelations to her during her lifetime. After St. Faustina’s canonization in 2000, the number of parishes offering special Divine Mercy celebrations experienced significant growth in the Philippines..
THE HOLY MASS, FILIPINO VERSION
On July 9th , the devotions started with Minnie Festin-Navato reciting a prayer to the eight Martyrs of Motril with the congregation. This was followed by the devotional prayers to the God the Father, led by Gloria Platon. Then people sang the Chaplet of the Divine Word with the soloist Zenaida Rivera.. To accompany the Holy Mass, the Sto. Nino choir sang beautiful religious hymns of the famous Filipino religious song writer, Fr. Hontiveros s.J.
A solemn mass and benediction was celebrated by a Filipino priest, Fr. Angelo Guarin. At the end of the mass , he gave the spiritual blessing to the July wedding anniversary and birthday celebrants. He then officiated the transfer of the God the Father icon from the July sponsors (Bernardo, Mely & Annamarie Amirol, Minnie & Fred Navato) to the August sponsors (Gloria Platon & Anna Landock).
THE SOCIALS
The people then descended to the Church hall for a social gathering. Putting aside their diets, they partook of a tempting merienda prepared by master chef Aida Kalb and assisted by Lydia Glynn and Majan Santos. The authentic Filipino cuisine consisted of creamy chicken salad, freshly-baked pork chops, crunchy fried rice and the mouth-watering Pancit Palabok, which went fast. There was a wide variety of pastries and delicacies on the table with the native tajo in a big pot nearby. Some of the pastries, especially the empanada, were freshly prepared by Rupe de la Cruz who owns a Filipino bakery in Rhode Island . People mingled, exchanging smiles and greetings. Flashbulbs lit up the room as group pictures were taken to keep memories of the occasion alive. Dance Philippines, emceed by an enthusiastic Tony Mateo, accompanied the socials, It was in this affair that Planet Philippines newspapers-New England edition- were freely distributed to the people.
The devotees went home, filled with the love of God. Those who took the Communion Host and imbibed the wine knew that their Savior was in their heart. They now have the strength to face the difficulties and trials of the incoming week.
Efren’s luncheon: L-R: seated: Manny, Brenda, Rancie, Linda, Ted
Max and Evelyn on top of the world looking down
on creation in Michu Pichu
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Some of the nurses who help me are amiable and pleasant.
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See photo below: Ethan, Carter and grandma Alice
Luke’s angelic pose
Mila’s tequila dance in Mexico
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Manny&Gloria: see below
Mon Domingo within the Walls of the Escorial during his iberian tour
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See below: The Joggers: L-R: Luz, Norma, Carol, Rechie in San Diego Harbor
Standing: Art, Remi, Vicky and Efren
L-R: seated: Luz, Rechie, Carol
Standing: Neil, Rose, Nap, Harry and Norma @ Luz Penthouse in San Diego
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See below: The San Diego Weekenders
Standing L-R: Harry, Carol, Norma, Elmo, Nap
Seated: Luz and Rechie
Madame President Rose (farthest left, Roger and Lita Liboon (3rd and 4th from left respectively)
Archimedes de Guzman: May his soul and the souls of the faithful departed,
rest in peace.
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MOMENTS
Tom’s River luncheon: L-R: Efren, JoBum, Christie, Morel, Manny
Tom’s River party
L-R: JoBum with grandsons, Angie Lily, Efren, Robbie,
Manny, Vicky, Alice
Tom’s River dock
L-R: Efren, Remigio, Lily, Christie, Alice, JoBum, Vicky, Efren
Seated: Angie, Robbie
Samala after-Broadway party
L-R; front row: JoBum, Ismael, Manny, Gloria
seated: Rancie, Evelyn, Lily, Linda, Brenda
Standing: Luz, Alice, Nora, Pol, Norman, Biba
After Pippin pose: L-R: Vicky, JoBum, Efren, Luz, Brenda, Nora, Linda, Ted, Evelyn, Tom, Roland. Ismael in the foreground.
Photo below: L-R: Lourdes, JoBum, Pol, Linda S, Norman, Alice, Rancie
Photo below:
Standing L-R: JoBum, Ralph, Boy, Ando, Lourdes, Luz, Norman, Alice, Rancie, Pol
Seated: Brenda, Lily, Linda S
Seated: unknown, Gloria, Manny, Efren
Standing: Nora, Roland, Bee Bulaklak, Vicky, Rancie,
Evelyn, Tom, Alice, Linda, Pol, Lourdes, Art V
Backyard of Vicky’s house JoBum, Ofie, Angie, Lily, Efren, Robbie, Manny, Vicky, Alice. With JoBum’s 2 GS
Seated, Manny, Brenda, Rancie, Luz, Linda Mariano, Ted, Standing..Arthur V. Remia Regio, Vicky, Efren
L-R: son Jonathan, grandson Nathaniel, Lew, grandaughter Sofia, daughter in law Sara
The gang in NYC: L-R: Manny, Rancie, Efren, Art. Hi Rancie!
Evelyn, “Take me out to the ball game”
Brenda and Luz in Vineyard Haven, MA @ above photo
What a New England Vineyard Haven village look like.
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Below: L-R: Lita& Roger Liboon, Nars & Myrlie Casco, Ledy&Milo Jazminez, Norma&Harry Salceda in Marty (Basco) & Karla’s wedding
L-R: Milo &Ledy, Lita & Roger, Myrlie, Luz & Nap, Norma & Harry
Bring out the gowns in this gliterratti of a wedding!.
Photo below: Mon and Minda on their second trip to the Bahamas. It’s better the second time ’round.
L-R: Chicago mini-reunion: Who is the bunbling bee among the lovely champacas?
Wedding of the Year
Seated: Sophia and Nathaniel Hortillosa
L-R: standing: Jeff, JoAnna, unknown, Jason, Lew, Donita, Jerome
Marty (son of Max&Evelyn) and Carla
Another Wedding of the year
Mon on the zipline on Allure of the Sea cruise ship.
Fear not!
Oma and Ed Capitulo with
Oma’s sisters and brothers in law
Cherie and Neal in their beautiful summer home in San Francisco
Mini, Evelyn and Cherie in Boston
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The Golf Gang below
The Golf Gang: Roy, Charlie, Butch, JunB and Gally
The Liboon kids with Marites Basco on the left side and foreground
Monet and Alvin Babista in Apo View Hotel in Davao
Lucio (team physician) with Heat player Mike MIller’sautographed basketball jersey. The World’s Greatest Hand-Me-Down!
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Carter, Ando and Alice first grandson
Already climbing the ladder
Mila and her very happy apo
Roy (holding on for dear life) with children and their kids in Splash Mountain
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Those were the days, my friend, We thought they’d never end.
____________________L-R Noli Cruz, Libby Cruz, Vicky Co, Yet Dizon, Puring Cruz, EENT Professor, Ping Duran, Suzette Correa, two unknown clerks.
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Monet and Susan Roces, gorgeous as ever.
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Thanks for the e-magazine.
Good job Mini, again you did this with a lot of TLC.
You are a valuable contributor, Mon we always learn something new from tour travelogue and Lew always goes deep down to the psyche and take us with him, we can laugh, sometime foreboding but always interesting and Charles, what can I say, you will always be Charles,naughty but nice. Hope Dante is a good sport or be the brunt of Dante’s thunder. All those very nice pictures, we are all family, and last minute Freddie, what happen to the picture? did not get permission? It’s OK. We understand. I’ve seen your lovely daughter so much alike with everybody’s daughters here, a western stance and poise like any American girl. Hope we get more contributors next time around.
*Don’t go for looks; they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, Because it takes only a smile toMake a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.
*Dream what you want to dream; Go where you want to go; **Be what you want to be, Because you have only one life And one chance to do all the things You want to do.
*May you have enough happiness to make you sweet Enough trials to make you strong, Enough sorrow to keep you human and Enough hope to make you happy.
*The happiest of people don’t necessarily Have the best of everything; > They just make the most of Everything that comes along their way.
*The brightest future will always Be based on a forgotten past; You can’t go forward in life until You let go of your past failures and heartaches.
*When you were born, you were crying And everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so at the end, You ‘re the one who is smiling and everyone Around you is crying.
*Please send this message to those people Who mean something to you > To those who have touched your life in one way or another To those who make you smile when you really need it To those who make you see the Brighter side of things when you are really down; To those whose friendship you appreciate; T o those who are so meaningful in your life. *Stay hApPy without hurting sOmeBoDy !* *
*Don’t count the years – count the memories
Lana Daisy @ 8 months. Lana, what big eyes you have!
9th USTM70 e-magazine
3rd CFC Northeast Regional Conference in Bedford, MA By Herminia Festin-NavatoIt took several months and much anticipatory anxiety to plan the Northeast CFC 3rd Convention by the Couples for Christ (CFC)-Massachusetts. And it paid off. The 3rd CFC Northeast Regional Conference at the Bedford VA Medical Center on October 21, 2006 went smoothly with no glitches. The theme of the convention was “Show His Power and Majesty to a Sinful Nation (Tobit13:6), “ An email group of the steering committee members, set up for the event, helped immensely in communication.Historic Bedford, MA, located between Concord and Lexington, is one of the smallest towns in MA. It has the distinction of preserving the oldest complete American flag in its library. This was the same flag carried by Nathaniel Page in April 19, 1775 at the beginning of the American Revolution. The old North Bridge in nearby Concord is where “the embattled farmers stood and fired the shot heard ‘round the world.” Adjacent Lexington Green is where the first blood was shed in the American Revolution.The timing was perfect. The ride from the different areas of the Northeast was made pleasant by a beautiful scenic view. The autumn foliage was peaking and the trees were absolutely gorgeous in crimson and yellow. No photo can ever capture the fantastic colors of the autumn leaves. Bus loads of people from New York, New Jersey and Maryland left at dawn to arrive in Bedford, MA on time.The venue, courtesy of Minnie Festin-Navato, fit the needs of the convention. Held on a bright October Saturday, the ground floor of the Bedford VA Medical Center was all ours to use. The VA employees were cooperative and accommodating. There was ample parking. Somebody was heard to say, “Massachusetts has something unique to offer us.”The light and sound crew from California, New Jersey and Philadelphia worked all night in the theatre until 5:00am. At 6am, some of the MA Service Team arrived early to prepare for the event. The registration tables were already set up by the VA Housekeeping employees the day before. Registration of the delegates started at 7am by the Masachusetts Service Tea. Distinguished by their green T-shirts, they were all smiles as they greeted the delegates. What was expected to be a chaotic registration turned out to be smooth as people arrived at different times instead of coming all at once.There was a separate place for the children named Kids Day. In addition, the children were separated into a younger set (7 and below) and an older set (above 7). The Singles for Christ (SFC) and Youth for Christ (YFC), took care of Kids Day. Separating the kids into two age groups proved to be a wise decision. Kids of different age groups tend to have different interests. The volunteers took care of the kids’ bruises and kept them from fighting one another. The situation was beautifully handled by the volunteers who made sure the kids were filled with activities and suitable kid food .The theatre was packed which left the MA service team, the light and sound crew and some people standing at the back of the theatre. Delegates came from CT, DE, MA, MD, NJ, NY, PA, PH, RI and VA. Registration was stopped at 540 and 588 attendees were present 128 kids came. Ali Sarmiento and Rick Garcia were volunteers who took candid pictures as they went around the theatre. Some brought their own cameras to capture the memorable event for many years to come.Speakers from the various sectors of CFC and its Ministries came. The speakers were the following: Joe and Babylou Tale from the Philippines CFC National Council, Joe and Monina Duran from the Florida CFC National Directors USA, Cito and Malen Lorenzo who are Gawad Kalinga Advocates and Sonny Aguling who is the Northeast Regional Head CRC USA.One couple spoke about the power of prayer. It seems that Immigration Service people had detained them. CFC worldwide members prayed for them. Because of spiritual journey and growth, it became a blessing in disguise. After praying so hard, they were suddenly released. Prayers can indeed move mountains. Isn’t God so good all the time?Bebet Benitez of New Hampshire told the story of how she convinced her family to donate their lands in Santa Maria, Laguna, for the Massachuesetts Village. This is the village where the MA Gawad Kalinga will build houses for the poor.Couples for Christ is spreading fast world-wide. It was already established in Iraq but had to be suspended because of the war. When they looked for volunteers in the audience to open a CFC ministry in Afghanistan, many hands were raised.The caterer from Panda Express of Medford lived up to expectations with a price that was hard to beat. The chefs came before lunch to bring the dishes which consisted of fried breaded lemon chickenladen, beef with broccoli and fried rice. The Panda Express chefs had to pack lunch boxes fast enough to supply the many food distributors. Despite much apprehension, the food distribution to the participants was well-executed by the usherettes. To help the people recognize them, they wore a distinctive USHER sign on their T-shirts. The usherettes planned and implemented the orderly distribution of food inside the theatre despite the fact that the communication lines were very long. A few out-of-state people helped out too. Thus, the distribution of the lunch boxes to the delegates, who remained in their seats, was done in 20 minutes. The usherettes also collected the trash after the lunch break so more time could be spent for worship, praise and talks.We should not forget the Massachusetts Service Team and the SFC volunteers who picked up the heavy water bottles, the apples, etc. in heavy rain the day before the convention. Some SFC volunteers arrived one week before the event to map out the logistics and consolidate the planning, mapping and running of the conference. These SFC volunteers were John Bondad, Stephanie Nethercott, Anne Esperanza, Romy Gerodias, Geraldine de la Cuesta and Ariel Silva. Ariel Silva, who drove from Philadelphia, is credited for doing the backdrop in the stage.The MA Service Team had a very good plan that made transportation to and from the hotel timely and orderly. Housing and hotel arrangements were finalized way before the convention.The Flame Ministry Coordinators coordinated the sale of CFC items. The makeshift gift shop, manned by the Handmaids Service Team was selling briskly to the delegates. Green CFC T-shirts for @$10 apiece sold out.The souvenir program, prepared by Gloria Platon and Rochelle Cabo Chan, was entertaining, newsy and full of pictures. They literally burnt the midnight oil to complete the souvenir program.Finally, after a lot of pep talk, praying, enthusiastic singing and joyous clapping, the Praisefest ended with a Eucharistic Celebration. Fr. Sebastian, the Catholic chaplain of Bedford VA, warmly welcomed the guests to the VA. He felt honored to participate in a Couples for Christ event and praised CFC for upholding family values. He looked at the children in the front of the pews and commented on how well-behaved they were and said they are the future of CFC. Fr. Celestino Pascual, the Spiritual Director of the Filipino Apostolate of Boston, was the co-celebrant. After the mass, the CFC MA Service Team was asked to come to the front of the altar to the thunderous applause of the audience. One of the New Jersey officers said, “This has been the best CFC convention so far even though this is the third one.”Strengthened spiritually, the delegates went home with a sense of Filipino pride. They were glad to have participated in a vibrant, uniquely Filipino event that started in the Philippines. It was a happy crowd who thanked the Massachusetts Service Team profusely. They hoped to attend next year’s convention in North Carolina for another spiritual renewal.Couples for Christ, open to Catholics and non-Catholics alike, started in 1981 when a Christian community in Manila tried an innovative way to evangelize married couples. It consisted of bringing married couples together in private homes for gospel discussions. Small units of CFC households which meet weekly were formed. A household meeting would normally last 2.5 hours. There are no fees or monetary expenses required. In Manila, they operate under the authority of the parish priests and bishops. Immensely popular, this family ministry has now spread to 157 nations. On April 25, 2005, on the Feast of St. Mark, the Vatican granted definitive approval of the statutes of Couples for Christ. This act confirmed permanent recognition of CFC as a private international association of the faithful in accordance with the Code of Canon Law.In 1992, CFC established its Family Ministries. They consist of Kids for Christ (KFC), Youth for Christ (YFC), Singles for Christ (SFC). Handmaids of the Lord (HOLD) and Servants of the Lord (SOLD). The Family Ministries provide a “womb-to-tomb” ministry.In 1995, CFC established its Social Ministry called Gawad Kalinga. Translated to English, it means “to give care.” Antonio Meloto from Bacolod, a CFC member, started working with the poor in a huge squatter area in Metro Manila, called Bagong Silang. Finding goodness in the hardened youth gangs, he decided to stem the development of “slum behavior” by building houses to be allotted to the poorest families. As the Bagong Silang project blossomed in the Philippines, he decided to bring Gawad Kalinga to the expatriates by establishing ANCOP (Answering the Cry of the Poor) Foundation. Today, there are 850 GK villages in the Philippines. This year, Tony Meloto and the GK Foundation with its donors, beneficiaries and volunteers received the Ramon Magsaysay Award for Community Leadership.CFC in MA started in September 2002 when the CFC National Director appointed Sid Sawabi as the Area Head for MA. The first contact was made with the Diocese of Springfield. Then CFC members Chris and Nenette Smith moved from UK to Massachusetts. They made contact with Carlos Melocoton, an SFC from the Philippines, who was taking Pre-Theology courses in Worcester. They joined together with Carlo and Merle Samson, CFC from the Philippines, for a household meeting in Sudbury, MA where the Smiths lived. The first CLP conference was held in 2003 in Worcester where Cecile Catalan was designated head for HOLD. This was also attended by Dorie and Jessica. In March 2004, Carlo and Merl Samson met Ed and Agnes Valencia, CFC from the Philippines, who were added to the group in Waltham. Also in this year, Leo and Chie Bartolome, CFC from New Jersey, moved to Boston. Anna Geron, SFC from Winnipeg, CA, moved to Winchester, MA when she married Bill Danahy. Gene and Evita Florendo attended Chris and Nenette’s household meeting and later hosted a CLP in Lexington. Paz Mendoza, Gloria Platon and Fred and Minnie Navato joined the household meetings in in Lexington in 2005. A CLP was held in Jessie and Emelyn’s house in Holden in June 2005. Ismael Romero, the first SFC -MA brother, brought 6 sisters to a CLP in Lexington. The first SFC-MA household was born in in August 2005. By May 2006, the SFC has grown and was split into two: one Brother household led by Ismael Romero and one Sister household led by Vera Flores. Later, Gene and Evita Florendo became the ANCOP-GK Coordinators and Leo and Chie Bartolome the Flame Ministry Coordinators.We would like to thank the Massachusetts Service Team who came and made the event possible. _________________________________________ Brandon Mariano, apo of Ted and Lynne, reading the Words of the Faithful in his First Communion Mass. _______________________________________CHILDHOOD MEMORIES BY MON As a child ,after Mass, it was customary for my parents to drive us around Zamboanga for a leisurely Paseo into the countryside and perhaps even to the Galleras or i believe Sabung in Tagalog where we could grab a quick bite for breakfast of our native delicacies. Anyway ,at that time we still did not have fruiting Lanzones trees and at a nearby .town, where Rose Climaco comes from, a town perhaps a kilometer or so from the City Center, I saw these trees laden with those Lanzones visible from the roadside and we proceeded actually ,my parents , being still a child, to to look for the owners and got some lanzones fresh from the tree. I write this particular episode of my life because such visions of Surprises can leave an indelible impression of delight in one’s soul.
There are other examples of our peaceful,serene leisurely life in Zamboanga then that i can reminisce about which you all probably have had in your own situation….like my very first and only time i ever saw an upright ,ready to strike hooded Cobra which i saw saw from the safety of our car in one of these paseos on a Sunday morning and this time about 15 kilometers from the City and driving along the verdant ricefields near a place called Ayala. . it was about 9:30 a m with enough (sunlight to illuminate this Magnificent looking Cobra ready to strike as we had disturbed it with our passing car. i say it was a Cobra because that is the only snake that i am aware. of which goes upright with the neck widening in it’s pose as it is about to strike. ( help..is this a correct assumption ? Recuerdos de mi juventud . Mon
Happy Fourth of July from Cil and Lito
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Lynn, Leni (Ralph’s wife), Art R’s wife Lena, Art R at Kueka Lake
” MOMENTS…” (Through the time wormhole, a treasure trove of memories await)
It started as a lackluster Monday morning and what with overcast skies promising the probablility of rain, there was’nt much to look forward to in our Pharmacology Lab.class.I could almost hear “The Carpenters” belting out, ” Rainy days and Mondays always get me down”.
Then a glimmer of hope to lighten up the day came when Dra. Asuncion asked the future Dr. Ragasa regarding the results of the experiments on renal clearnce rate on a certain laboratory mouse that he had been given charge of caring a week earlier togther with administering the test drug and measring its renal clearance rate. The unfortunate teat subject was kept locked up in a separate room with Dante the only one with the keys.
The once unflappable Dante Ragasa stood up, as i remember, with clearly a bit of intimidation in his demeanor to Dra. Asuncion’s query.
Dante : I have some good news, but sadly, some bad news too, to report, Duck-ture.*
Dra. Asuncion : What do you mean?
Dante : I meant the experiment went on flawlessly, but unfortunately, the “Rabbit died”.
Dra. Asuncion: But it was a female mouse, Mr. Ragasa!
Dante: What I meant was I tested the mouse’ urine on a rabbit and it passed away ,which meant that our test subject, a mouse is PREGNANT !
Dra. Asuncion : But you were the only one there with the test subject, Mr. Ragasa? For a whole week!
At this juncture one could barely hear a pin drop. Then the room ever so gradually became awashed with restrained giggles mixed with all sorts of tawdry innuendos, some in the form of light banters, others were downright unkind.
Dra. Asuncion : I’m still at a lost here, Mr. Ragasa.
Dante : It may well be the first reported case of Parthenogenesis in mice, Duck-ture, but all is not lost. We can have this published in a journal of your choosing, and may I point out that the Readers Digest will pay handsomely for human interest type articles like this!
The future Dr. Ragasa was now starting to sweat 50 caliber bullets.
Dante: It may have been a delayed placebo effect, Duck-ture.
Dra. Asuncion : Do you know what placebos are,Mr.Ragasa?
Dante : Just a faint notion, Duck-ture.
Then Dra. Asuncion had to explain what placebos are in a nutshell to Dante.
Dra. Asuncion and the class were’nt buying Dante’s roundabout excuses, but this new revelations of
“possible impropriety” had rekindled our class with the prospect that the day was not a total loss afterall and vented its jocular energies at Dante and cried in unison: ” YOU DOITY RAT !”
* DUCK-TURE : Doctor.
by Charles Dunifer
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Mini, Luzbella, Lynn at Luzbella’s party
Why Am I Hooked to the USTMD70 yahoogroup?
Because it is INTELLECTUALLY stimulating. Lew
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Diary of a Pilgrim-Day 1 Aboard JetBlue , flying eastward , I watched the gray horizon gradually turn salmon pink. We arrived 5 hours early for our flight to Manila .
During this trip we are referred to as pilgrims.The itinerary for this pilgrimage is ambitious, we thought. It is the first one in the Philippines , arranged for Fr. Fernando Suarez, the healing priest. We were forewarned that being pioneer pilgrims , it will be a learning experience and adjustments have to be done as needed.Our patience will be tested, I feared . But then , pilgrims must be able to make do and adjust to inconveniences .Flying Korean airlines to Manila was a pleasant experience from check in to deplaning. The staff were gracious and attentive. There must have been 2 dozens of pretty young flight attendants dressed in beige and aqua with their hairs rolled in a bun . I can’t tell one from the other. They moved about like dolls I stared at their flawless porcelain- like skin . It seems that that is one criteria to qualify for the job , I thought . I slept throughout the 14 hour flight from JFK to Seoul .waking up only for the meals. The food was fine , considering it was airplane food. We went through security check,freshened up at the Incheon airport. Then, re boarded the plane for another 3 and a half hours flight to Manila. Going through Customs and Immigration at the Ninoy Aquino International Airport ( NAIA) , was not bad . People were friendly and polite. It was almost midnight when we finally reached our room at the Midas Hotel .
I was unable to sleep until 3AM local time .There is a 13 hour difference. It was 1 PM , in US. The wake up call came too quickly, it seemed. Buffet breakfast was too abundant . It was difficult to decide what to eat. Fearing , I won’t fit into my clothes in just a few days, I had to exercise self-control to the utmost.Especially because the person next to me was enjoying the spread immensely like a bottomless pit. On the bus by 7: 30 AM, the tour operator reviewed the itinerary for the day. First stop ,was the Minor Basilica of the Black Nazarene, or St. John the Baptist parish, or Quiapo church. Diary of a pilgrim day 2Quiapo Church , as I remember , was always teeming with people.There were side walk vendors selling all kinds of items including herbs for all kinds of ailments Today , the crowd was small . There were no sidewalk vendors . There were small stores several feet away from the church .
Perhaps, these are extensions of the Quinta Market close by. The church is located on Quezon Blvd. It belongs to the Archdiocese of Manila . There is a fee to tour the church , 100 pesos for adults , 80 pesos for seniors, 55 and over. >> Photography was not allowed inside the church . Outside are replicas of the Black Nazarene . Here , one can take pictures . One can climb up the steps to access the original . One is permitted to touch and “whisper “to the Black Nazarene . Flash back .When I was a little girl , I walked along side Mama , as she approached the altar on her knees . I wonder what or who Mama was praying for. There were several usually . Today, there was none . Next stop was San Sebastián church .It is located in Plaza del Carmen , Quiapo . It is a minor basilica belonging to the Archdiocese of Manila since1890. It is the National Shrine of our Lady of Mount Carmel . It is the only church in Asia built of steel . Previous churches were destroyed by earthquake In 1859, 1863, 1880. The plaque outside the church says” designed by Genaro Palacios. The structural metal of which this church was built was manufactured in Belgium and was erected by Belgian engineers . The church was blessed in 1891. As I remember , the Recollect Friars ran a school for boys. The school is still there . I am not sure if it is now co-ed , like the other schools , La Salle, Ateneo and others . In this church , I saw a statue of St . Lucy , patron saint for eye ailments . and St Magdalena of Nagasaki whom I am not familiar with On the side walk , outside the church, I saw vendors of mangoes and singkamas . Flash back , as a young school girl at St Paul’s College , I was tempted to try those goodies during recess . But Mama always warned me of possible contamination in the preparation process. I always listened. Today, I watched them expertly peel and slice . I wanted a taste of the yellow green slices , my mouth watering .Ted warned ” You don’t want to be hospitalized like before , do you ?” I did not want to get into trouble and miss a lot . So, I had to listen.Next stop is Manila Cathedral which is located in the walled city . Driving on Roxas Blvd , brought back so much memories . Luneta, Fort Santiago , Aristocrat restaurant , Rizal monument , Grand Stand , Manila Hotel . Dilapidated buildings and squatter areas are part of the scene on the way to Intramuros . It was painful to behold .The Manila Cathedral is also known as the Metropolitan Basilica of the Immaculate Conceptiom . It is located in General Luna , Manila . This is the 8th structure that was built on this site. The first was made of bamboo and Nipa , built in 1581 . It was destroyed by typhoon in 1582 then by fire in 1583. It was rebuilt in stone. It was destroyed by earthquake in 1600 and in 1645 . It was again rebuilt but it was destroyed by earthquake in 1863. It was rebuilt once again . The center of the cross on the dome is a reference point of the astronomical longitude of the archipelago . During the battle of Manila in 1945 , the church was destroyed . Upon reaching the site , we found that the church is closed to the public . It is under renovation . St Augustine church is located on the same street . This was open . A banner hang saying”440 years of Augustinian ” A calesa , brightly colored yellow and green , was parked outside the church. The fare was 350 pesos . Inside St Augustine ‘s church , I found to my delight , St Monica’s statue . I have never encountered her statue until now . Nuestra Señora de La Concepcion is honored in this church also. The tomb of the founder of Manila , Miguel Lopez de Legaspi is in the easternmost chapel . According to the guide , the terms for the American occupation of Manila was signed in the sacristy and the first plenary council in the Philippines was held in the choir loft in 1953.Back to the hotel to freshen up and get dressed for a big thanksgiving celebration at the Manila Hotel for Fr. Suarez’ 46th birthday. There were about 500 of his supporters in attendance. Manila Hotel is as elegant as I remember it to be . The Decor was distinctly Filipino with Capis chandeliers , carved Narra tables and chairs. A Eucharistic Celebration was held , followed by dinner . I was moved to tears by a slide show presentation of the devastations caused by typhoon Pablo and how the missionaries of Mary , Mother of the poor worked together with others to rebuild churches and homes . They ministered to the victims giving them love and hope . Lynne Mariano ___________________________________________________________________________
Happy Mother’s Day From Lynne: “Time out “was what was utilized by our generation ie Confine to the room or sit in the corner “.You are grounded” were the most feared words for a teenager .No belts used or tsinelas on the buttom.My grandfather on my father side came from Spain . I remember seeing a picture of him when I was little . He was white . Wearing a white suit and beneath his picture “
“Don Agustin Aguilar “. I did not find out from my papa , my Lolo’s ancestry .
I know nothing of my grand parents from my mother’s side.
My mama’s maiden name is Serrano .
Likely of Basque origin also.
My mama once told me that “A mother’s love is the greatest of all human loves” .
My grandfather on my father side came from Spain .
I remember seeing a picture of him when I was little . He was white .
Wearing a white suit and beneath his picture “
“Don Agustin Aguilar “. I did not find out from my papa , my Lolo’s ancestry .
I know nothing of my grand parents from my mother’s side.
Yes, Joey , this topic started by Lew , makes me nostalgic .
Both lolas passed away before I was born and both Lolos passed away when I was little . Being a Lola myself now, I realize how much loving I missed as a child .
Our grandkids are very blessed indeed .
I note how our classmates are so devoted to their grand kids.
It is heartwarming .
With regards choleric temper .
Both my parents were mild mannered and soft-spoken
My papa was a man of few words.
Their children including me , inherited those traits .
Our house when I was growing up was peaceful . No big fights .
Our 4 sons inherited same .
No big fights at home while they were growing up.
No , Lew , I don’t have a choleric temper.
But , yes , there was an incident or 2 ,when I was pushed to the limit and I got really mad with a capital M.
Ted is the same way in terms of temper.
Slow to anger . But, can get mad too ,with a capital M.
Your Mom was wise to keep the family together, to be with your dad wherever his job was. Her “brood” learned to adapt , ie , resiliency and flexibility .
“ONLY AND ONLY IN THE PHILIPPINES”, came back to me, vividly )
The familiar name and number, in purple, seemed to leap out from the back of the jersey –that yellow jersey of LA’s famed basketball team.The name spelled B-R-Y-A-N-T, the number, 24. The guy wearing it, though, was neither in LA nor a tall lanky basketbolero. Far from it. He was half a globe around away and way, way too short to be a Laker (which does not necessarily mean he does not play the game at all). Anyway, at this particular moment he really was NOT playing basketball. Rather, he was stationary, standing, facing a concrete wall, head tilted back, as if something reeeally interesting at the top of the wall merited his undivided attention, though all that was there were multicolored glass shards imbedded permanently and whorls of barbed wire…. deterrents to would-be wall-scaling trespassers and “akyat-bahay” thieves.
Both hands down, a plume of smoke wafted from a cigarette dangling from his mouth, his back to traffic.
Not playing basketball at all, but, hey, was he dribbling? Perhaps?
Then…that familiar body wiggle and shake ! You guys know what I’m talking about.( BTW do gals do this body shaking and wiggling as well? Someone, TELL ME ! Pardon me ladies, for the curiousity) One arm made a pulling up motion. The dude turned around and nonchalantly walked away, whistling a tune and alternately drawing from his cigarette. “LAKERS”, the front of the jersey said.. Together with the jersey he wore an airy pair of loose shorts and the ever popular “sipit” tsinelas. Now, very visible was a watery mark he had created on the lower part of the wall. On the sidewalk pavement…..a puddle ( a miniature LAKE?)
Nearby was a pile of basura. Flies were hovering and circling about. Mango and pakwan refuse strewn all over had attracted them. A sign crudely scrawled on the wall which the dude had previously blocked partially while “doing his thing” had by now become visible… (This Laker indeed did……dribble and block) The sign said ….”BAWAL ANG OMEHE DITO” Though obviously misspelled it was of course easily understandable and should be heeded. But, NO!
I kept my mouth shut about what I had just witnessed. I would not want to cause embarassment to the gals with me in the car.. my wife with me in the back, my younger daughter in front and my niece, driving. I was hoping they did not take notice of the act the Lakers dude just did.
(BTW I was going to drive, but my niece, from Manila, insisted on driving, wanting to experience the drive from Manila to Mataasnakahoy. After all, it was her car.)
Now, we were leaving the residential part of town.
We cruised along. Every now and then a vehicle would cross the median and go against traffic flow, on the other side. Wrong way driving. “Nagka-counter flow” as it is popularly known and done here. They wove from one lane to another. They darted .. They passed with reckless abandon and as they did so one could’nt help but spot on the back of their vehicles that familiar query which goes …”HOW’S MY DRIVING? Call this number” Really !! Are they bragging about the way they drive ?
Motorists seemed they just could not stand seeing a space created in front of a slower-moving vehicle. Said space would immediately be filled in by another vehicle that would suddenly materialize and daringly dart in to fill the gap. Whoooosh !! I call these drivers the “Nature Drivers” since this always reminds me of – you’ve heard the saying: It goes…”Nature abhors a vacuum.”
As we approached one intersection we came to a halt. We got stuck here for what seemed like forever. Ahead, traffic was at a standstill, “nagka buhol-buhol”. “Ngusuan” (Ngusuan both with with vehicle fenders and with lips as well) Fists were shaken; fingers pointing; heads shaking amidst yelling and honking. Next to our’s was a neat-looking, well-polished new car, occupied by five or six guys.College student-looking, clean-cut, young men, neatly-dressed in their uniforms. They were rather boisterous, loud and looked like they were having lots of fun. Was it because of the traffic situtation?. No. That’s just the way it goes whenever guys
get together “in a pack”. Been there, done that !!
Then one of the guys excitedly called the attention of his companions, pointed to us in that characteristic Pinoy way (with his nguso ! ) No, I take that back. Not “us”. Not me, not my wife. Rather he pointed to my niece and my daughter. The guys rolled their windows down and hollered….”Helloooo” followed by whistles, hoots !! The girls ignored them, or, pretended to.
Out of nowhere someone just started directing traffic (on his own). He, by his looks, was not a traffic enforcer or anybody with authority to have anything to do with traffic enforcement. He was one of the numerous bystanders- wearing short pants, sando and the ubiquitous sipit tsinelas. He was unsteady of gait, red of face and had that sleepy-eyed look of someone who had just indulged in “the spirit” (not the Holy One ! ).
He pointed one way, then the other. He waved forward and back. To top it all he even had a “silbato” which he blew on with such display of authority. Voila! It worked. The “buhol-buhol” slowly eased up and everybody went on his merry way.
The young ‘uns in the new car waved at us ( I mean at the girls) and sped away having a clear stretch of road ahead. On we cruised along. My daugther expressed amazement at how her cousin drove and mumbled something to her. I thought I heard her use the words “white” and “knuckles” in the same sentence and complimented the cousin for her driving skills.
The volume of traffic as expected eventually got heavy; the flow, unbearably slow. Like molasses in January. (Only in a tropical setting). Pedestrians crossed…at will, whenever and wherever they pleased. Motorcyclists wearing jackets ( you’ve seen them ) back side in front, snaked through tight squeezes. They would zip and zoom and zig and zag in between vehicles so close abreast the occupants of one could shake hands with those of the other. And then there was this dude changing a flat tire right there…I could’nt believe it,…right there …on the road…in the way of traffic!. Tricycles heavily laden with vegetables wobbled on the way to the market. Young little girls, hawking leis of beautiful, immaculately white Sampaguita, knocked on car windows as well as dirty-faced kids so little their eye level was below car window level, begging. My daughter rolled her window down, handed the kids and the Sampaguita vendor some money. She was handed back several leis of the Sampaguita. She rolled the window back up, dangled and sniffed the leis and wide-eyedly looked back at us, utterly delighted, and surprised with the rich, sweet fragrance she was unfamiliar with.
Eventually we hit SLEX. As my niece rolled her window down to pay toll at the booth guess who would be there paying toll as well. “The Guys” The college guys. As they rolled their windows down they yelled in unison…….”Hellooo again, mga Tisay” Then, boisterous laughter !! “Huh?” my daughter wondered. Her cousin had to explain to her what that was all about. “Oh”
Southward on the highway we travelled, at a good pace this time, although every now and then a congestion would be encountered, which would prompt some motorists to pull to and speed up “on the shoulder” of the highway. “There! Eat my dust !”…they seemed to be saying to the more patient ones.
As we hit the last Laguna town before Batangas we made an exit from the highway for snacks….tons of them all over the place, espasol, suman, buko, buko pie, fruits, lots of them colorful mouth-watering tropical fruits ! Gobs of other food items. Wow ! Don’t forget the Penoy and the Balut!! (no thanks, I never had a liking for Balut)
Then, out of the blue my daughter asked her cousin…..”What does bawal ang YOU ME HIGH mean?” (that was how it sounded) as she pointed to a sign written on the wall. We all looked at the sign scrawled on the wall. (This time it was “spelled correctly”). To this, her cousin pulled the car to the side of the road, put it on park, burried her face on the steering wheel and howled and “convulsed” with laughter, at the same time hitting the dashboard top repeatedly with one hand. Recovering from this after a good while she lifted her face teary-eyed from laughing so hard. Everyone but my daughter was laughing. After some explaining, she laughed with us and then commented….”Oh, I saw one guy doing it, back in Manila, but did not say anything” “So, did I”, said her cousin, “but did not sayanything either.
I did not want to embarass you”
Now everyone was laughing. Hard !! A real hearty laugh !!. Just bacause of that little sign, that sign warning the would be puddle (little lake?) makers ….. the LAKERS !
Freddie
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Happy Mother’s Day From Lew:
Good Sunday morning to all.
Cloudy and rainy here, foot gouty. I’m indoors just cogitating. And reminiscing. Me share with y’all, OK? I may just ramble on and on, so be free to delete or ignore. Still, let’s see if this might appear to have a hook, pitch and slant. Nah, I know what Mom will say: ” Anak, that’s useless talk.”Mom passed on at 92 in 2006. Outlived Dad by 29 years. Tough woman. Full of wisdom and common sense. Very headstrong. Very strict. So punitive. So exacting. You’re dead on the spot for breaking the commandment: ” no fighting. So straightforward. Shoots from the hip. Called spade a spade. To her black was black, white was white. And don’t you ever dare tell her a lie. And don’t you ever try to deceive her. You tell the truth and stand right there for Judgment Day and “hello” Purgatory. There was no room for errors. I became a perfectionist and a day-dreamer.Purgatory as we all know in the Philippines came in many sizes and shapes. She would never hit you on the head. She respected what little brain is in there. I always got it on my butt or legs. Pick your executioner instrument. Hands, slippers, belt, or the single coconut midrib stinger. Ha ha, she never pinched me. The nails were for my sisters!Being spanked and castigated by Mom ( yes, it was Mom and Dad never Papa or Mama, never Tatay or Nanay, never Itay or Inay. D’ya git it?) was one of the MOST LOVING EXPERIENCES I ever had in my whole life. She never ceased to explain why she punished me: “I LOVE YOU and I DON’T WANT YOU TO GROW UP BAD”. Eventually I forgot how many times I got spanked. Who cares? It was almost daily. But as the years went by I realized, like finding a DIAMOND in the ashes of the Spanish Inquisition’s lava rocks, that Mom really, really loved me. So I forgave her and thank her for the four hours of death defying “discipline” after I almost drowned in Lupit River outside Bacolod City. I was 9 then. It was summer vacation. I took off with friends while Mom was having siesta. it’s another story.G’day, y’all.About DadThis morning I reminisce on Dad. He should have retired with a rank of General from the Philippine Constabulary. But he opted for the 28-year deal, and no brown-nosing on the politicians. So, there he went, Colonel Cirilo Bayona Hortillosa my Dad and best friend. He retired so young at age 57 or so, just when Marcos was drum beating. Dad had an viable option to ride it out since Gen. Raval was a good friend. Raval was my ninong when I got married. He became Marcos’ aide de camp.Dad was the ever diehard dedicated soldier’s soldier. He was Julius Caesar. It was honor, honesty and integrity down to the last osteoclasts of his sternum. He did not care much for politicians. He just couldn’t geehaw with them. In fact he loathe them. I never did figure out why. But now being as old and “wise” as I am I like to think that I do understand him and I don’t blame him any bit at all. He knew the grief and stultitude of being in a politically compromise command. Politicians in the Philippines flip-flopped. Dad was a solid camagong or narra tree.Dad and I hardly had a tête-à-tête, but his style was a conversation enough for me. I like to think that his vibrations were concordant with mine. He was my role model. Through the years I have always declared that next to Jesus, it was Dad. Not that he was a saint, nor even saintly. But I don’t think it is easy to find a father with Dad’s character fiber. No, we were not clones. I wished I had his disposition. Never got mad at me except once when I bumped his jeep into a coconut tree. ” Gago”, he shouted. I could still hear his voice to this day. Ha! maybe he called the coconut tree stupid for not getting out of my way. He survived Mom’s choleric temper which in itself is a heroic feat. Sorry Mom, I love you regardless.Silly me says G’day to you all. LewPS, about this time in 2005 we flew to Bacolod City. Mom was dying, Katrina was approaching NO. My Mom was a very intelligent Mom.
She loved to tell the time when she topped, aka numero uno, the test in Capiz
or was it in all of Panay Island the test for all first year high school students.
What was it f or? I forgot. Have I asked her what for I don’t recall.
Nevertheless, over the years, in my wonderful youth Mom repeated the story
over and over again. I remember the times when I’d come home for vacation
( about twice a year from age 14 up until college.) Mom would sew while I sat
in front of her just listening on and on to her stories. Aha, wasn’t I doing therapy
already by then? When I think of it now, i realize that Mom never got over such
a mistreatment. Mom, in my current Psychiatric wisdom had Postraumatic Stress
Disorder for many reasons including the stern “discipline” Hispanic style of my
dear old Navarra grandfather. ( no, we’re not kastila or mestizo by features.
Just a few drops of genes and the so-called choleric temperament. )
OK, why was Mom so repetitious? I think she never found closure because
as she always harped, the recognition or honor was taken from her and given
to another girl who was far below her in the scores. Kay saklap. But injustices
were common in the Philippines even when I was growing up.
My olds liked to tell about a Vicente Navarra, an ex-soldier who came in the mid-1800’s
straight from Spain and settled down in Capiz province. Navarra’s are a dime a dozen
there. I see them in Facebook. We have a bi-annual reunion, spearheaded by my Uncle
Bishop Vicente Navarra of Bacolod City. The genealogy was traced back to 5 generations.
Supposed to be the first soldier-immigrant Navarra was Vicente too.
OK back to my Mom.
Mom was a woman of practical sense. When Dad was in the Rock ‘n Roll of his career,
Mom decided, come hell or high water that we move around too. Sure ’nuff we
criss-crossed the Visayan zone plus a little sampling of Luzon. Ah, sweet youth!
We learned good PR, quick fit into a new community, multi-dialects and me
Lew
The importance of this is how Mom impacts my daily
senioritis life. As I grew older, I have become more attention-deficitibilis ( ah, sweet golden days of my Latin years in Peñafrancia Seminary.) I tend to “lose” a lot of stuff nowadays from having ” too many irons in the fire” and from not paying attention. What’s the trick from Mom? Arfilers or safety pins, rubber bands, strings, paper clips botht he little ones and the big black ones that literally clip. Add to that the many sizes and shapes of bolzas or pouches and continers, even used film canisters. Voila! I’m not supposed to lose anything! Generally, I don’t. What’s the big deal? Yeah, I very so often misplace things. Next, Mom’s words of wisdom ring loud and clear. ” Anak, do things have feet?” Lew SUNRISE
Hi Y’all early springtime bees,
I’ll take my chances, pleeze.
Serious or silly Saturday poem?
Let’s play. Ahhhhh, ummmm….
A poem on sunrise photos?
‘Yan Ayayay ay Lynne’s utos.
Very tempting, hey thanks.
Too early, my minds shooting blanks.
Maybe a few more sips of Kopi luwak,
And the tricky subject I will attack!
Ah, but seriously a sunrise is a real thing of beauty.
It’s the Good Lord’s handwriting, pretty witty!
There’s a whole universal story in it.
No need to try so hard to win it.
Lew
A SIMPLE MAN, MY BARBER
Like the sun rays the message spreads out like butter,
Simply put it is nothing but Divine Love, no other.
I have a new barber. he is my kabalen but we are more comfortable talking in Tagalog.
I don’t know why. Maybe because I left my hometown when I was 15 and since then ,been talking
to fellow Filipinos in Tagalog .My younger siblings were young when we moved to the city where
finished schooling at Mapa High( aka Mapatay), that’s a school in Manila , haven’t seen the place.
So my siblings are more comfortable in talking in Tagalog although they know how to speak Pampango.
When I speak with them, it’s a mixture of both dialect,.we throw few English to the mix, only when we all moved to the US.
My barber talks a lot, not politics, not religion and not gossips which I’m sure he knows but mainly about himself.. He does not know I am a doctor but tried subtly to find out what I do. He just asked if I’m retired and when I said no, he did not asked any further. If he knew I am a physician ,for most Pinoys here, their usual comment is they know someone in town who has a lot of patients and have a large house and drives luxury cars. I wonder if this is a Filipino thing, they always find someone better than you,.yes including you dear reader. I hear this often and one of the reason I don’t tell what I do among strangers, particularly Pinoys.If life is a competition, then nobody wins so let’s drop this attitude if we still have some remnants of it. Someone , somewhere whether we know them or not will always be ahead although, that”s a subjective thing. we tell ourselves, not necessarily a reality.
My barber. came from a family of barbers, his father was a retired barber and 2 of his brothers are barbers in California. He proudly speaks of his children , one a nurse, one an X-Ray tech and another the last one still in college studying to be a Pharmacist.He delights in talking about her who he said graduated valedictorian in her high school class and how she thanked her parents in Tagalog with English translations later, when she made her valedictory address. He said his eyes watered but denied he was crying when one of the children
noticed his eyes were red.Truly he was, overwhelmed and thankful he is blessed with, loving and smart kids.
He tells me he used to live in Chicago a place he never wants to go back because of the snow. While he was
there, he went to school as a nurse’s aide and got certified. After he is done cutting hair for the day, ho goes home, eat supper and go to a Nursing Home and work till the next morning. I don’t know how he gets his sleep. He said at night when the patientsleeps, he doze off. He is one simple folk hard working, a simple barber. I like for him to keep talking as I don’t want him to fall asleep.
When he was new in the US, he does not know much of the culture. In Chicago, he was in the mall with his wife when for some reason, his wife told him to bring her purse back to the car. Not wanting to get lost when he gets back, he ran as fast as he could at the mall with a woman’s purse. Even before he got to his car, a pair of security men led chase and asked for his ID and where he got the purse. He said it was his wife’s. He was escorted back to the mall to find his wife who was so shaken when she saw him flunked by two security men. All went well and he learned his lesson not to carry his wife’s purse ever, unless he needs money.
Nowadays, when he is off, his wife and him play the usual apostolic mission which most Filipinos lovingly and perhaps for some grudgingly do. But not for him, he likes to play with his grandson and takes him to the playground and at times to the mall where there are also play area for kids. I asked him, if he ever thought of cutting his mustache. He said no and asked me why. I said you kinda look like a tough guy, taking along your grandson; you could be mistaken, you kidnapped the kid. His grandson is a mestizo. He said, I never thought about that, maybe I should take her mother along. I don’t know how he would look in the mall with his American daughter in law. I would think he would be like a third wheel and his presence, totally unnecessary. He is a simple man, my barber.
JDLeoncio
USTMD70
LOOKING FOR MR. GOODBAR
I was at Philadelphia in the mid 70s, this movie run for weeks.I never saw it,
don’t know the actors or actress but with Google I saw who they were and what is about from
the review. If you were single at the time and so I was, the title might have caught your attention.
Yes, you know how it feels looking for Mr. Goodbar. If you were married by then; well, you have
Mr.Goodbar. If this makes you squirm and say, Hell no!, Calm down, please there is a Mr.Goodbar
in all of us. Did he make you more patient ,more tolerant and made you pray more? Congratulations, he is the vehicle for your sainthood. my wife will be one for putting up with me, please. know that we can’t be Mr. Goodbar everyday.
VIicky* is one quiet lady, her conversation was limited to saying hi or whenever
she request an order or clarification. One day she was at the computerwhile 3 others were standing behind her.looking I’m sure about work and not Match.com.
I walked in and Helen* says, Dr.L,would you help us find a new boyfriend for Vicky?
The assumption is, V’icky’s current boyfriend is well not exactly Mr. Goodbar.
I said, someone as pretty as her should have no problem finding a boyfriend, and maybe why don’t
we send her to Richmond and vie for Miss Virginia, then she would attract more men.
Helen said, yes maybe she might even make it for the centerfold.
I said why not, yes, the centerfold, I did not say that, you did!. This was followed by a
group laughter. Vicky had no comment; she was just smiling. I don’t think she minded the
joke, It‘s one antidote for the doldrums of another day. She does not need Match.com
*not their real names
JDLeoncio
It was our family’s very first trip to RP and we were on our way back to the States. It must have been in a Korean airport lounge, in a quiet area except for game tables which the kids like. We stayed nearby while waiting for our flight.
We were just taking some snacks in one table when one of the kids momentarily strayed out of our sight but we found him in one of the pinball machines busy playing. He was about 12 then.
We came over and saw this other Filipino boy of about 14 loading the machine with coins he picks out from his pocket
We thanked him and asked where are is his parents. He said he came with one parent who at the time was in the bathroom. We could not wait as our flight was due.
He said, our son came over to watch him play and he thought he too might want to play and he let him. using the money he has. Kids make connections with other kids very easy,no thinking, no calculating,
His voice was terse and his eyes glistened holding back emotions saying, they were on their way to the States and that our son reminds him of his younger brother who was left behind.
I thank him and understood him quite well. I left home and came back many years later. A piece of that boy’s life was torn,.and was on a voyage to a country that will change his life he was not yet aware of.
After one leaves the country for the States,one might not come back, months;perhaps many years later and to reconnect is sometimes awkward, and some connections are never the same again.
JDLeoncio
USTMD70
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Standing: L-R: Max and cousin Bobby Laurel
Seated: Bobby’s wife and widow of late Senator Sotero Laurel
at their own Bayleaf Hotel.
Aloha from the lovely couple Ismael and Nora Holipas taking in the island’s fair, balmy air in the oriental sea
A beaming Grace and Yet enjoying Hawaii’s wonderland. Watch out for those waves!
In between those two good-looking Hawaiians add to the pleasure!
Happy Birthday, Pete. Looking good at 72 in paradise!
Our very own beautiful geisha….Phebe
Scott Anthony Rose, grandson of Cecile/Lito Liangco
Evelyn’s grandson, Dylan with his mom
See below: Evelyn’s grand-daughter Kiara
Kira Margullo’s first Holy communion
Lew’s son Jason standing on farthest left
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Grand kids stopping by to wave at Letty C. in Ilocos
Roy, Mila & niece, unknown, Roger&spouse
Max in Rizal shrine
L-R: Roy, Roger Belen, Mila
Noel and Angie G enjoying a typical Israel breakfast. Yummy, yummy!
8th USTMD70 E-Magazine
8th USTMD70 E-MAGAZINE
MARCH 2013
HAPPY EASTER!
Boston Pinoy Jesus Christ Superstar Musical: A Memorable EASTER,Experience by Mini F as told to Cyl Teresa
The Malden Chapter of the Boston Filipino Apostolate (BFA) celebrated the 2008 Easter season with a different theme this year. They presented a Pinoy version of the Jesus Christ Superstar Musical Show on April 13th. It was held at the Social Hall of the St. Joseph Church.
To begin, I’d first like to acknowledge the composer of Jesus Christ Superstar, the genius Andrew Lloyd Webber. His composition is a true magnum opus. It is evocative, passionate and timeless. Although the Resurrection was never presented with the same dramatic impact as the Crucifixion, his Jesus is both human and divine. His Judas is a true tragic hero. Webber brings up issues that continue to challenge our understanding of the Bible. Doubtless, Jesus Christ Superstar is a great, modern classic.
I’d like to remind people that this is what our amateur production was up against.
However, what we lacked in professional experience and resources, we made up in passion and enthusiasm. The songs of our shortened production were chosen to highlight the important events of the Holy Week. Although some of the choices were a little unconventional (did we really need ‘King Herod’s Song’?), others (’Gethsemane’ and ‘Pilate’s Dream’) were inspired.
The casting was excellent. Michael Andree P’s performance in ‘Gethsemane’ would bring anyone to tears. Few could have done a more touching Jesus. Judas (John K) and Mary Magdalene (Rona M), while their roles were smaller than the original play, were still strong in their supporting roles. Even the minor characters were well chosen. I especially like to highlight Caiphas (Joe K), whose improvisation during ‘The Arrest’ helped keep the anachronistic feeling of the play.
Ramon R effortlessly changed his usual smiling demeanor to realistically play the role of a grim and somber Pilate. Danny T portrayed a less sarcastic, more comic Herod. The King Herod dancers gracefully swayed and gyrated to a catchy tune to the delight of the audience. JR P played an enthusiastic and sophisticated Simon Zealot. The band, led by Rev. Jeremy H, carried the show and swept the audience with its spirited performance. Thankfully, the band provided our cues to almost everything. Following Jesus’ triumphant entry into Jerusalem surrounded by an adoring crowd, the scenes of the whipping of Jesus Christ by the Roman guards, His carrying of the cross prodded by a jeering and mocking public and His crucifixion were distressing. During these scenes, the audience watched in silence.
Not that it was all clear sailing. As usual, the production was fraught with unforeseen problems. Fitting in the rehearsals between the choir practice and the Saturday afternoon Mass at the St. Joseph Church never left us enough time and we were always rushing to get out before the 4 PM Mass. Rehearsals in other venues were plagued by missing actors, late starts and unfamiliar surroundings. Extra congratulations should go to our choreographer (Charmaine P) for her dedication and the fact that she actually managed to get any of us ready for the two dance productions. The stage manager (Christine T) made sure that the props, the stage crew, the lights and the sounds were actually there. She was all over the place. The Pinoy community’s appreciation goes to Annie T, the Executive Producer, who made the effort to get us all together for this presentation.
The placement of Jesus and the Apostles in the last supper scene followed the arrangement of the Da Vinci’s famous painting of the Last Supper. It may not be historically accurate but it was artistic and familiar to the audience.
On the other hand, I must really express my admiration to the director (Edel T) for balancing the creative process. She managed to keep us all focused without becoming dictatorial. Yet she also was able to accept suggestions from the rest of us without losing control. She could sometimes be blunt, but she did it with the best intentions. Without her little director’s notes at the end of each rehearsal, we would not have had nearly as good a production as we did.
The day of the play was hectic. A few missed cues, some scrambling that might have been avoided. However, despite the minor fumbling, we managed to get through the play and really show what this celebration means to us. With more adequate costuming, the show would have been spectacular. All in all, the play was a great success, considering the time constraints and the meager experience of the cast.
Originally published at Pinoy Ads CentralMini, a member of the cast, is 5th from the left at the after-party.
POPE FRANCIS EASTER MESSAGE
” …..Be not afraid of God’s surprises. Never lose confidence during the trials and tribulations of daily life, and if (we) have strayed, let God back into ( our) lives. …….Let the Risen Jesus enter your Life. Welcome Him as a Friend, with Trust. He is Life ! If up ’til now you have kept Him at a distance, step forward. He will receive you with open arms… “.
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Ted (with blue shirt) and Lynne (beside him) visited
Fr. Suarez, our healing priest, in rural Iling Island, Mindoro.
Fr. Suarez started the Order of the Missionary of
Mary Mother of the Poor with 23 seminarians.
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LIFE IS GOOD
A happy and blessed Good Friday morning to you all,
Fresh memories of a Good Friday in the Philippines,
etched indelibly in the thirteen year old boy’s impressionable mind.
In the Poblaciòn practically “everything” grinds to a soft buttery halt.
Motorized traffic is kaput. People walk. All radios are silent.
Mostly everyone stays at home, specially the terrorized children.
Myths and superstitions abound even in the local mercado.
” Walang karne, paciencia na hô kayo Mang Ambô.”
” God is dead. The devil and the evil spirits roam the earth “.
” Don’t do anything stupid or risky. You will be sorry.”
” Leave that knife alone. If you get wounded, your ‘ samàd ‘ will never heal “.
Before 1 PM the local church is abuzz and filling to capacity.
Most women with veils on and abanicos have shuffled in.
Wives drag their husbands by the ears tagging them along without mercy.
The heat of early Philippine summer is unbearable.
The Church microphone is tested quickly with a whispered hellooooooooooh.
Then Father Puertollano delivers a “Siete Palabras” with fire,brimstone and sweat.
The women sob. The men bow their heads and cover their mouths with hand.
Some kids still giggle. “Pssst” plus kuròt ni Lola.
The Acolyte wilts under the putî na suot nang mga acolytes. Ahh,sutana?
Dî na bali. He is cool kasi panay tingin doon sa tisay sa first pew. Ang ganda!
The fiery homily is over about 3 PM. After the final prayers, lahat go home na!
Some Lolos and Lolas do the Via Crucis. Father Jorge hears confessions. Same sins.
In the late afternoon the “pasion” is chanted mostly by women in some homes.
It’s the other main event of the day. I didn’t understand any of those wailing.
The men play cards and smoke. The world goes on for Mang Karî.
He has to consume his tubâ before it turns to vinegar. His speech slurs.
The town is spooky even for dogs. They howl with Lola Tikay’s undulating voice.
Lew
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Phebe’s painting of her home and garden in Cagayan de Oro
It’s that day again when we get branded as Catholics.
For us balding men there’s no hiding it.
And once marked I am not supposed to erase it.
” Huwag mong burahin sapagkat ‘yan ay laban sa mga masamâ.”
If I erased it now or later, why get branded in the first place?
Makes no sense.
So I carry it around.
“Hey, you’re Catholic.”
Big whoop! I’m proud to be a Catholic.
Why?
It’s not because of the black cross on my forehead.
It’s the fact that I am one of the elite 1.2 billionaires, ( not money-wise) for
I receive a yearly reminder: ” Memento Homo qui pulvis es, et in pulverem reverteres.”
Yikes, I’m really dust? Stop that vacuum cleaner.
No wonder I have the “Mi-dust touch”!
Everything I touch turns to dust!
No wonder I don’t like to touch people!
And I don’t like to be touched either.
Cuidaw, Dudes and Dudettes, “NOLI ME TANGERE! “So, OK I digressed.
Back to the CROSS-INVITATION-REMINDER.
Again it is not the Cross on our forehead which marks us.
Rather it is the CROSS marked in our HEARTS and MINDS.
JESUS invites us on a daily basis.
“If you love me Child and you want to be my Buddy, hey follow me.
Take up your Cross. It weighs as much as iPhone 5. So don’t whine or fuss”.More than an invitation, as we grow older it becomes a COMMAND.
At this age Lew Hortillosa y Navarra, M.D., aka Christianuspinoyakus,
realizes that he has NO CHOICE but to follow.
Now wait a minute, not that 3-ton hickory on me back!
“No, silly! It’s the little crosses in life, you must carry.”
What?
” Yep, that’s your VIA CRUCIS and it’s bloodless too.”
Laser crosses, anyone? No worry, the app is already downloaded and etched.Let’s be realistic.
There are big bigger biggest crosses available in the Christian smorgasbord
of “Lord, don’t leave me behind in this supecalifragilisticexpialidocious journey.”
And what’s in your wallet, er on your forehead? Lew
MOMENTS…
(Greg Aglipay on the loose through the time vortex)
By Charles Dunifer, M.D.
“TO POSE OR NOT TO POSE”
It was one of those dreary mid-first semester days that was made drearier by the fact that the only excitement in the horizon is a thought-provoking recitation drill in the subject of Otorhinolarynglology by the professor of note, Dr. Llamas whose primary goal was to turn everybody in his class into some renown ENT specialist! I remember our class’ mood was that of restraint anxiety on who’s to be tested first regarding his wisdom on the subject. Some were having attacks of Bruxims, some were sweating up bullets, and others were restraining some alimentary functions not mentionable in polite conversation, and the beat went on! It reminded me of some Oscar night: “ The envelope please…and the winner is Mr. Gregorio Aglipay! “ The rest of the class fell silent’ most were relieved for not being called though some were concerned because they knew that Greg was unprepared and a lot would fall on them if Greg could not please Dr. Llamas with a good answer.
“Mr. Aglipay, Dr. Llamas started, ‘What is Nasal Obstruction?’ “Greg paled at the question, looking like a lost sheep thinking, “Why Nasal Obstruction?’ I could map out the entire Kieselbach’s Plexus. I could even trace back where each sinus drain in detail, but Nasal Obstruction? Where did it come from? Greg looked up at the ceiling as if the answer would fall down like mannah from heaven on a silver platter. He looked Eastward, then to the West all this time whispering, “Nasal Obstruction” like his personal mantra. It so happen that , a Peter, Paul and Mary number from some radio outside waywardly drifted into our classroom as if hinting to Greg that his number was up, “The answer my friend is blowing in the wind, The answer is blowing in the wind.” Having taken the hint from the song Greg did the unthinkable: He started to pose. He posed like James Cagney. He posed a.k.a. James Dean. Dean. He acted like James Bond. This went on for a good 2-3 minutes! Then Dr. Llamas had had enough and quoted the phrase that would haunt Greg like a spectre for as long as he lives: “POSE KA NG POSE WALA KA PALANG ALAM!”
Years later, in one of our Class Reunions (L.A. 1993), I had the rare opportunity in asking Greg Why did he pose as he did way back then. Greg was with his lady friend then, some girl named Rita who kept on throwing furtive glances my way , but that was another story. Our conversation went along these lines:
Me: Say, Greg, what really made you pose (and posed and posed) way way way back then?
Greg: Look, Chuck, the man POSED me with a question and so I POSED and POSED as my answer. It’s only “Quid pro Quo. Made sense, didn’t it?”
Me: “Well, maybe in your Solar System, Greg !” And we both laughed uncontrollably !
“ BUSY HANDS ARE HAPPY HANDS”
On a separate incident, Greg conveniently forgot to do some reading again for an impending recitation and decided to play Quasimodo with our school bell and stated tinkering with the device disconnecting its wires !
Ever wondered why the four o’clock schoolbell failed to ring one time? It is a tightly held secret (’til now).
I’m tippy toeing back.Lesson learned.
No dollar earned.Watch the blogs.
There are hidden bogs.You fall into one,
You lose your fun.We love ustmd70atyahoogroups.
No matter if we find some oops.Good day to y’all silly geese.
May you all enjoy your cheese.Now smile,
Let it last a mile.
Lew
Bayanihan GK Village Groundbreaking
USTND70 classmates present are President Linda Reyes, Pol Lasala, Danny de Leon, Pura Caisip, Art Jurao, Charlie and May Capati.
First row – Alice Dijamco , Luming ,Suzette Correa, Winnie Lucena , Vicky Co-Dy ,Myrna , Seth Policarpio ,Linda Balatbat-Reyes ,Tessie Aguas, Nilda Balbago ,Pura Caisip
Second row -Charlie, Paul Garcia Ed Capitulo , Manny de Sagun ,Efren Regio ,Tony Dy , Raffy Poblete ,Ato Reyes ,Ping Duran Danny de Leon, Pol Lasala ,Max Basco ,Renato Santos
Pix below: :L-R: Manny De S. Monet, Tony Dy. Vicky Co-Dy. Suzette, Nilda, Efren, Renato Santos, Ping Duran
Subject: Fw: Ronan quoted in Sydney paper, washington post, Seattle times, etc.
Getting old fast comes with presidential seal Sydney Morning Herald ”You see it over a term,” a physician specialising in geriatric medicine at the Cleveland Clinic Ronan Factora, says. ”It’s a good study of chronic … |
OH GOD, GIVE ME THE COURAGE
TO FIGHT MY FEARS,
IN GOD WE TRUST.
Winter Reverie
By Lynne Mariano
The revelers have long been gone
Departed to place unbeknown
Like the ducks , the geese and the swans
Laughter and song from summer past
Echo through the silent ,misty sky
Blue sky shade by clouds of gray
Bare trees stand among the evergreens
Brisk wind blow and chill ,my bare skin
Foot steps abound ,on the white mounds
Paw prints trace a path ,around and round
Silvery water of the lake ,undisturbed
Waves splash on shores abandoned
Snowflakes gather one by one
Blanket tree branches of green .
Oh where have you gone sweet days of summer ?
How swift the time of warm and flowers !
Wasn’t it just yesterday
when the harvest filled the stalls and tables ?
Where lie the golden boughs of autumn ?
Blown by the wind through the valleys and the plains
What lies beneath the silvery lake , I wonder .
Do the fish assemble at the depth of thy being ?
In the heart remember , the joys of friends and lovers
In the depths of winter ,love warms the soul and spirits soar .
Through the days remaining, reverie of spring awaiting
Appearing lifeless , life begins
Buds and bulbs ,asleep awakening
Hope of summers forthcoming
Love eternal , Faith supreme
Forever and ever , God unchanging
Lynne
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Recuerdos de Ohio
myself that her prayer was more powerful that 50$.
Lew
the parish priest of Casiguran, Sorsogon. We stayed at his rectory overnight.
Next to him was the future Fr. Espenilla, the Fr. Virtucio, then in black cassock my
Dad’s best friend Fr. Vilches, assistant priest at St. Anthony. He was cowboy type.
Next was the future Fr. Alforte. Then Jacinto Navea, then Boy Borromeo,then me (Lew).
Brenda and Caloy in South Lake Tahoe, CA
Bo R and his catch___below
JANUARY: Manny De Sagun (4th), Letty Farinas-Calope (5th), Henry Chua (11th), Rechilda Flores-Orlino (12th), Rose Climaco (19th), Jo Bumatay (20th), Nilda Balbago-Ricasa (21st), Luz Duque-Hammershaimb (25th), Joe Bedia (26th) & Puring C. De Los Santos (29th).
February: Pol Lasala (9th), Bing Panlilio-Quiros (13th), Norman San Agustin, Florimond Garcia (both 14th), Happy Valentines to our two Valentinos!, Nestor Reyes (16th), Jerry Cafe, Danny DeLeon (both 21st), Ed Capitulo (23rd) and Ismael Holipas (27th)
March celebrants: Ralph Rances (2nd), Art Venturina (11th), Espie Tinio-Kabatay (12th), Tessie Querubin-Grabato (18th), Chris Cosas (21st), Pat Cruz-Tayao, Ted Mariano (both 23rd), Boy Bautista (25th), and Norma Cunanan-Salceda (31st).
7TH USTMD70 E-MAGAZINE
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FEATURED ARTICLES
WAITING IN THE DARK
The Blessings of Baby Jesus in your personal and family lives. May the realization
of the Redemptive Value of Jesus’ coming etch in our hearts, that deep Gratitude
and Fidelity so illusive anymore in this present day and age.Christmas is, in the other side of religion, about family. So, while keeping an eye on Le Bebé Jesus, I got another eye on my family.
gentleman”. He pursued his career like the Holy Grail. We lived in Manila while
he campaigned against the Huks in Nueva Ecija and Tarlac. After Luzon we moved
to Negros Occidental. Next to Cebu. Then Negros Oriental. From there to Leyte
in 1954. Next Masbate, Dad’s first Provincial Command. In June 1955 I entered
the Seminary at 14 and hardly lived at home since. But I always took a vacation
at home. After Masbate we were back in Tacloban City.
about her whenever I visited the folks in Pandacan. By now she must be a Lola.Sorry for deviating. After Leyte, the Family followed Dad to Samar, then back to
Leyte. After the provincial divvy Dad was assigned to Leyte del Sur where he
opened the first Provincial Command in Maasin.
I was back to UST in 1965. We built finally a small house in Bacolod City. We had
no fortune to speak of, just a lot of prestige, honor and dignity. During the Blue Seal
era, Dad could have amassed wealth. He was chastised by no less than the Sec.
of National Defense for being “uncooperative” aboard a Navy vessel. When Dad
passed on, the City witnessed one of the longest funerals. Dad was one of the last
Icons of Military Righteousness. He opted to retire prematurely on his 28th year,
before Martial Law corrupted many of his colleagues.
commas. Multiple dialects, people met, varied cultural and personal stuff, places
seen, suspenseful, stressful, beautiful events. Ah sweet memories to be told later.
Thank You Baby Jesus for my Dad and Mom. Welcome to our Hearts.
Love lost through the mists of time: a memoir
The names of the classmates involved has been changed for obvious reasons
Decury…Decury…Decury…Docs
(A Romantic Interlude)
1965 was waning down into its December days and the spirit of the holidays hung heavily in the air. Ferdinand Marcos was just elected president the month before. “Thunder ball” was being shown at the Ever theater, and the Beatle written song, “A World Without Love,” as sang by Peter & Gordon, was hitting the airwaves after every other Christmas song.
It was in this background that we spied our heroine, belle, humming a Christmas carol, “Sleigh bells ring are you listening; in the land, snow’s glistening, a beautiful sight…” as she sashayed with determined steps down the pathway toward our Charity Ward, searching for solace in one of the many decuries dotting the “teaching” hospital. Without further ado, she landed herself in one (ah sanctuary, sweet sanctuary) and began to settle herself into some serious review of Biochemistry.
Not a moment too soon, Belle heard a knocking over the transom of the decury entrance. She looked up at the intruder and thought loudly, “OMG, its him! How did he track me down here? Was my perfume “too strong”? Was my humming, too loud, a Lorelei that beckoned him? Did my prohormones hang heavily in the air? Confound it, girl, you got a “crush” on him and he is right in front of you. Then a sultry torch song from one of the patients’ room in front started drifting into the decury as if taunting Belle, mocking her almost, “Oh let it be please be him, oh dear God, it must be him, it must be him or I shall die…”
“Hi, I’m Francis from section B3. Is this one of those time/sharing decuries that I’ve been hearing about lately?“ It was puny excuse to sort of “break the ice.” “Hello, Hello, oh dear God. It must be him, or I shall die.”
“Oh, Hi too! I go by Belle of D1.” “Hmmmm, D1, eh,” Francis thought, “As in the one I have this heavy crush””.
“You’re welcome”, Belle continued, “Grab a seat, but you have to be gentleman, Francis.”. Francis almost blurted back, “A gentleman, come now, Belle, it’s the 60’s. The times they’re a-changing,” but offered his help. “Hey I could help with that nasty biochemistry exams slated for next week if you don’t mind”. “Swell idea, I need all the help I can get,” Belle accepted. I told myself, ” What’s done is done. I told myself don’t be a fool. Play the field. Have a lot of fun. It’s easy when you say it’s done”.
And so, they delved into the wonders of Biochemistry. They discussed the Endem-Meyersoff Cycle, the Urea Cycle, Francis’ new bicycle, etc. and Belle was astounded by Francis’ “stock” knowledge on the subject. “Francis is a Biochemistry maven”, she concluded. Then the phone rang, and I jumped. And as I grabbed the phone, I prayed, ‘Let it please be him, oh dear God, it must be him, if it’s not him so then I die’.” Half the time, she was listening to him and half the time she was imagining words as she stared at his lips. As if he’s saying, “Belle I want to hold you and take you home with me”. For which she’d reply, “Yes, make my day, please! Or I shall die”.
Then her reveries came to an abrupt end as Francis stood up and announced that he had to leave her for some errands.
Then their eyes met, longingly, tenderly, each searching and yearning for signs only the human heart could discern and fathom. His gaze was intense, searing little heart images into her soul and sending her heart into aflutter. Then he offered his hands for the obligatory goodbye gesture and, as they pressed their hands, both felt the warmth the other was willing to offer. “Let it please be him, Oh dear God, it must be him….”
“Hey, we ought to do this more often”, Francis suggested. “We’ll see” was Belle’s reply. Its Christmas, you know”, she continued, “or I shall die or shall die… or shall die…”
“You ought to join the BIORESSO, Belle. There’ll be an exhibition early next year.”
v Meet other people. Will be fun and, of course, Merry Christmas! And with those words, Francis was gone, and Belle was left alone to herself with a faraway look in her eyes. She sighed when an epiphany came to her: “Francis is Him. It must be him, Oh dear God…”
v BIORESSO Exhibit went on February 1966
CHARLES DUNIFER
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Somewhere over the rainbow is Pete Calope.
Madeleine 5, is in grade one
Adrienne 3, youngest
Loren 4, is in kindergarten
GOOD NIGHT ARTHUR
by Mini Festin
It was a sunny October day in New England & I had taken a day off from work. Through our back window, the sunlit golden orange and flaming red leaves sparkled in magnificent splendor.
Over breakfast, I read the good news headlined in the Boston Globe. “Serbs moved out of Kosovo.” I then drove to a local gym for a quick workout. When I returned home at 11am, I had just opened our front door when I heard the phone ringing.
“Hello. This is Mario, Mario Festin.”
“Hi Mario. Where are you calling from? Are you in Boston?”
“I’m in the Philippines.”
“Oh, this must be something important.” My body went into high gear.
“It’s Arthur. Arthur died a few hours ago.” My heart sank.
The dreadful news hit me like a ton of bricks. I was in initial disbelief. Disbelief turned into absolute shock. Then shock into utter grief. Cherished memories of Arthur went through my mind and I began to cry. Nothing, nothing that I could do, would ease my pain over his untimely death. I may not have seen Arthur for 27 years but my memories of him are indelible.
Mommy and Daddy uprooted themselves from San Andres, Romblon, and had just settled in Malate when she became pregnant with Arthur. After WWII, life in Malate was not easy for them since money was scarce.
Her pregnancy with Arthur made her situation worse. She would later say that, while carrying Arthur, she would often gaze at the food shops just to sniff their good aroma because she could not afford them. It was a difficult pregnancy.
Arthur was born in post-war Manila when General Douglas MacArthur and Carlos P. Romulo were household names. Hence, he was baptized “Arthur Romulo Festin”
I can still remember an understanding, unselfish brother who looked very much like a Caucasian boy. His complexion was very light and his hair was blondish brown. Thus, he was often called a “mestizo.”
Growing up with Arthur was one of the happiest times of my life. As kids, we would often amuse ourselves, playing “bahay-bahayan, piko, patintero, marbles, basketball, baseball, checkers, bicycling and mahjong.” It seemed that nothing, whether win or lose, could rattle his usually placid personality. Nobody accused him of cheating so it was fun to play with him. I was saddened when he entered the seminary with our cousin Tony Festin after their elementary education. But he was miserable in the seminary and opted to leave. Tony went on to become a priest and a sought-after gifted speaker.
There was joy in the household with plenty of simple, shared pleasures. He and I would often sing for guests at home. First, I would sing, “The Wedding Song.” He would then follow with an Elvis Presley impersonation of “Teddy Bear” while strumming a ukelele. I had more fun in my childhood than I ever had in my life. Arthur was quite nice to have around.
Since we were only a little over one year apart in age, we were always together like twins. He was not only a loving brother. He was also my best friend. I could always count on him through thick and thin. Sometimes, I would overhear him talk with pride to friends and family about my scholastic achievements. As soon as I passed the medical licensing board, he hung a wooden sign on our gate with the inscription, “Herminia Festin, MD.”
Arthur was Mommy’s favorite. I didn’t mind. I felt he needed her more than I did. He seemed delicate. He was always involved in various business ventures over the years. While working as an accountant, he opened a clothing store at the intersection of Taft Avenue and Remedios St. When the business failed, he turned to selling children’s dresses and explored marketing them in the US. He made arrangements to install an electric plant in Simara island but the lack of a landing dock made the cost prohibitive. Then, he tried his hand in the fish pond business in Tablas island which suffered business losses. Later, he owned a taxi company which proved overwhelming for him. Mommy would sometimes finance his projects. I never asked him why he did these things. The answer seemed obvious. It was not for money. Business enterprises energized him. But he lost interest in them when the going got tough. And that was that.
He was all energy. Sometimes, it was difficult to pin him down. He looked like a man in a hurry. He was in such a hurry to succeed and to pack each moment with adventure that he didn’t leave himself any time to rest. Like my mother, he had big dreams. It was not easy for Arthur to relax sufficiently to enjoy the frivolous and carefree ways of life. Worry came naturally to him, sometimes upsetting his delicate balance.
Tackling more work than he could safely manage was behind much of his tension. He tended to strain himself almost to the breaking point to fulfill his duties. Then his sleep would be restless and he could not completely relax. Ironically, as willing as he was to help others, he did not want to depend on anyone for any reason.
He clearly enjoyed mixing with people. He loved company and could be jolly. From childhood, he always had a small circle of close friends. He loved to help people, especially those in need. He did so much for so many people. There was always enough room and enough love in his heart to welcome relatives and friends to our home. In turn, he often went to relatives and friends’ homes just to come together to share food and fun.
He rarely had an ill-word to say about anybody. On the other hand, people had nothing but good things to say about him. They would remark that, from a distance, they could easily recognize Arthur in a crowd with his engaging smile. There was not a trace of cunning in him. He was trusting at heart, making him somewhat vulnerable to unscrupulous people.
He was much too aware of his own imperfections and would judge himself harshly. Of him, it can truly be said that he was his own worst critic. Yet he was a far better success than he ever thought of himself. What other person could sympathetically listen to your troubles, be tolerant of your faults and still be non-judgmental, pleasant and kind at the same time?
When our parents died almost one year apart, one by one, all of us siblings migrated to the United States, except Arthur. He was left to take care of our real estate properties and to fend for himself. So, when he married Clemens de Veyra (First Lady Imelda’s relative) in 1987, we were delighted. There was now someone who cared for him. He was in good hands. Clemens looked after him with warm affection and loving care.
A tragic series of events occurred in the early eighties that might have been a turning point in his life. After many failed business ventures, he was crushed. He began to suffer from constant worries and pessimism.
At first, we thought his despondent feelings would eventually go away. Little did we know then how much it would seek to dominate his life and how much it would take away from him. The anxieties gnawed away at his inner strength, upsetting his delicate balance. But Arthur remained hopeful of recovery. Recently, he accepted that he had to live his life with suffering. He looked forward to settling in America where “medicine is very, very good” and he would finally be cured.
His immigration papers were finalized. In a month, he would be in the United States. He and Clemens would rejoin the rest of our family, some of whom he had not seen for quite a while. We would be one close family again in the United States.
But that was not to be. His life was cut short on October 9, 1998. He was found severely injured in Taft Avenue below an elevated monorail, not far from our house in Indiana St. Witnesses allegedly saw him fall off the elevated train station. He sustained a skull fracture and several broken bones. One and a half hours later, he succumbed to his injuries in the Philippine General Hospital. His death came like a thief in the night. I could just imagine what went through his mind as he was falling. I was just glad it was a quick death.
Did he jump, fall or miss a step? Did the train run over him? Did he lose his will to go on living and decided to end it all? Most unlikely. There was no suicide note. In fact, he was upbeat as he looked forward to the golden wedding anniversary of his parents-in-law. Was his reaction time compromised? Did he suffer a heart attack or a stroke? Was he pushed? Or was he a victim of robbery and assault? He had just come out of a bank in Taft Avenue where he withdrew some money. When he was found, his wallet was empty and P5000.00 was missing. The cause remains a mystery up to now. No matter how we slice it, these details are no longer relevant. All we can do is pray for him.
In my last conversation with him sometime ago, he said, “I get by with little sleep and I have little control over it.” He often visited our parents’ grave site for comfort and solace. I reminded him that he should consider himself blessed. As he suffered, he was sharing in the suffering of Christ which, to a person of faith, is an enviable position.
It is not easy to express a sense of devastating loss of a loved one. John Donne gives voice to my feelings with his famous 12th -century poem that goes this way.
“No man is an island, entire of itself, every man is a piece of the Continent, a part of the man. Any man’s death diminishes me because I am involved in Mankind, and therefore we never ask for whom the bell tolls, it tolls for thee.”
Arthur is part of mankind. Like a piece of island that separates from the continent and changes its geography, the death of a man sends ripples to the rest of humanity. Today, the church bell tolls not for him but for us.
I have never been so proud of him as the day I left for the United States. I can still picture him, quiet, dreamy and serious, as we hugged and exchanged goodbyes before I boarded the plane. It seemed not so long ago. He had awakened early before anyone else to make sure my suitcase was correctly packed. He made sure that all my tickets were in order and I was well-nourished. He provided me with cash money and carried my luggage. He drove the whole family to the airport. While others worried that I was leaving for a foreign land by myself, he was happy for me to be moving to greener pastures. We didn’t see each other again.
Arthur has patiently walked many miles through life. He died unexpectedly before his time. He has gone to a place where there is no return. He has reunited with Mommy and Daddy as they walk together in the gardens of Heaven. He now rests in peace with the Lord.
Arthur, you will never truly leave us.
You will live on in the kindness you have shared,
And the love you brought into our lives.
What a pity. You left us much too soon. We miss you so much, Arthur.
THE PEREZ FAMILY
Third row: Arthur between Mom and Dad who is carrying him. Mini sitting on farthest left, front row. Her sister Lolly sitting farthest right. Uncle Manoling (former Romblon Governor Manual Albero) is seated farthest right, second row.
Addendum: Joe Cosas endorsed generously his earnings from sales of his CD to the slush fund. This was made possible by classmates such as Alice D, Lynne M and Mini F.
To order CDs from Joe, visit JoeCosas.com. Cost of CD: $10.00
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BACOLODAre you “home”sick?
Where is your “home”?
What is there that makes you homesick?
Maybe I was homesick.
Maybe I’m just curious how the old place looks from the sky.
You know all my life I wanted to see what the world looks like from the sky.
Now with the satellite technology I am in bird’s-eye-view heaven.
Below is the Plaza of Bacolod City my home as a child.
The tile artistry at the center is pre WWII.
From the center of the plaza’s fountain, move straight up, see the cathedral rooftop.
I can still picture in my mind the beggars hanging out at the entrance. Some were blind or maimed but all had tattered clothes.
Scroll down and you will see downtown Bacolod City.
Notice the cars. They make me wonder how Quiapo traffic looks.
Downtown mall at 9 o’clock. Opposite at 5 o’clock, white roof is Central Market.
Most of my home made toys came from the market.
Torompo = top. Tirador = slingshot. Sigay = sea shells.
So what’s in your wallet? Er,home town?
Lew
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JONELLE MARGALLO, LOVELY DAUGHTER OF LUCIO MARGALLO, AFTER PERFORMING AS MARIA/ROSALIA IN ” WEST SIDE STORY.”
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OCTOBER CELEBRANTS: Luz Marcelo (10/1), Pete Ilagan (10/4), Luz Bunuan (10/9), Federico Gatchalian (10/7), Ernesto Dy (10/13), James Zipagan (15th), Gil Marasigan (15th), Glo Montinola (17th, Suzette Correa (20th), Charles Dunifer (20th), Lucio Margallo (22nd), Dado Castillo (25th), Raffy Poblete (30th), Florante Lomibao (31st)
NOVEMBER CELEBRANTS: Joey Leoncio (3rd), Connie Arceo (7th), Neneng Gayos (9th), Noel Guanzon (11th), Charlie Capati (14th), Mirla Manito (15th), Mags Tiamson, (15th) Carmelita Mirabueno (19th), Isagani Laurencio (21st), May Capati (24th), Roger Belen
DECEMBER CELEBRANTS:Rancie Ragon-Tolosa (8th), Edgar Esplana (10th), Manny De Leon (13rth) Evelyn Austria (21st), Ed Quiros (17th), Roger Liboon (18th), Jessie Navarro (17th), Victorina Co-Dee (22nd). Jess Policarpio -De la Cruz (25th),, Efren Regio (25th), Fay Barr (26th), Boyski Ferrer (28th).Fay Barr (26th), Boyski Ferrer (28th)
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From top: Sherborn MA, L-R: Evelyn A, Mini F, Luzbella M
Atlanta Reunion: Ando, Cris, Annabelle, Grace
The Three Musketeers: Ando, Yet and Cris
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Naples Reunion:
L-R: Caloy and Brenda, Gally, Suzette (high school classmate), Marilou, Roland (Suzette’s spouse)
Washington, DC mini-reunion 9.2912
L-R: Bene, Yet, Marietta & Dom Java
OHIO MINI-REUNION
L-R: Gabby, Puring, Myrna, Deng in Dayton, Ohio
Dayton Ohio Mini-reunion: L-R: Puring, Phebe, Carmelits, Deng, Myrna
PRESIDENT ROSE CLIMACO (3RD FROM RIGHT) DURING HER INDUCTION TO THE PILIPINO AMERICAN ASSOCIATION OF FAMILY PRACTICE.(PAAFP). Roger Liboon is the first Vice President of PAAFP.
Emergency Assistance Fund Update:Lucio Margallo is the new Chairman as Yet Dizon steps down.Board of Directors: Ledy Dizon, Yet Dizon, Gally Grajo, Phebe Lim, Puring Cruz-De Los Santos
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Dear ClassmatesDuring early November, I individually emailed all our classmates in the US regarding their pledges of support and let others without pledges of support know about our legacy project. I followed this up with telephone calls to those who pledged. I am very happy to report that so far we have gotten very favorable responses and continued strong endorsements for our project.I am very thankful and appreciative to have received very generous donations from Lucio Margallo, Gloria Uy, Roger and Lita Liboon, Ruby and Pio Vilar, Lolita Echaluse Chiong, Norma and Harry Salceda, Evelyn Gonzalez-Abola. Mike and Nieves, Efren, Ritchie and Elmo, Joe and Marife Leoncio, Dado and Cora and additional contribution from Pol and Marilou Polintan. More contributions are at this point in transit. I am very optimistic that we will reach our goal of $80,000 very soon.I would encourage those who have not acted yet to join so we can include more poor families within the USTMD70 GK Village. Please write your checks to GK USA and memo below for: USTMD70 Legacy GK Village and send it to Carlos P. Capati. For any questions please email me or call at 217-433-6020.Thank you so much and God blessCharlie and May CapatiUSTMD70 Class Legacy GK Village Coordinators.
Naples Reunion: Charlie C, Butch Gozo, Gally Grajo
Maestro, give me a C.
Last month’s photo: Lynn Mariano
Seated: Pura, Danny De Leon, Paul Garcia, Ato Reyes, standing: Monet, Linda, Victorina Co, Mel Reyes, Angie Miguel, Pol Lasala, Raffy Poblete, Ping Duran
FROM YET DIZON
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6th USTMD70 E-Magazine
SIXTH USTMD70 E-MAGAZINE
September 30, 2012
FEATURED ARTICLES
EXPLORING THE LAND WHERE HE WALKED
April 11, 2012
Delta flight 268 left New York city JFK airport 5 minutes late. A person who was supposed to be on board did not show up. For security, his luggage was unloaded from the aircraft.
It was a nine and a half hour ,non- stop flight to Tel Aviv. Being spring break, there were mostly young people including young children and infants aboard. The arrival at the Ben Gurion airport was on Thursday, April12, 2012 at 1:46 PM local time. Israel is 7 hours ahead. At the airport , I received a text message from Verizon reminding me to turn off my data services as it would cost me$20.48 per megabyte. Calls would be $1.99 per minute. To send a text message would be .50 cents, to receive would be .05 cents. I deleted all accounts and apps from my iphone to avoid these outrageous expense.I will use my laptop at the hotel where there is free WIFI. Text messaging would be the best way to keep in touch with friends and family back home.
Going through immigration and customs was surprisingly easy. No custom declarations to be filled. Bags were checked at random. We were lucky to pass through without being inspected. The taxi ride to our hotel was, likewise easy. No traffic. No buses . Just taxis. A few cars.None of the hustle and bustle that we are accustomed to ,in any big city scene.
I wondered why this city seemed to be sedate.I found out later that it was the eve of the feast of the Passover. “It will be quiet until after the Sabbath, ” the receptionist informed us.
The taxi ride cost 150 schekels. One dollar equals approximately 3 schekels.
The wind was crisp as we strolled down the promenade.The sun was about to set on the horizon over the Mediterranean sea. The view was similar to Wallaston beach in Boston .
It was a 30 minute walk to Old Jaffa where St Peter’s church is. It is here in Jaffa where Jonah was supposedly swallowed by a whale. And, it is here where Tabitha was raised from the dead by St. Peter. Jaffa is one of the oldest port in the world. It is said that the cedars that were used to build the Holy Temple passed through Jaffa on the way to Jerusalem.
We returned to the hotel around 9 PM local time. It is about 2 PM, US time .
At 7 AM, a tour bus will take us to explore Jerusalem and the birthplace of Jesus, Bethlehem .
April 13, 2012: Experiencing Jerusalem and Bethlehem
An amazing city which is close to the hearts of Christians, Moslems and Jewish alike .
It is the largest city in Israel. On the top of the Mount of Olives, one can see the city of Jerusalem.The Garden of Gethsemane was on the way, going down the mount. The old Jerusalem has 4 quarters :the Moslem quarters, being the largest, the Jewish quarters, the Christian quarters and lastly , the Armenian quarters . It is the smallest .
The Stations of the Cross began in the Moslem quarters going uphill. The Via Dolorosa was lined with stores and side walk vendors for the most part. Nevertheless, walking through it was an emotional experience. I gazed at the stone where Jesus sat as He was crowned with thorns. My tears flowed uncontrollably. The 4 remaining stations were inside the Holy Sepulcher Church. Immediately upon entering , one notes a pink marble slab where Jesus laid as His body was prepared for burial.
The Greek Orthodox church, the Roman Catholic Church , the Armenian Orthodox Church and the Egyptian Coptic Church have their altars or chapels within the Holy Sepulcher Church .The crowd was large for the Good Friday services for the Orthodox churches.
But it was a well behaved crowd. There were Israeli soldiers with guns securing the area.
We ambled slowly and carefully on the uneven stone path through the Armenian quarters & Moslem quarters towards the Western wall in the Jewish quarters .
There was a big crowd at the square, being Feast of the Passover. It was touching to see the families with young children and older individuals. I presumed grandparents too catered to the little ones, pretty much like in the Filipino culture. Men, women and children approached the wailing wall with utmost reverence. I too found myself doing what the Jewish faithfuls do. I approached the wall, in the women section. I placed my hand on it, laid my forehead on the back of my hand and prayed until I cried. People were crying silently. I heard an occasional sound of crying, but not wailing. Then, I walked backwards like everyone else did. It is God the Father that the Jewish people are praying to, after all. We have a strong connection.
Beth means house. Lehem is bread. Our tour guide is an Israeli and therefore, not allowed to go into Bethlehem. At the border, we were met by a Palestinian guide who escorted us through the security check. There is a walled pathway that led into the city of the birthplace of Jesus.The Church of the Nativity is built on top of the original site of the manger.
The door to the church is low and narrow . One had to stoop down to enter. “A symbol of humility ” our guide explained. Three denominations share the church. Namely, Greek Orthodox , Roman Catholics and Armenian Orthodox .This is the oldest church in the country. It was built in the fourth century by the mother of Constantine the Great, St Helena. In the 6th century, it is said that the Persians destroyed all the churches in the land except this. The nativity scene painting depicting the three wise men from the East in Persian attire, spared the church. Majority of population in Bethlehem are Arab Moslems . A small percentage are Christians.
Because of the Orthodox Church ‘s Good Friday services, it was difficult to navigate within the church .There was a two-hour wait to enter. People were getting impatient when a group of young people jumped the line . Our tour guide tried to tell them to go back. But they refused to budge. I felt uneasy because they were carrying candles to light at one of the altars. I let them in before me against the guide ‘s instructions.
However, I could not hold my tongue when a man behind me started to demean the tour guide saying that the place is not Holy Land. He said that it is a sad and miserable place where there was always conflict. I turned around and asked him nicely if he was a Christian. He indicated that he was not. I then, explained that for us Christians, Bethlehem is a Holy Land because Jesus, our God, was born here. He patiently waited like everyone else. And he stayed quiet for the rest of the tour. Exiting Bethlehem was not too bad. One has to show one’s passport.
We stopped for a snack and “bio break” at a Kibbutz community. There are many Kibbutz communities all over Israel. For over a century, the Kibbutz has played a vital role in the growth of Israel. A kibbutz is an organization consisting of people who live together. Everyone worked 8 hours a day. In return, they are provided everything they need. Housing, food, clothing, medical care, education for themselves and their children, entertainment and leisure are paid for by the community. Each person worked in agriculture, factories, restaurants and hotels owned and ran by the community. No matter what one does, be it a farm hand or a doctor, one gets what one needs.There is no salary.
The drive back to Jerusalem and to Tel Aviv was uneventful. Through the hills and valleys, Arab towns and business centers, the guide called our attention to landmarks like Golgotha, Jewish, Christian, Moslem, cemeteries, mosques, churches and synagogues, universities and hospitals. Being Passover, there was no traffic. Everything was closed for the holiday and the Sabbath. On the promenade in Tel Aviv, we found a restaurant that was open. The dinner of St. Peter’s fish and chicken livers were a delightful ending to a most spiritually fulfilling day.Tomorrow, we will take a dip into the Dead Sea and take a cable car to view the Masada restoration, immersed in mind of a king and the mysterious waters of the Dead Sea .
Masada by Lynne
April14, 2012-
It is mind boggling how this ancient fortress was constructed in the Judean desert. It is said that this was erected in the First century BC. King Herod the Great suffered from paranoia. He built the fort which was, by and large, inaccessible to invaders . The expansive structure on an the 18 acre site was self-sufficient and opulent. The Northern palace had 3 levels. It had baths, sauna, storage for abundant supply of food and other provisions. An elaborate water system of canals and cisterns provided for the needs and more.
The Western palace was the administrative base and guest house. The palace fortress sits on top of a mountain overlooking the Dead Sea. The breeze from the Dead Sea provided a natural cooling system to the hot desert climate. The engineering skills of the designers and builders alike was evident throughout. It is hard to envision how the knowledge and skill came about. It is impressive.
After Herod’s death in 4th century AD, it became a monastery. There is a Byzantine chapel whose design and artifacts date it to the 5th-7th century AD. During the Roman occupation, the rebel Jews sought refuge in Masada . There is a space excavated that appears to be a synagogue . The Romans camped at the foot of the mountain for 2 years, waiting for the Jews to surrender. The Jews did not. There was ample food and water supply. The Romans decided to build a ramp from the foot to the top. It took them 11 months to finish. When they finally entered, they found corpses all over. It is not allowed in Jewish law to commit suicide. They planned their deaths so that only the last person would commit suicide. They rather die than surrender to the Romans.
The Masada restoration is ongoing. It is of interest to many tourists who are taken by cable car to the top. Many hike down . But a cable car will take you back down if hiking down the arid desert is not within your ability .
We had a good, long view of the Dead Sea as we drove past it, heading to Masada .
It looked so mysterious. There is a haze over it.The haze let up around noon. No life can exist in the Dead Sea. No fish, no plants, no bacteria, I think. The salt content is such that no life is possible. It is said that it is 9 times saltier than the ocean. It is 1,373 feet below sea level. The Jordan River flows into the Dead Sea. But the Dead Sea has no outlet. It is said that this is the reason for its high salt content of 32%. The recent lack of rain in Northern Israel caused shrinking of the Dead Sea and the Sea of Galilee. Because of agricultural and other activities, water from the Jordan River is diverted away from the Dead Sea.
The arduous tour of the Masada made us eager to be refreshed by the waters of the Dead Sea. The beach is rocky. One has to wear foot protection, I found out. But beyond the rocks, it was more comfortable to the feet. There was sand beyond the rocks.The water was cool . No, it was not slimy and yes, one floats.There were no boats. It will capsize . One needs a very heavy boat .
Everyone was laughing and giggling around me. Young, old, middle age . Wow! It may be the Dead Sea. But, one is not so dead when in it , I thought. It is a happy sea! I marveled at how the young and the old excitedly coated themselves with dark sticky mud. “Good for the skin and arthritis,” No thank you. Floating in it is good enough for me. But Ted ? Yes, he will try everything. A good shower is a must after that.There was not much privacy in the showers. One has to bring toiletries and towels.
The Judean desert hills tower and command much thought as we drove back to TelAviv. It too is as mysterious as the Dead Sea.The Dead Sea scrolls were discovered in one of these hills. John the Baptist lived in this area. So they say. But how did he get to the Jordan River? Bedouins are nomad Arabs. They live in tents in these hills. Was John the Baptist a nomad too? It is a long way from these hills to the Jordan River’s north end which is up Northern Israel in Galilee. One notes rows of palm trees in the desert. Our tour guide informed us that this type of dates was imported from Saudi Arabia. The tree is much taller than the native ones. And the fruit has a higher sugar content.
We fell asleep on the bus. We had a hectic day in the mountain and in the sea. It was still light when we reached our hotel. The Filipina ladies on tour with us gave directions how to get Filipino food. “Take bus # 4 to the Central bus station,” they said. We took a taxi . The taxi driver who was a woman about 60 had no idea where a Filipino restaurant would be in the Central bus station. We got off there anyway. There were many Asians at the terminal. We eavesdropped at their conversations hoping to hear Tagalog spoken. Finally, we found a group of them. They directed us to where the Filipino stores were. We were pleasantly surprised to find several stores and many Filipinos shopping and dining at the turo-turo. I checked it out . I could not resist having a taste of “Bopis”. “It is warm, still freshly cooked,” she said. White rice , pancit palabok, bopis.That was dinner. And free cup of broth for each of us plus “Halo-halo ” for dessert. We sat at the table with 2 Filipino ladies. They were eager to chat with us and share their life with us, their hopes and their dreams. It seemed that they were satisfied with their life in Israel. Their employers are kind and generous to them. Most are caregivers. There are nurses also apparently. What is amazing is that they spoke fluent Hebrew. A complex language. It disappeared for over a thousand years. About 100 years ago, it was revived.
I find Israel fascinating. I feel peaceful and at home. I feel its heartbeat. I am falling in love. It was dark when we left the Central bus station .We took a taxi back to our hotel. It cost 30 schekels . The bus fare is 3 schekels per person. Perhaps in the daylight, we can be brave enough to take the bus. As I closed my eyes , I wondered if I will ever learn to speak Hebrew.Tomorrow, we will proceed to Tiberia where we will stay for the rest of our vacation.
From Lynne Mariano’s Holy Land Diary
- A VACATION WORTH MORE THAN WE BARGAINED FOR
In 2005, my husband Fred and I vacationed in Edgarton, MA for a week. Edgarton in Martha´s Vineyard was spectacular and expensive. First, we took a Bonanza bus ride from the Boston South Station to Woods Hole in Cape Cod. The bus trip took one hour and a half along the very scenic countryside of Massachusetts. In Woods Hole, we caught a Steamship Authority ferry to Oak Bluffs in Martha´s Vineyard. The smooth ferry ride lasted about one-half hour. The cost of the trip from Woods Hole to Martha´s Vineyard was 39 dollars/person. We landed at Oak Bluffs, a town adjacent to Edgarton. A taxi delivered us right to the doorstep of Daggett House for 12 dollars. Martha’s Vineyard had an airport so the island was also accessible by air. The trip from our home in Lexington, MA to Daggett House took five hours door to door!
Daggett House was conveniently within walking distance to the bus terminal. The 16th – century Daggett House was relatively inexpensive for one hundred fifty dollars a night. The going rate for a night in the town was $350. Daggett House, located on Waters St., overlooked the fabulous Edgarton harbor. One of Daggett House’ perks was its short walk to the busy waterfront of Edgarton. Furthermore, Daggett House was next door to the public library where a person may sign up for 15 minutes of free e-mail use. There is usually a 15-person queue to use one of its four computers. In contrast, a nearby cybercafe charged 10 dollars for 30 minutes and there was no waiting.
Oak Bluffs and Vineyard Haven rooms cost about 1/3rd less than Edgarton. There were more people in these neighboring towns. One could smell and feel the sea breeze anywhere in Edgarton, We were mesmerized by the abundant flowerbeds in full bloom. It seemed that every garden had many colorful flowers of different varieties. Just like in life, their beauty could not last long though. Sadly, most of them had started to wilt by the time we departed. Timing is everything!
The town of Edgarton reminded me of a prosperous olde Maine town. The narrow streets were paved with cobblestones and lit with gas lamps. . We saw many yachts docked in the marina. New York city folks were surprised that people kept their houses unlocked. Life is full of contrasts!
Across the bay, one could glimpse the huge houses in Chappaquidick island, the island made infamous by Sen. Kennedy driving off the Chappaquidick bridge into the river with his secretary who drowned. Ted Kennedy went on to become the longest-serving senator Massachusetts ever had. As you can see, Massachusetts´ voters are fascinated
with the Kennedy mystique.
There were no restaurants in Chappaquidick. All we saw from afar were huge houses, roads, forests and beaches. No restaurants. Not being adventurous, we passed up the few minutes´ ferry ride from Edgarton to Chappaquidick at a cost of two dollars each. In the past, the wooden Chappaquidick bridge connecting the island to Martha´s Vineyard was being chipped off by tourists who would take home small wooden pieces of the bridge as souvenir. So the bridge had to be replaced by a modern, massive, concrete structure.
Martha´s Vineyard was more active than Nantucket Island in the summer. A popular way of touring the island was by a rental bike or rental car. A well-kept secret among tourists on a budget was to tour the island using public transportation. A chartered bus tour cost 30 dollars and it only brought you to celebrities´ houses and to Gay Head. Without any second thought, we took the public bus that dropped us off in the center of each of the seven towns of the island and cost five dollars/day.
On a clear, sunny day, we made it to the fishing village of Menesha where we ate a freshly-caught and immediately-cooked swordfish sandwich. The steaming aroma of the fish was irresistible! The place reminded me of Romblon’s rustic islands with its dirt roads and small huts. Afterwards, we strolled along the dock and unexpectedly came face to face with a fishing vessel straight out of the film, ´The Perfect Storm.´ That popular movie was based on the true stories of fishermen in the fishing town of New Bedford, Massachusetts, the home of many people of Portuguese ancestry.
We then re-boarded the bus which took us to the popular Gay Head, a dizzying, high cliff overlooking a sandy-white beach facing the Atlantic ocean. A lighthouse painted brick red was visible from afar.The color was quite unusual for a lighthouse, which was usually painted white. It would cast a bright white light and, in the opposite direction, a strong red beam. This two-light system rotated continuously. If one light broke down, the other one
would serve as a back-up to answer the need of ships navigating in the dark.
We saw Widow´s Walk which was peculiar to this former whaling island made famous by the world-renowned novel Moby Dick. In the past, deep-sea whaling would take fishermen on a trip that would last three years. Many of them failed to return. Widow´s walk was a balcony-like platform on the roofs of houses. The wife or mother would be pacing on that platform, searching the sea for the smallest dot in the vast ocean and hoping for their spouses´ or sons´ ship return from the high seas.
There were lots of beaches in the island — private and public. A small private beach cost a staggering 6 million dollars! Fred and I trekked to the white lighthouse in Edgarton. Unfortunately, it was closed so we did not see the interior but it was working! There was also a shelter for people who did line fishing from the harbor. On one corner, one could clean a fish with a water hose on a wooden table before storing it in a cooler. We noticed that the optimists would bring big coolers while the pessimists would bring tiny coolers.
Restaurants were expensive in Edgarton. It was almost close to our departure when we stumbled onto an inconspicuous area where the cheap eateries were located—-at a small, hidden, out-of-the-way dock. As usual, on vacations, we stuffed ourselves with sinful foods like pasta alfredo and linguica. The fresh seafood was too tempting. Don´t leave town without tasting the gazpacho, a healthy soup of vegetables mixed with salsa. I couldn’t get enough of it!
Edgarton got its summer help from Brazil and Ireland so they brought their own distinct culture to Martha´s Vineyard. There were lots of Portuguese people in the island. When we arrived,it was Pentecost Sunday and they were celebrating the Feast of the Holy Ghost, an important feast in Portuguese culture, with a procession. A tall statue of the Holy Ghost (the Holy Trinity) and a lovely lady representing Santa Isabel, the queen of Portugal who popularized the devotion to the Holy Ghost, were the highlights of the procession. Some streets were blocked off.
15-foot statue of the Holy Ghost (Holy Trinity)
The whole town was well-maintained, well-planned and well-designed to cater to tourists. I saw a gleaming white building called the Mindoro Real Estate Company. That name sounded familiar. Mindoro is the seventh-largest island in the Philippines. Its name was taken from the words Mina de Oro, (gold mine). We walked far until our feet ached. Fred was not too far behind me and so managed not to get lost.
Tourists strolled in the streets until very late at night, taking the sights in. Maybe, to preserve its historical image, chain restaurants or drug stores could not be found. We had to take the shuttle bus to get to a hardware store or pharmacy. No way could we bring a car to Martha´s Vineyard. Ferrying a car to the island would cost $350 and there was a two-months´ wait. What a hassle! Overnight parking was prohibited in most streets.
It seemed that Edgarton would like to maintain its old-town image. The narrow, cobblestone streets, brick walkways and gas lamps reminded us of a bygone era. The image of the Black Dog, popularized by President Clinton, was everywhere –from T-shirts to marquees, etc. We enjoyed strolling up and down the sidewalks, even late at night. Don´t forget to bring a sweater. Even in July, there were a few cool days in Edgarton.
Staying in Martha´s Vineyard was like going back in time except for the modern air-conditioning. The houses were of the stereotypical cape design with clapboard siding, mostly painted white or with shingles left weather-beaten gray. Our room was small and cozy. The ceiling was low. People were probably smaller then. There were no more large vineyards in the island There were a few, small privately-owned vineyards. It was said that two English men bought the island from the Wampanoag Indians in 1642 for a very small sum and the island was renamed after one of the owners’ descendants, Martha. Wampanoag means “People of the First Light,” because they were located in the eastern edge of Massachusetts and would see the sunrise earlier than the rest of the nation. Martha´s Vineyard was active only from May to October. I asked around, and they fixed their houses and gardens in the off-season.
After Columbus Day, they dropped their prices drastically. There were fewer people too. We had an interesting and a restful vacation in this playground of the celebrities. No wonder, US presidents find this island a favorite getaway spot. It is ideal for honeymooners too. Maybe, in a few years, we will go back and re-visit the place. ——————————————————————————- Herminia Festin(Originally published in PinoyAdsCentral.com)
Standing: Mini & Fred
Mini & Fred
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- DREAMS
Tell me, how far must a man go to pursue a dream?When I was very young Mom said to me: “Dreams fade on the awakening”.What is a dream?
What is needed to dream?
What makes a dream come true?
What do you do if your dream comes true
Yo, Poets out there, help!True or false?
” A dream is a wish your heart makes. “True or false?
” You got to have a dream.
If you don’t have a dream, how are you gonna make your dream come true? “True of false?
” I like dreamin’. Dreaming can make it mine.”I had a dream.
Or maybe, I didn’t because I was not asleep.
Is sleep necessary for dreaming?
Maybe I was daydreaming.
Do daydreams count?Who cares?
Fact is, it all seems hazy now.
Eight weeks ago, Westlake Hospital opened a 17-bed unit.
I became the Medical Director, maybe by default.
The position just happened.
It fell into my lap. I didn’t apply for it. I didn’t do any E=MC squared to get it.Another dimension happened to my life.
It is called “hecticosakitsauloatbalikawang”.
It was fun, it is still fun. I like it I love it.
Do I want some more of it?
Maybe I do, maybe I don’t.Here’s the rock ‘n roll.
Westlake Hospital was for sale.
The Psychiatry unit in the past was the money maker.
A private enterprise was hired to reopen the unit.
Perhaps to make the Hospital more appealing and up the price.
Who knows?
Dreams just happen, you see?The unit went a bustlin’.
We had a great team and we also attracted a lot of patients.
Then one day the negotiations for a takeover fell through!
Now it’s wait and see. Who will buy the hospital?
Yoohoo! Put it on eBay, dudes!American enterprise is an amusing thing. It can be unpredictable.
The County which owns the hospital has no money.
The hospital used to be a community giant.
Mismanagement almost ran it to the ground.
Who will buy a sinking ship and pour a lot of gold to spruce it up and sail it?Meanwhile the beat goes on, la di da di da. ( Sonny and Cher’s song.)
I am having fun! Heck! Don’t wake me up.
I tried!
It is better to have tried than not at all!
Lew
Congratulations to Lew Hortillosa, Medical Director of Psychiatry Unit
CONGRATULATIONS TO ROSE CLIMACO, THE 2012 PRESIDENT-ELECT OF THE PHILIPPINE AMERICAN ASSOCIATION OF FAMILY PHYSICIANS.
Congratulations to Roger Liboon, the 2012 First Vice President of the Philippine American Association of Family Physicians
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Most of all, thank you Tita Evelyn for all the graciousness, generosity and kindness you have shown us all these years – and the support that we knew we could always count on. Although nalulungkot kaming lahat … as Tito Max said, you were just “on loan” to us and this move was long overdue. Wishing you and your family continued abundance and happiness in your lives… Your UERM family will miss you so very much…
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Medical Missions
It is almost inevitable at the rite of spring that every time after the surgical missions are over and the statistics have been tallied, complications, if there are any, are noted, and post-surgical follow follow-ups have been received, that we go at it again, planning the next mission. Do we have to go through the same hurdles year in and year out to plan an activity we have anointed ourselves to carry out no matter how heavy the bureaucratic burden has become? It might just as well that if we do not want any more of this self-flagellation, we could easily give it up. But that would be the end of the surgical missions. And really we do not want to end it and give up on our poor and suffering folks on the other side of the ocean. That is why we keep on trying to work something out with whoever we have to deal with back home. Dr. Fabito identifies the obstacles in undertaking a mission and what can be done about it. He even offered his suggestions and asked the President of the Philippines to use his office as a bully pulpit to make it easier for some of us here in the USA to make it hopefully for another humanitatiran trip to the provinces in the land we still call home. Ed Quiros
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From: “Noli Zosa,M.D.” <nrzosamd@gmail.com>
Date: July 18, 2012 3:16:45 PM CDT
To: “Dr. Max Basco” <maxbasco@aol.com>
Subject: Invitation to Medical Mission
Dear Max,
We are glad to know that your Class 70 is planning to have a reunion
in Cebu on January 2013. It will coincide with the USTMASC Medical
Mission in the same province and the same time that your group will be
there. Please inform your classmates about our inv itation to join us
on our Medical Mission from January 21 to 23, 2013 which is after the
Sinulog Celebration.
Our plans for these activities are quite exciting and we assure you of
your comfort, convenience and benefits for all of us. Our group has
decided to stay at Marco Polo Hotel with a discounted rate from
P5,800.00 all inclusive with free breakfast and use of the Continental
Club and other privileges.
If your group has any other questions, please do not hesitate to call
me at 562=572-1071 or email me at nrzosamd@gmail.com. Noli
July Celebrants: Erlinda Aguilar (1st), Isabel Remigio (2nd), Linda Balatbat (8th), Roger Leva, Luming Mangrobang, Bene Coloma, Vicky Pingul, Nora Dalman-Holipas, JunB(July 25th), Ando(July 26th), Butch Gozo(July29th), Lily Berroya (29th), Toy Aure (30th)
August Celebrants: Dante Ragasa (5th), Emilio (Tally) Salazar (6th), Mila Galang (10th), Manolo Franco (10th), Gus Rodriguez (9th), Tessie Aguas (18)
September Celebrants: Fred Donaire (2nd), Marietta Lozada-Java (3rd), Tony Catipay(5th) and Joanna Valencia (8th), Art Jurao (10th), Freddie Custodio (14th), Ofie Ching-Dy (14th), Jing Ordinario (16th) Ador Baylan (18th), Pepot Robles (20th), Nolorfo Lara (22nd), Lorna Laraya (24th), Evelyn Villena (26th), Pura Rodriguez (29th), Mike de Castro (29th).
FROM THE KITCHEN
I had not cooked adobo in at least 25 years. The vinegar is sublimated into the air and everything smells of it for days after. But I had a yen for adobo this morning while having breakfast so I stopped at Asia Mart and bought pork belly. You brown the meat after it has tenderized in simmering vinegar. And you don’t use soy sauce, instead add achuete to color the oil rendered from the pork fat (hence it is important to use pork belly or some other fatty part of the pig). Both the chicken and pork are wonderful when they are so tender they fall apart. Then they are browned in the expressed oil until crisp! A Filipino couple that own Cendrillon in SoHo in NYC serve crisp adobo flakes as one of their specialty dishes. They know the secret! An aunt in Manila taught me how to make instant flavored rice using adobo oil (as delicious as truffle oil!) with “linusgusan nga hipon” (tiny baby shrimp quickly cooked in a little water and salt), American ketchup and native tultul (sea salt rock). Unfortunately rock salt is so very expensive if you even can find it here in the States.
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The Way We Were
Photos from the baptism of Mila and Roy G’s first apo: 5/2007
L-R: Pete C, Noel G, Roy and Mila G
Mila and Roy
1st grandchild
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Max performing live at Dusit Hotel RJ Bistro with Filipina Madonna Decena, British Idol 2nd place up
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Our Endless Summer at RP
T’was so good to be young then. ( from Joey Leoncio)
L-R: Romulo Par, Florante Lomibao, Cesar Llamas, Cornelio Hong, Lew Hortillosa
L-R: Florante Lomibao, Mike de Castro, Cesar Llamas, Romulo Par, Lew Hortillosa
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Medicine Class 1A
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Front row: Paul Garcia 4th from the left; Gabby Factora: third from the right, Ric Galang farthest left; Second row: Charles Dunifer 4th from right; Third row: Noel Guanzon second from left._________________________________________________________________
CHARITY FUND-RAISING
Emergency Assistance Fund Update
TRIP PLAN FOR CEBU CLASS REUNION 1/18/2013 – 1/21/2013
Classmates!
MINI-REUNIONS
Las Vegas Reunion 8/18/2012 @ Caesar’s Palace Seated: Luz D; Standing: JunB, Carol M, Manny D.
L-R: JunB, Zeny A. Manny D. Luz D, Roy G. Mila G.
Gala night in Las Vegas
Seated: May G, Zeny A, Nora D, Evelyn B
Standing: Charlie C, Ismael H, Max B
L-R: Seated: Ed Q, May C, Evelyn B, Max B, Carol M, Nora D
Standing: Bing P, Zeny A, Manny D, Concep B, Luz, unknown, Mila and Roy G
L-R: Seated: Mila G, Evelyn B, Luz D, unknown, Nora D, unknown
Standing: Max B, Roy G, Ismael H, unknown, Bing P, Zeny A, May G.
L-R: Concep and Jun B, Zeny A, Manny D
Harry S Birthday Bash in Beverly Hills, CA
Seated: L-R: Harry and Norma S, Rechi and Elmo O
Standing: Jessie &Tony R, Max & Evelyn B, Linda Gray, Oma C, Ed C, Carol M, Concep B
Medina, Ohio Mini-reunion: Golf Weekend July 4, 2012
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In front of the residence of Mila and Roy, Medina, Ohio: L-R:Butch G, Charlie C and Roy
Hi, Roy and Mila
May and I would like to thank you again for the great fun weekend we spent with you at your golf haven. Not only did we have a lot of fun but also received a lot of golfing pearls from Roy, the golf guru. Starting from our arrival Friday evening after picking Butch in Indiana, Mila and Roy prepared prime rib steak dinner washed down with Stella Artois and green tea beverages. We played 27 holes both Saturday and Sunday. Mila and May also played as hard. Our appetites where whetted and gratified with a seafood buffet in Cleveland and also with a sumptuous lobster dinner Sunday night. May prepared and brought chicken empanada which helped during the trip and at the golf course. We left Monday at noon being sorry it was over too soon.
Mila and Roy, you gave us a very memorable and most enjoyable weekend. May is inspired by Mila’s game and is now more committed to golf as I am. Thanks you so much once again.
Charlie and May
There was prodding and then an invite. That special weekend was then reserved.
It was billed initially as the meeting of the giants, the West against the East. It will be consummated in Indiana at Butch’s Brier GC. The gathering was surreal and dumbfounding.
JB and Charlie came first followed by the arrival of Gally, Roy and yours truly. We all converged in Butch house to play golf. That was our excuse to get away from our family and work. That was just a ploy. The real reason is to be with friends who are celebrating their birthdays, Butch and JB. The welcoming given to the guest was overwhelming ,poignant and profoundly moving. We were surprised by the presence of our gorgeous classmates in the person of Puring and Rose, who prepared our nutrition. The atmosphere was affable and friendly. We gloated ourselves with food and spirits. We were carousing with Stella Artois and Grey Goose. JB was flippantly inspiring in his remarks but the spirit got the best of him and ended up babbling and bloviating.
Puring and Rose were ever present during this respite. Puring doled in Stella Artois mugs for the boys. The weekends were all spent celebrating and partying for celebrants especially the host. Butch family were in attendance and other friends and co-workers.The guests were international coming from all walks of life. Thai foods filled us with much gusto. This is a testament to Butch popularity and likability. Mila visited her husband one weekend since the house was reserved only for the boys. Music was provided by Charlie ,which is a revelation .
As we spent the evenings chilling ,drinking and dining, and of course getting our supplies from the casino, the days were reserve for playing. Golf is the common denominator in keeping the group together and is everyone’s passion. Charlie is the long hitter of the golf ball, Roy is the short game master, JB is the contortionist, and Gally survived playing 27 and 18 holes with us.
At the end Butch brought us back to earth by hitting an enviable score of 80 reminding us …..this is my home course and nobody messes up with me.
As I have expressed to the group, I have made decisions in my life and this one ranks high in the list. Butch warm and personalized attention to all of us made our stay in his prodigious and beautiful house more welcoming. Another proof to this is , even the grisly raccoon and his family came to greet him on the night of his birthday. Even frazzled and fatigued, that is his modus vivendi or way of life.
My sincere thanks to all the attendees ,the host Butch, his son Mike and his daughter Michelle ( I may be wrong with the name ) and to Puring and Rose for making my stay in Indiana more colorful and picturesque. Thank you Rose for driving me and Gally to the Airport.God bless, Ed CKuya Ed C,You had been the historian and acute observer of events. Meredith is the name Stella Artois is the drink. Gray Goose is the bird that flattened and knock me out of my feet. It had been years since I had a hangover. Even 2 tabs of Alka Seltzer cannot bring comfort to my headache and nausea. Nevertheless, I played golf with Charlie and GG in the spirit of sport-manship and fun….It took me a day rest to recharge again. How fun to feel young again…thanks guys for everything—- we should do this again….for time is getting short……..69 is a good number–jbAmarillo, TX mini-reunion on Max & Evelyn’s trip back to LASeated: Max & Evelyn; Standing: L-T: Bing, Ed, Lita Makalintal and Mike Miguel (’71 UST MD graduates)______________________________________________________________Memories of Keuka Lake Mini-ReunionTo my dear friends, Ted and Linda,A HUG and huge THANK YOU to you, such a well-matched couple! Everybody had such a great time. Indeed, well done. Your efforts, preparation and thoughtfulness are very much appreciated.The week-end started with the very efficient Rancie driving me and Vicky (we missed you, Luz) and the fun started with us meeting Efren and Manny at an exit off RT 81. We remembered the good old days over dinner; losing our way later was not so bad in the company of the 2 gentlemen. Unfortunately, we arrived too late to join the healing mass which were attended by Ted, Lynne, Ando and Alice, who later joined us for a late dinner of chicken tinola,etc.The best part of Saturday was the Filipino breakfast fare, my favorite was the dried pusit. We had the most relaxed time savoring the blessings of Mother Nature around us by the lake. That was a very restful hour by the Keuka Lake, punctuated by laughter. Then on to wine tasting to 2 wineries. Vicky and I must have finished all glasses offered to us. Our group ate 2 bowls of crackers, helping us to remain somewhat sober.The Sat. picnic lunch fare was well documented on the Lynne’s photos. Pol, Mini. Ray, Marietta and Dom came later. The heat and humidity of the afternoon was felt but warm company of very dear friends was overwhelming. There was seemingly unending story-telling, eating, laughing, dancing and more eating! Later after the group meeting, karaoke singing ended the evening.Sunday was spent picking blueberries, followed by mass at the barn with Ted and Lynne’s group singing. The Filipino couple who own the farm hosted lunch in thanksgiving. The day ended with dinner (Rancie’s sauteed ampalaya was delicious!), and home service massage.We started our drive home after the ladies’ group/miss you hug. We could not join the Niagara Falls trip.Cheers for our hospitable classmates, Ted and Lynne!Brenda
We landed in Atlanta shortly before 9 pm. Arrived home ~ 9:45 pm.Sent you a text message earlier – but for some reason, I don’t think it got delivered.Thank you very much for everything!We had a wonderful and memorable time with you, and with everyone.The camaraderie was precious! It was a very successful USTMD70 mini-reunion with lots of unforgettable bonding time.Enjoyed Keuka Lake (the beautiful sceneries, the gorgeous sunset & aurora borealis, and the boat rides), your very spacious lake home, our great Filipino picnic luncheon Saturday – with lechon, the wine tasting we all so enjoyed at the wineries, the dancing, our sing-along followed by the Karaoke session Saturday night,The trip to the Blueberry Farm – (we all had so much fun) blueberry eating & picking the “Best Harvest Ever” followed by a special Sunday mass with both of you leading the lively choir, & a Thanksgiving celebration at the farm – Filipino food and another lechon. We were all invited to join and celebrate “A Very Good Blueberry Season.” Then to the beautiful Niagara Falls US side, Monday.Our Friday afternoon and evening in Rochester after our arrival was also quite an experience -the tour of the grounds of the Eastman (Kodak) House, the calamari & buffalo wings for a big snack, the healing mass experience and gathering at St. Anne’s, and even our car rides with you, including the pick-up Friday and the drop-off Monday at the Rochester Airport.We enjoyed all the delicious food you so generously provided for us.We were definitely well-nourished – totally with our Filipino food of choice –plus all the pabaons! Thank you to all your very kind friends and helpers, and their service with honest-to-goodness smiles, laughter, and a great sense of humor – that never faded.By the way, the 4 bottles of wine we got at the 2 wineries survived the plane ride in my luggage. Thank you also for our very comfortable lodging. Slept very well. Peaceful. You are an amazing couple. May God continue to shower you and your family with His special blessings.Thank you for your friendship – we can feel that it comes from deep in your hearts.Ando & AliceThank u , thank u ..thank u..Can’t express much my gratitude for such special moment and time u both offerred what a beautiful weekend !!!Ted , thanks for the boat ride my first in a motor boat! so..so ..exciting!!!Linda , my friend forever!!! and of course for the rest of the group thanks for the company and laughs, sumakit ang tiyan ko !!!What a gift to see the lake in the morning , so peaceful , so still..RancieWords cannot express our heartfelt thanks for a wonderful and unforgettableweekend at Keuka Lake . Our only regret is missing the healing mass onFriday.There was so much food and exotic fresh fruits ( rambutan , lychees , longan , papaya , mangoes to name a few ). We enjoyed the boat ride and the pampering provided by the membersof your prayer group.Had we accepted your offer to stay at your ” dormitory ” we would nothave missed the karaoke and the midnight snacks .The trip to Niagara Falls, both the US and Canadian side, was well worth the extra miles of driving ( sorry Rancie , Brenda and Vicky you missed It ) Even though we were detained at Immigration on our way back to the US, we treasure the experience.Thank you , too, to our classmates who attended this mini reunion, sharingmemories of the past, experiences of the present especially of apos andplanning for future reunions .Hope to see more of our classmates in January 2013. God bless,Mike, Nieves , and NacyKueka Lake Mini-reunion photos
L-R: standing: Efren R, Rey L, Mini F, Ted and Lynne M, Vicky P, Rancie R, Brenda C, Alice DSeated: Manny D, Rod P, Ando DL-R: Alice, Ando, Rey L, Efren R, Manny D, Vicky P, Rod P, Rancie R,Ted and LynneFront row: L-R: Nieves’ sister Nacy, Brenda, Ted, Linda, Nieves, Mini, EfrenSecond row: Vicky, Rod Polintan, Rancie, Manny, Mike, Marietta&spouseL-R: Ando, Manny, Lynne, EfrenAndo sittingL-R: standing: Brenda, Manny, Vicky, Alice, Lynne, RancieL-R: Ando, Alice, Brenda, Manny, Vicky, Efren, Rancie, Lynne, TedKueka Lake breakfastL-R: Ando, Alice, Nieve’s sister, Nieves, Mike D, Ted, Lynne, Brenda, RancieMass in a barn: Sitting: L-R: Brenda, Rancie, NievesStanding: first row: unknown, Lynne, unknown, Alice, unknown, Vicky, Andosecond row: Ted is third from leftKeuka lake: Rey LazaroKueka Lake Class MeetingIn attendance are the following:
Ted and Lynne, Mike and Nieves, Ando and Alice, Efren, Manny, Marietta, Rancie, Vicky, Pol, Brenda ( Ray Lazaro and Mini had left earlier)Items discussed:
1) Cebu reunion in Jan. 2013
-everybody is encouraged to attend and make reservations ASAP since the Sinulog feast is a tourist attraction
-Medical mission as per Max, nobody in the group present seems interested
-questions directed to Monet and the Phil. group—Is Bohol and its attractions included in the itinerary? Are there any other side trips planned?
2) Cruise in October 2013
– Alice is making arrangements and those interested are encouraged to call/email her. In order for the travel agent to give any good group rates, the number of people strongly inclined to join this mini-reunion should commit.
– possible places:
Hawaii- several seem to prefer this, being accessible to both east and west coasts, and possibly our Phil classmates may also want to join.
other cruises mentioned- Caribbean, cruise to Maine/ Halifax/ New Brunswick, etc.; Mexican
– any other suggestions?
3) Slush fund- voluntary, given to Mini; some had sent $50, mainly to help some needs of our classmates, release of funds agreed by members of committee. Marietta was asked to co-supervise or co-sign this account with Mini. I hope this is ok with you, Mini.
4) Emergency Fund– available for contribution to Phil. disaster victims. Contributions are welcome, also voluntary, $50/year was requested (I am sure any amount is welcome), sent to Puring. This is chaired by Y/to give $100 each. Emergency assistance fund- supervised /chaired by Yet.
5) Gawad Kalinga (GK)- in the past east coast (NJ/PA) minireunions, it was agreed that each classmate will donate $1000 each with many sending more like $2600 to build a house for a family. This is tax-deductible. Please send contributions as soon as you can, hopefully before the Jan. 2013 reunion. Charlie has been very good in acknowledging donations. Thank you, Charlie, for your passion and commitment to this worthy cause.
6) Possible east coast venue for a mini-reunion in August 2013—pot luck picnic at Efren’s NY country house, and a broadway play. Plan your accommodations accordingly.See you in Jan, with warm regards, BrendaL-R: Mini, Lynne, Vicky, Rancie, Brenda, AliceL-R: Ando, Alice, Manny, Rancie, Brenda, Lynne, Ted, Vicky, EfrenOur Romantic Couples in Kueka Lake
Mike & NievesAndo & AliceTed & Lynne______________________________________________________________Kueka lake: Bonding, camaraderie, delicious food!L-R: Mini, Efren, Marietta, Brenda
“Color me cute!”
By AIDAN GABRIELLE DUNIFER
I first became aware of the word “cute” when I was five months of age. The politically correct term is “delightfully endowed neonate!” A month later, I began to realize what it all meant: getting passed around from person to person like a football, being buzzed on my cheeks, being pinched on almost every body part, getting patted on toes, head and butt, and all other forms of indignities .Talk about “growing pains!”
But my Grandpa Charles would liven me up with phrases like,”keep up with it kiddo and in a few years you’re a “chick magnet!” I really love Grandpa Charles, but sometimes I think he’s full of beans!
( you can send pictures of your favorites grand kids to Mini with a short write up )
Clare was born around 1193 in Assisi, Italy. St. Francis of Assisi lived in the same town. Clare used to listen to Francis preach. Her heart burned with a great desire to imitate him. Like him, she wanted to live a poor, humble life for Jesus. But her parents would never agree to such a plan. So on the night of Palm Sunday, 1212, when she was eighteen years old, she left her comfortable home and her family whom she loved. In a little chapel outside Assisi, she gave herself to God. St. Francis cut off her hair and offered her a rough brown habit to wear. She stayed with the Benedictine nuns until more nuns would join her. Her parents tried in every way to make her return home, but Clare would not. Soon her fifteen-year-old sister Agnes joined her.
Other young women wanted to be “poor ladies” of Jesus, too. Before long there was a small religious community. They lived in a house at the church of San Damiano, which St. Francis himself had repaired. St. Clare and her nuns wore no shoes. They never ate meat. They lived in a poor house in an atmosphere of silent prayer. Yet they were very happy because they were living a life of poverty as Jesus had done. Once an army of rough soldiers came to attack the city of Assisi. Although very sick, St. Clare asked to be carried to the window. She had the Blessed Sacrament placed right where the soldiers could see it. Then she knelt and begged God to save the nuns and the city. “O Lord, protect these sisters whom I cannot protect now,” she prayed. And a voice within her seemed to say: “I will keep them always in my care.” At the same time, a sudden fright struck the attackers. They fled as fast as they could.
St. Clare was abbess of her convent for forty years. Twenty-nine of those years she was sick. But she said that she was joyful anyway because she was serving the Lord. Some people worried that the nuns were suffering because they were so poor. St. Clare spent most of her life defending what she called the “privilege of poverty.” The pope tried to soften her Rule’s requirement of poverty, but Clare convinced him that she and her nuns were called to live with no possessions, trusting completely in God. St. Clare died on August 11, 1253. Just two years later she was proclaimed a saint by Pope Alexander IV.
Sometimes we forget to give time to the Lord. We might be so concerned about certain things that we allow them to drown out the voice of Jesus. That’s when we can ask St. Clare to show us how to keep Jesus as the center of our lives and hearts.
Lynne
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5th USTMD70 e-magazine
June 30,2012
5th USTMD70 class e-magazine
HAPPY FOURTH OF JULY!
Lighted kites at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology
THE FATHER OF JUNE 12
In 2005, the Boston Filipino people marked the 108th anniversary of Philippine Independence with a family picnic at Hanscom AFB, Bedford, MA..The rain did not dampen the enthusiasm of the family picnic which was held in the Hanscom AFB picnic grounds. More than 50 Filipinos came together to celebrate the Philippine Independence Day. This was the first Philippine Independence Day picnic in greater Boston since 1998.
Before 1962, the Philippines celebrated its independence day on the same date as the Americans do, on July 4 each year. The change in the date of our independence day was proclaimed on May 17, 1962 by then President Diosdado Macapagal. The first observance of the new date was in June 12 of the same year.
Professor Gabriel Fabella
The man who worked tirelessly and almost single-handedly for the change in our independence date from July 4 to June 12 is a Romblomanon and relative–the late UP Professor and former Romblon Assemblyman Gabriel F. Fabella (Tang Ambe). He was the Head of the UP Department of History and President of the Philippine Historical Association at that time.
The proposed change in Philippine independence date which Prof. Fabella started in 1955 was not a popular idea. His co-professors at the state university laughed off at his proposal.But he continued his advocacy through the media and in his public speeches.
He finally won the fight in 1962 when President Macapagal issued Proclamation No. 28 declaring June 12 as Philippine Independence Day. President Macapagal may have signed the initiative but Tang Ambe fired the opening salvo in 1954 and tirelessly fought and campaigned for June 12 as the country’s proper Independence Day.
Something happened between the successful Philippine Revolution against Spain (1898) and the subsequent American conquest of the Philippines (1899-1903).
On June 12, 1898, General Emilio Aguinaldo proclaimed the independence of the Filipinos in Kawit, Cavite. During that day, there was the reading of the Independence Proclamation. This was followed by the the unfurling of the Filipino flag for the first time, accompanied by the playing of Julian Felipe’s National Anthem for the first time and highlighted by the signing of the Declaration of Independence.
Historian Esteban A. de Ocampo clarified that Philippine independence was not declared or proclaimed on July 4, 1946. What happened was merely a recognition of Philippine independence proclained on June 12, 1898.
Born on March 18, 1898, Tang Ambe was the 10th of 13 children of a poor couple from Banton, Romblon. In spite of poverty, he managed to finish not only his primary and secondary schooling but also his tertiary education. Through hard work and perseverance, he gradually realized his dreams, proving that not even poverty is a hindrance to anyone’s success if determination is present in a goal-oriented individual.
He was the first-ever Bantoanon to finish three degrees (BSE, BA, and HSTC) from UP in just three years (1917-1920), an MA History degree holder (1931), lawyer (1934), UP professor (1923-1934; 1946-1963) and assemblyman of Romblon (1935-1938).
At 37, he became so popular when he defeated the so-called “Dean of the Lower House” and traditional politician Leonardo Festin Sr as Romblon representative in the First National Assembly under the Commonwealth. Leonardo Festin Sr (Papa Nardo) was my paternal grandfather. A leading Nacionalista party member of Manuel L. Quezon, my grandfather was known to be undefeated in Romblon and had served for seven consecutive terms (1916-1935). Tang Ambe said that he challenged Papa Nardo because he felt that no one should hold an elected political position for that long. He did not give any reason why holding an elected position for long was objectionable. Manuel Quezon was so confident of Papa’s winning that he asked Papa to stay in Manila to help his projects. So Papa stayed in Manila and did not set foot in Romblon to campaign. To Quezon’s dismay, Papa lost to a neophyte lawyer whose rigorous campaign and charisma gained tremendous support from the electorate. When Papa learned of his defeat, he broke into tears. Tang Ambe served one term (1935-1938) and was replaced in the next election by Papa who campaigned tirelessly to regain his former position. Tang Ambe abandoned politics and returned to teaching but remained an active member of the Nacionalista Party.
Photo below: President Manuel Quezon signing papers aboard a ship.
L-R:unknown, unknown, Secretary of Justice Jose Yulo,President Manuel Quezon, House Speaker Quintin Paredes, unknown, Romblon Representative Leonardo Festin Sr.
Tang Ambe was an academician. Many still know the several schools he founded and owned shortly after the war not only in Romblon but also in Mindoro and Batangas. Before his retirement in 1963, he served as both chair of the UP Department of History and acting director of UP Clark Air Base (1958-1960). He mentored the most successful student, President Ferdinand Marcos, who used to study far into the late hours under him during his pre-Law days at UP.
He was a historian. He wrote about a hundred articles in various scholarly magazines Even until now, the Philippine Historical Society reveres him as one of its founding members and its first president who served four terms starting 1955
On Jan. 29, 1982, the old and sick professor finally joined his Creator on his way to Manila from Canada. As we observe our independence this month, it is but fitting and proper to honor this “Father of June 12” of ours by remembering his greatest legacy to this country he loved so much.
Who said the following?
First, “Is life so dear, or peace so sweet, as to be purchased at the price of chains
and slavery? Forbid it. Almighty God! I know not what course others may take but as for me give me liberty, or give me death. ” Second, ” I have always loved my poor country, and I am sure that I shall love her until death, if by chance men are unjust to me; and I shall enjoy the happy life, contented in the thought that all that I have suffered, my past, my present and my future, my life, my loves, my pleasures, I have sacrificed all of these for love of her. Happen what may, I shall die blessing her and desiring the dawn of her redemption.” Answers at the end of the article.
The picnic was sponsored by PAMANA, Inc., an umbrella organization comprised of the following organizations:Iskwelahang Pilipino, Filipino Apostolate of the Archdiocese of Boston, Filipino American Assocation of Greater Boston (FAGB), Fil-Am Arts, Kapatiran sa Massachusetts (KASAMA), Philippine Dance Company (PDCO), Dance Philippines,
Pilipino-American Golfers Association of New England, Pilipino-American Association of New England (PAMAS), Philippine Nurses Association of New England (PNANE),
Philippine Medical Association of New England (PMANE), New England Society of Phil-Am Health Professionals (NESPHP), The Holy Infant Jesus (Sto. Nino) Prayer Group of New England, Couples/Singles for Christ (CFC/SFC), Bagong Kulturang Pinoy (BKP),Kawit 1898-1998, P.O.W.E.R., Central Massachusetts Filipino American Association (CMFAA),
Filipino Young Professionals (FYP-Boston),Filipino-American Charitable Trust of NH (FACT-NH), Springfield Filipino Association, Fil-Am Friendship Society of New Hampshire,
PAGASA, Fil-Am Association of Newport, Rhode Island, HOPE Foundation, RI. (25 in all).
The organizers met several times to plan the picnic. The picnic was made possible with the generous donation of $250.00 from the Filipino Apostolate and a $50.00 donation from PAMAS. The proposed games were walking/jogging, basketball, tug of war, chess and playing Cards. There was an excellent bike and walking route in Hanscom.
Mini F sitting second from the left in the second row in a Philippine Independence picnic.
THE OWL
We were excitedly watching Our Owl as we were eating an early dinner tonight. (paksiw na talilong “mullet” and adobong pusit “squid”)
What QUINTESSENTIALLY HOLDS them together in one piece?
Wherefrom do they draw the FIBER not to snap under existential pressure? Lew
Ever heard of the term cenegenics? It is age management medicine that purportedly helps control the aging process and all that comes with it; the declining health, loss of muscle mass, decreased energy, low sex drive, memory loss and a host of other events. There is a continuing interest on how to defy aging, especially now that since the turn of the century, people are living much longer – 30 – 40 years longer, and life expectancy increasing by two to five years per decade especially in developed countries. To achieve this and gain more longevity and feel young despite developing those wrinkles on your face and then live agelessly ( I think of Hugh Hefner marrying a woman 60 years younger) requires revitalizing every cell in the human body and preventing the degradation and the decay of powerhouse inside them which we call mitochondria. How can one keep those small cellular powerhouses humming so that you can prolong and enjoy life. It may not give you a well-chiseled six pack abs like the 72-year-old Dr. Jeffrey Like, the “face” of cenegenics, but it may make you act like you have found and drank from the fountain of youth.
Ed Quiros
My Hometown: Guagua, Pampanga
A Chinese couple and their son were accused of killing a British citizen in China.The son’s name is Bo Guagua.
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May Birthday Celebrants: Evelyn Gonzales (10th), Ramon Abragan (11), Angie Miguel – Aguirre(12th), Art Racelis (14th), Myrlie Larena (15th), Boy Samala (16th), Lito Durante (17th), Bee Bulaclac, Bing Orlino, Gloria Tablang, Ofie Ramoso, Robbie Diaz, Gally Grajo, Mon Domingo, Brenda Caparros, Roy Gonzales, Roland Singson, Rene Grabato, Elsa De Guzman, Roy Gonzales, Rey Lazaro.
June Birthday celebrants:Ruby Batan, Carol Manahan, Pete Calope (18th), Ping Duran (19th), Riz Galit (20th), Mini Festin (20th), Norma Dy, (22nd), Jimmy Cabatingan (23rd), Leddy Dizon (26th(, Mon Matignas (27th)
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L-R: Eloy Banes, unknown, Monet, Carol M.
Our Teacher: Dr. Leonor Rivera Calimlim and her daughters
She looks great at age 85. Her self confidence and strong personality give the impression of arrogance. Having known her more closely as a friend here in Rochester , I can tell you that she is quite a remarkably kind , loving and humble person. She sought us , (her former students, )and befriended us , invited us to their home , phoned us ,every now and then . They came to our humble apartments and dined with us . Attended our children’s birthday parties. Ed , and others, were beneficiaries . I learned from her, not only Pharmacology.I learned from her, by her example (and motherly advise),about living and loving.
Lynne
L-R: Ted, Lynne, Dr. Calimlim and spouse
business cards.
Baptist Leadership Group. (contributed by Joe D. L)
Keuka Lake Weekend
1. August 3, 2012
Healing Mass- 8 PM – Fr. Tayag
St. Anne’s Church
Rochester , NY.
(optional )
2 . Wine tasting – Keuka Wine Trail – 10AM
( optional)
3. Other Options;Visit Blueberry Farm ,Glenn Curtiss Museum , Hammondsport , Corning Glass Museum , Shopping downtown Corning .
Shopping at Geneva prime outlets
Fish , swim , cruise the Lake .
Watkins Glen
Amish Flee Market Wind mill
4. August 4, 2012-Saturday
Class Reunion Med 70
3PM -Till ?
Picnic Keuka Lake House
Dance and sing until you drop .
Night fishing ,or night swimming
5 . Sunday Mass Schedule, August 5,
St Michael Church
Penn, Yan , NY
7AM. and 9:30 AM
St. Mary’s Church
Bath, NY 9 AM
St. Gabriel Church
11AM
Hammondsport , NY
6, August 5, Sunday Class Reunion Continues
Brunch -10 AM
7.Blueberry Farm- owned by Abonados from Long Island
Pick your own blueberries , veggie or buy .
Sunday Mass – 1 PM-Fr Tony from LI
Lunch to follow
8. For those staying .
Leave for Canada
Niagara falls , American and Canadian side
Casino ( optional )
Chinatown , Toronto
Email your preferences for optional events
Mariano 143@ aol. Com
Please let us know if we can assist with accommodations , golf, tennis , etc
We are looking forward to a fun weekend .
Lynne
Check out this accompanying video on YouTube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nnBszShBDJs&feature=youtube_gdata_player
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That every thing we do,
Affects not only our lives
But touches others, too!
That shows someone you care,
Creates a ray of sunshine
For both of you to share.
Someone a helping hand …
Every time you show a friend
You care and understand …
A kind and gentle word to give …
You help someone find beauty
In this precious life we live.
And loving ways bring love;
And Giving is the treasure
That contentment is made of.
Tony Catipay’s dinner for Monet and Ruby
Ruby, Monet, Tony, Tony’s wife, Concep, Carol M
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Getting older doesn’t mean you have to live a sedentary lifestyle. The American College of Sports Medicine and the American Heart Association recommend all adults over age 65 exercise.
But how much is enough? Ronan Factora, MD, a geriatrician at Cleveland Clinic, says walking just 30 minutes a day is a good place to start.
“You walk around [for] a half an hour, if you get tired take a break, but then pick it up again and then start walking some more,” Factora says. “The people who actually get the most benefit from physical activity or exercise are the ones who move from the couch to just getting up and walking around. You get the most benefit from that and you don’t even have to break a sweat.”
Factora says the 30 minutes can be broken into 10-minute increments throughout the day.
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Dennis Mariano, the son of Ted and Lynne, is shown above in a green shirt.He plays the guitar , drums and some vocals with Thunder Body , a raggae band .
THE WAY WE WERE
Rosario Fernandez (left) and Mini Festin (right) during medical internship
L-R: Romulo Par, Joey L, Florante Lomibao, Cesar Llamas, Rose C, unknown, Lew H
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I SEE THE DOG PEOPLE
I see dog people.You do too.They are in your neighborhood, parks, highways and dog shows. In our neighborhood, some religiously take their dogs for a walk. Some have pet owners have no kids. They call their dogs, their kids or family.
Dogs have names, even stray ones in RP have names if you could trace the owner. When we lived in RP, we had a dog named Jerry. We could have name him Bantay after that dog in my first book, but I thought he should be named after people. So we named him Jerry after Jerry Lewis who always made us laughed. Jerry was a puppy when given by a neighbor. He had a thick brown and white fur. He had no tail and I don’t know if he was an expensive breed or was a freak of nature.I used to pick up his fleas and ticks and no sooner I erupted with blisters on my legs and turned to sores. I learned in medical school later that there was a fancy names for those which was impetigo. I cleaned them with warm soap and water and they usually heal.
When Jerry was 4, one day he disappeared and never to be found again. Did a motor vehicle struck him and his body thrown by the river?
Did someone stole him and given as a pet for a child? These were just guesses and more plausible, though we have no proof, he was caught by those who thirst for gin and Tanduay, whenever they see dogs. Jerry was the first and last pet we ever had that I knew, unless you consider pigs and chikens as pets. We had those too. I fed the pigs with darak and water and the chickens with rice seeds.
When I came to America,my family in Quezon City got another dog. Sadly, they wrote me, he suffered the same fate, worst because my father saw a man in a jeep who swung a rope lasso on the dog and drove away. My family gave up raising dogs for good. In the city,we did not have chickens or pigs or for sure the neighbors would complain, besides we had little space for them. I surely missed provincial life then, but not as much for then I was in college, being busy at school. I spent a lot of time studying, which gave me a good excuse from doing household chores. No more pets for me of any kind.
In RP, dogs are usually given by neighbors, while in the US one has to buy them and they could be very expensive especially the pure bred.
If one don’t care, a mestizo dog will be cheaper. A pet store near where we now live is always full and have varieties of pet dogs, some very expensive.
One of the doctors in town has Toyota van exclusively used for his dogs. He owns a Maserati, a Rolls Royce,a Benz and other fancy cars..
He told me he has 8 car garage for his 8 vehicles. One of his bumper stickers shows a picture of a little dog with a caption, the Rolls Royce of dogs. I have not seen it and have no idea what kind it is. It must be expensive.
Dogs in the US are well cared for. They have special food, have to be taken to Vets for Immunizations and even for some minor ailments.
The owners don’t care. Do that CT scan, Chemotherapy, the cost does not matter. They’ll pay for it and cuddle the animal to the Vet day or night.
Grandma at the Nursing Home would have to wait for a visit. She is not as cute. Should the dog die from illness or simply old age, expect some weeping and and wailing, that they would not buy another, it’s just that, their dog was” irreplaceable”, never mind that in the same breed they all look alike. Have you seen those pictures of dogs that look like their owners? You see them too in real life. A walk in the neighborhood, you might see some poodles in tow by owners in white curls. In Winter, some dogs have a body sweater that matches the owners.
Sorry if you live in RP you don’t see this spectacle except in pictures but you would not want to imitate or your neighbors there would think you’ve lost your sanity. Here in the US it is cute , just another show of affection for one’s pet. Some people either deliberately or subconsciously buy one that looks like them. If you are here in the US, you’ve seen them too. You don’t have to go far, they live in your neighborhood.
I like Max dog Magnum. He looks menacing to kids and probably adults too.That’s one well fed dog, even travel with his owners. If he was to be in a flight, there are special cages for him for an extra fee. I’m sure Magnum makes good company better than children fightingat the backseat. I just thought it would be better if he was named after people. After all, dogs are man’s best friend who gives unconditional love which no sane person would do all the time. I would have called him Marvin or Bob. No, not Marvin his son but Lee Marvin or Bob Dole. Won’t you agree?
I see dog people and I know you do too.
JDLeoncio
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Aidan Gabrielle, Charles Dunifer’s first Philippine Grandson
4TH E-MAGAZINE
JESUS’ COMES HOME!
He does not leave Heaven.
But Earth becomes His Home.
And so too are our hearts
The children bringing their children to hang out with Donita and Lew.
My son Jon, wife Sarah from Toronto with Little Sofia and baby Nathan.
Jason from Louisville, Jeff from Austin,TX. JoAnna is back in Lexington.
Jerry is in Louisville. From Georgia Candi, Bryan and 4 kids. Junior,
and 2 kids. Did Romeo the teacup pooper yorkie got kenneled?
The catastrophic typhoons and the massive relief effort in the Philippines.
The unseen magnetic field that moves the wild geese back to South America.
The old man’s ticking heart, the arthritic hips, the ubiquitous mind, the iPad.
ADVENT: “venire ad domum” ( to come home ).
Lew
ASIAN.WATERBIRD CENSUS (AWC) OF PAOAY LAKE
This is the mid-winter yearly census synchronized with the rest of the Asian censuses. After tallying the AWC of Paoay Lake and updating the “bird count board,” this picture was taken. Thinking of 2013 AWC already. You are all invited. Cheers and happy birding! Pete
ABBY
Puppy love
Where have you gone
Puppy ,my sweet
Are you sitting on a cloud
or chewing your biscuit
Come walk with me
Puppy , my sweet
The grass is fresh
With dew from the morn
The wind is warm
Summer can’t be afar
Come play with me
My heart is heavy
Come sit with me
My heart is lonely
Come run with me
To the mountains we climb
To watch the setting sun
and the deer run
Come swim with me
To the Y lake we dive
To wash the blues
and be refreshed a new
Where have you gone puppy, my sweet
Will you wait for me when life is complete
(For Abby who passed away a year ago this month.)
Lynne
Our Catholic Church
Here is picture of our church in Guagua , Pampanga. There are many churches just like this around the country. I took this picture in 1995 and what impressed me was it was largely unchanged. Once again, I smelled that mix of wax and incense that was so familiar then.The town was not what it used to be but
MD LIFE AND TIMES
“Times are achanging” —Bob Dylan
I was making rounds seated ,writing on my chart beside a Filipina physician , a specialist who likewise was writing on her chart.Nearby was a nurse also writing on a chart. I don’t know how it started, she told the nurse that she has a cousin, who with her husband, both 65 years old went to Costa Rica and did the slide roll. Feeling ignorant, I asked what is a slide roll? She said, it’s a cable on a tree where one hold on a pulley, which slides you down to the next tree. I said, they must be physically fit for I know I would probably have a hard time if I ever participate in the Zumba. She asked what is a Zumba? The nurse nearby smiled, doctor you work too hard, you should go out once in a while. I know what she meant. There were posters on the elevators and for $ 6.00, one can show up for Zumba classes a few days a week at the second floor of the hospital near the Cafeteria. The physician is probably in her mid-forties or close to 50’s if not more She is single, attractive, petite, the last person to need Zumba. She maybe too dedicated to the profession unmindful of what is life out there.
Such is life.
Moving along, I was talking to this nurse who must be about 35, who by her account, met her husband in the Army while both were deployed in Iraq. The marriage did not work out and she is now divorced. She is trying to save money to pursue a BSN degree but it cost so much, she needed a sugar daddy to help her. I told her we will have to find you a rich boyfriend or husband. Under my breath I told myself, lady, it ain’t gonna be me.
I don’t usually ask personal questions but sometime out of the blue people have an urge to talk, maybe no different from me writing this. She said she would be seeing her Dad on the weekend who is turning 62 years old. What? Her Dad is younger than I am? Ouch! I looked around and saw all the nurses nearby, all about 25 to 35. That means their parents must be younger than all of us. Ouch, ouch, ouch!
We were at my sister in law’s house for Christmas. She is married to an American and they have an only son, a mestizo who does not appear to have any trace of Filipino blood. He is 13, has a light brown tousled hair and was wearing a suit and a vest, very preppy.I told him he look like Paul McCartney to which he replied, “Who is Paul McCartney?” I was taken aback, it made sense, he is just 13.What about the hair? No that was not Paul’s, it’s Justin Bieber’s. I felt ancient, my generation is past.
Do you listen to the new songs and know who sings them? What about the rap? Do you know any? In America, do you see people singing in the streets? Music has become personal; many wear ear buds connected to their Ipods. One doesn’t even see anyone whistling in public. One thing about music, it tells you an estimate of how old you are according to your musical taste. Do you recall that our parents had different musical taste from us? It’s generational taste and so let the kids have their own gibberish fun.I don’t know if anyone of us like theirs or maybe it’s just us–not so young. I know we all listened to the same songs growing up, since in RP there were only 3 radio stations. So besides, being classmates,dear friends, we had many things in common.
We had been exposed to the same music and culture of our times.Now in social conversations, for us now ,it would be safe to say we like the Broadway songs like Memory, Music of the night or Sunrise, Sunset. Please stay away from old songs as they are dead give away of how old you are. Songs like, “When the twilight is gone, My Prayer” from the Platters, “ Hang on your head Tom Dooley. If you like these, keep it to yourself or the class,– you will be safe. By all means,deny that you like or even heard of” Papa loves Mambo, Mama loves Mambo” for if you do, the listener might be thinking
“Why aren’t you in a wheelchair yet?”
Happy Sunday and have a good week,
JDLeoncio
THE FLIGHT
Weekend Sojourn in New England
On a whim , I suggested to fly to Boston to visit our 2 younger sons, Mark and Dom, for Ted’s birthday .
Dom is single . He has a girl friend.
Mark is married with a son, Ben ,age 7 and daughter, Izzy, 2 .
It was dark when the plane touched down at the Logan airport.
I texted Molly, who came with the children .
Plainly, the kids were thrilled to see us.
It was 10 PM, way past their bedtime when they finally fell asleep next to each other on the air bed . Ted and I shared Ben’s bed .
On a table and everywhere were hundreds of pieces of Lego .
Deja vu .
Did I not use to see those pieces before ?
Ben talked about Star Wars , clones and droids.
Have I not seen or heard of them before ? C-3PO, R2D2, Yoda , Luke Skywalker and others?
Ah the circle of life !
It seems so long ago .
As I closed my eyes , I felt a heavy load was lifted from my back.
I sighed in thanksgiving to the Almighty One for all the blessings .
There is nothing sweeter than being awakened by children’s laughter , Saturday morning .
There is nothing more liberating than being involved once again in child’s play . Endless scenario being presented complete with scripts and sound effects .
Amid the noise and laughter , everyone else slept .
I looked at their innocent faces .I see God . How beautiful is Your creation ! How wonderful are Your works !
I sighed again in thanksgiving .
It was 1 PM ,by the time , we had “breakfast” at the Gaslight restaurant onthe South End .
Then, to the South Shore Mall to shop for children’s clothes .
Cute outfit’s .
It has been so long since the boys were little .
The years went by so quickly it seems. It is a blur .
Oh look ! Lego store !
a whole store with just Legos !
Of course , Benny wanted some more . Can Lolo refuse ? Of course not .
Back at their house ,
Molly reminded Ben that his room has to be cleaned before he can open the box of Legos .
He asked me to help and I did. “so we can start with the games sooner” Ben said .
With me sitting on top of the covers and Ben standing at the foot of the bed , we opened the box of Legos . 98 pieces spilled out . Quickly , Ben assembled into droids and clones . I got to help taking instructions from him .
In the process , we chat about his friends , school
and other things .
He shared that sometimes , people think he is a girl .
I asked how he felt about that . He said ” embarrassed ”
But you look “very boy ”
“Sometimes people say things that may hurt you , but they don’t really mean to hurt you . ” I said.
“Can you forgive them ?”
He nodded .
Then ,back again to the Battle of the Caminos with all the sound effects and action .
To be a in a child’s world again is wonderful!
An inviting aroma of meal cooking made my stomach grumble more .
We hurried down at the call ” dinner “.
There is nothing better than a nice home cooked meal prepared by
by someone else .
Rib eye, Kobe , fillet mignon , lemony asparagus , red onions perfectly grilled by Mark and Molly .
Cauliflower , baked potato with butter and sour cream on the side .
Bed time was at the usual time tonight for the kids .
I gazed at the view of the city from the window.
I whispered ” Thank God for small and big favors .”
Sunday is a good day for dim sum at China Pearl in Chinatown .As Molly said ” Everyone is happy right away as the food comes almost immediately ”
Then , a quick drive through Cambridge , Harvard Square , Alston.
JP Licks for ice cream was a good idea although it was a bit chilly and drizzly .
Pistachio ice cream is my favorite .
Then back to their house, a nap would be nice on a drizzly afternoon .
I crawled under the covers while Ben worked on the Legos .
This time , it was the battle of the Naboo.
I awakened after an hour and a half.
I did not realize I was so tired .
After evening mass at St. Gregory Church in Lower Mills , off to Anna’s Taqueria in Brookline .
This is a Mexican restaurant owned by a Japanese .
They have the best burritos in town .
I think better than anywhere . Carnita super burrito is my favorite.
More play time , then it’s time to pack the bags for an early flight in the morning .
But first , the birthday cake and some mint tea .
It is bedtime story time by Lolo.
Hugs and kisses
Good night !
Lynne
Boston’s Back Bay with the Prudential Tower in the background.
Photo by Lynne
Pagoda Archway at the entry of Boston’s Chinatown
Photo by Lynne
Heading Home
It was 4AM when the MP3 beeped .We had to get ready. Mark offered to drop us off .We tiptoed and whispered so as not to disturb the children.
There were not too many cars on the streets of Boston . It was a quick drive to the Logan International airport.Though it was quite early , there were long lines for the security check. It took almost hour to get through .This is not Rochester, I remind myself .
Most are business people , I think . They were dressed like they were headed to a business meeting .Dark suits , briefcases , iPhones. Yes ,iPhones , everywhere
people doing something on the iPhone , sitting , standing ,walking.
Finally , we settled on our seats. It was great having a window seat.
I could see the glimmering lights of dawn slowly brightening the horizon.
Wow !
What a Sight !
Orange , yellow , pink gradually erasing the darkness of the night.
I was in awe of the beauty before me and below me . The ocean, the little islands .
I say a prayer of thanksgiving to the Creator of this beautiful World .
The clouds looked so fluffy , like white cotton. I stared at the clouds and wondered about heaven . So soft, so light. The clouds made me think of heaven .That must be the feeling light , happy , no pain , no worry ,no tears , just smiles, yes ,lots of smiles.
No words, because we can read each others thoughts ?
My reverie was interrupted . “Would you like something to drink?” It was about an hour and a half flight. Then, back to work immediately . Somehow , I am not the same person that left home Friday evening .In just a weekend , my attitude and perspective had changed.
I am more relaxed and peaceful. I had a taste of heaven.
“He is Risen” holds a promise . That one day , the faithful will be united with Him in heaven, our final home.
Happy Easter to all, Lynne
MOST OUTSTANDING ALUMNUS
To my classmates, co-alumni, friends, ladies and gentlemen
Good evening to you all. I am deeply honored to be given the award of
most outstanding alumnus of the year 2011. Our class Batch 1961 has
many quite successful members who are equally or more deserving of this
award than I. To those who I am referring to, you know that as well as
I do. With you, I share this great honor and recognition.
The passage of time has been very quick. As that letter to Dear Eddie
says, “parang kahapon lamang”, it seems like only yesterday. When I was
studying at Holy Angel Academy, there were only three buildings. Fifty
years and fifty pounds later when I visited today, Holy Angel
University has so many buildings I lost count. We left upon graduation
full of dreams and uncertainties and we all spent the next 50 years
fulfilling those dreams and conquering those uncertainties. Many of us
have departed into the other world and among them I would like to
recognize three greatly successful classmates who could very well be
standing before you tonight instead of me.
Edmar Dizon, one of our past Batch 1961 presidents, provided hundreds
and hundreds of jobs through his ever-growing real estate construction
business that spread through Central Luzon. He generously shared his
wealth helping the poor in so many ways. Ricardo “Bebot” Flores Jr. the
son of our principal during our time was also a past Batch 1961
president. He with his wife Beka who is here tonight, tirelessly worked
to send numerous indigent students to vocational school using their
personal funds and through fund-raising. They were also into feeding
programs for the hungry for many years and continued even now by Beka.
Three months ago I had the privilege of giving an eulogy in honor of
Romy Yusi. From real humble beginnings, Romy steadily went on to become
a highly successful businessman. With his security business, he
employed thousands. He became a leader of the Angeles business
community and was widely recognized throughout the province and even
nationally. He too was very generous in sharing his success.
This leads me to the theme of my speech which is “Bawat Pilipino
Bayani”, every Pilipino is a hero. We all become heroes to our love
ones when we go thru great lengths to help them. From the house girls,
“katulong” coming from the typhoon ravaged areas like the Bicol region,
Samar and Leyte who sacrifice greatly for their families back home to
the new generation of caregivers throughout the world overcoming
loneliness and long term separation from family. House boys, drivers,
gardeners on to maritime sailors, cruise and container ship staff.
Students became professionals, doctors, nurses, teachers, engineers,
etc. The common goal was to seek better opportunities to work and help
their families and in return also live a better live. I was no
different. When I graduated from UST medical school in 1970, I left for
the USA the following year and went on to become a board certified
radiologist. In the process, my wife, Myrna and I supported our
remaining 8 brothers and sisters to complete their education.
Presently $18 billion is remitted to the Philippines by all heroic
overseas foreign workers annually and is growing every year. All these
local and overseas Bayanis have sustained our native land all these
years. It was once mentioned that if all Filipinos stopped working, the
world will be at a standstill.
We have a unique word in our language called Bayanihan, a state of
being heroic to one another. In the past and even now, when it came to
planting or harvesting rice, we organize a “pasugu” where the community
helps with the planting or harvesting. A more widespread form of
Bayanihan now is the Gawad Kalinga movement of holistic community and
nation building. Through the spirit of Bayanihan, communities are built
addressing not only shelter but values formation, health and nutrition,
child and youth development, environment, productivity programs and
community empowerment through the neighborhood association. Having been
convinced that the ideals of Gawad Kalinga will lead the Philippines
from 3rd to 1st world country status, I worked very hard to spread the
movement in the USA and the Philippines. Nearly 400 out of the now 2000
Gawad Kalinga villages all over the Philippines were built with
sponsorships from the USA.
I am proud to be a Pilipino. I love my heritage. Let us all be proud as
Pilipinos and love our country the Philippines. Let us all be heroic to
one another. Let us practice the spirit of Bayanihan. Bawat Pilipino,
Bayani!!
Acceptance Speech by Carlos Capati, MD
Sole awardee on Awards Night at the Holy Angels University
Batch 1961
EVENTS
Norma’s Bday bash 3/31 at her residence.
Seated: Rita, Jessie, Norma S, Rechie, Carol
Standing: Ed C, JB, Max, Harry, Elmo, Manny
Tony Catipay and wife celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary with a sumptous dinner March 18th at Max restaurant with their family and classmates
L-R: Carol, Ed, Tony, Rita, Max and JunB (& Concep)
Greenhills, Gloria Maris Reunion 2/2012
L-R: seated: Angie M, Brenda C, Rosalina Ota Bernardo standing: Monet, Raffy P, Ping D, Ota’s husband Rene
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L-R: Alice, Ando, Angie
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Greenhills Gloria Maris 2/12
L-R: Ota Bernardo-Joson and spouse Rene, Efren R, Luz D, May Capati
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L-R: Luz D, Sylvia Wenceslao, May and Charlie C.
L-R: Lord Bernabe, Ando, Alice, Neon Corpuz, Max, Emeng Concepcion
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Cris’ 2nd retirement dinner from the US Army at the Ginza Restaurant, Elizabethtown, KY
L-R: Cris and Lew (Photo from Lew 2/10/2012)
Thank you, Mini, Charlie, etc…..And to Lew & Donita Hortillosa who drove approximately an hour to attend the despedida dinner.I was truly touched with the gesture of the Filipino group @ Elizabethtown headed by Dr. Leovigildo & Elisa Garcia who gave the going-away party dinner…Lots of memories.Leaving Fort Knox, Kentucky, I have a lot of good memories and sad. “The Duke Brigade soldiers are back from Afghanistan after a year tour” with approximately 70 casualties There are still remaining solders in Afghanistan. Continue your prayers for their safe return. Cris (Leaving Fort Knox)
December 9, 2011 Military Holiday Ball, Louisville, Kentucky
Military Holiday Ball, Fort Knox, KY
Happy, happy second retirement, Cris!
Cris, Annabelle
See below: Cris, unknown, Lew
August 4-5 ’12: Keuka Lake future reunion Rte 54, NY
It is about 5 hours drive from Boston .Our kids who live in Boston take the drive every summer.
March 2012 — apo-stolic work for a 2 year 7 month girl and
a 7 month boy. (once a week and PRN!)
Cris and brother Alex — deep-sea fishing –the boat tilted!;
Cris hung on and brought in this 50-pound salmon!
Max Basco, Evelyn Basco, Harry Salceda, Norma Cunanan Salceda,
Teddy Mariano, Lynne Mariano, Gally Grajo, Gloria Uy, Ramon Domingo
Luz Bunuan Cuaresma, Cecil M Liangco, Puring Cruz,
Amanda Palaganas, Leddy Dizon Jazmines, Bene Balagtas
Rancy Ragon Tolosa, Luz Duque Hamerschaimb, Boy&Lily Samala,
Brenda Sison & Evelyn Austria (combined), Boy & Lily Samala, Rosita
Soriao-Hernandez, Vicky Pingul Petrillo, Emilia Panday, Phebe Tan, Desiderio Ines,
UPDATE ON CLASS REUNION: MAX BASCO
We have exceeded our target of $10,000. Our trustee Monet has received the the total of $11,400.00 $5000.00 or its peso equivalent from Phebe, 276,000 pesos from me.
We are providing the water supply to a new village of 100 homes on real
estate donated by the Diocese of Iligan with the construction of houses funded by the Order of Malta. Our initail plan was to construct a deep well and a tower mounted
10,000 gallon water tank using motorized pump to store water in the tank. The homeowners will then be organized to be responsible for the upkeep of the deep well pump and tank. Because of concerns that organizing a large number of homeowners could be problematic in the long run according to our Donee, Vicar, Fr. Vera Cruz, they
tought it would be better if we construct more deep wells and water tanks limiting the number of homeowners liable for the upkeep. Instead of one large water tank, they will get
8-10 instead.
I am not sure if the outcome will be better this way or the other. Might be good idea to research the matter in terms of total cost, and maintainance cost.
We probably have enough or more than enough money to build the one big
tank, not sure if enough to build multitude of smaller tanks. If and when the need
arises, we can try to solicit more donations from wealthy friends in the Philippines and the
UK Foundation. I certainly believe our USTMD70 has found a charitable endeavor worthy
of emulation that we should all be very proud of. When the water tower finally
rises, one can see emblazoned from the distance,” A Gift from the members of USTMD 70 to our friends citizens of Iligan City.”
Update on GK Class village: from Charlie C.Total donation: $13,450.00. Donors: Aure Medical Association, Elvira & Gerardo Balbin, Max Basco, Carlos Capati, Manny De Sagun, Mon Domingo, Ma. Rizalin Galit-Flickinger, Rosemarie Climaco, Rolando Singson, Levi & Ofelia Guerrero, Ishawar Jagasia, Jose & Marife Leoncio, Murillo & Ofelia Mangubat, Victor & John Petrillo, Esperanza Ragon-Tolosa, Evelyn Villena, Rey Lazaro, Levi Guerrero.
$2600 each $5200 $290 $200
USTMD70 GK Legacy Village Project Coordinators
Our goal is to raise about $40,000 by July so we can start our village
with at least half the houses. We can then visit the village which is
in Las Pinas , Rizal and have a ceremony for the first recipients of
the first half of our village when we have our reunion in January.Please send your donations to Pita Rina, North Central Financial
Coordinator, 2919 Barlett Court, Naperville, IL 60564. You can contact
her at 773-934-3386 or Ross.pita.rina@gmail.com. Write checks to GK USA
and memo below, for USTMD70 GK Village. from Charlie Capati
THE TAU MU PRESIDENT
Congratulations to Monet Abragan who was elected President of Tau Mu Alumni on Feb 4, 2012 during the celebration at the Hyatt Hotel. Part of his speech came from Robert Frost’s “On a Snowy Evening.” This was quoted by President John F. Kennedy during his inaugural speech as President of the United States.
“This was my closing remark speech when I was inducted President of the Tau Mu Sigma Phi Frat Alumni Phil. Group held at Hyatt Hotel in Pedro Gil Malate, Manila:
1) Harry & Norma Salceda
2) Charlie & May Capati
3) Ed Capitulo
4) Boy Margallo
5) Max Basco
6) Roy & Mila Gonzales
8) & especially the one and only BUTOY (Gozo), who single-handedly organized the trip of Monet & wife Ruby to USA. This is a powerful demonstration of what a handful of people whose only desire is to make a little difference in the life of our beloved classmate Monet. It does not take a ton of money nor lots of talk to do what these guys have done. They simply agreed to help a classmate who wish to join in the birthday celebration of our good friend Gally in Naples, FL.on May 2nd and 3rd.
The number of attendees swelled to an incredible 20 people. Another testimony to the enduring care and love bestowed to our good friend Gally. I congratulate the class of ’70 in showing an overpowering generosity and love to each other. Let us not forget that the most powerful bond is brotherly love. It transcends everything…….Gud nite—JunB
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GUESS WHO?
Connecticut interns 1972
THIRD USTMD70 E-MAGAZINE
USTMD70 E-MAGAZINE
DECEMBER 2011
HAVE A VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY, PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR!
BITE YOUR TONGUE, HOLD YOUR PEN
It has been six months since the piece was written, five when the firestorm started raging that lead to his fall from grace, getting up one of the most prestigious position in the surgical world even before he was to be installed, and four months since he vacated the seat from where it all started. And it will be in October, in San Francisco three months from today, at the 97th Surgical Congress, when the American College of Surgeons will hang the Presidential Medallion on the neck of a woman surgeon from upstate New York, Patricia Numann, MND FACS, 1st Vice-President Elect, instead of Lazar Greenfield, MD FACS who was the President-Elect. It will not be the first time that a woman will be the president of one of the world’s most prestigious surgical societies in the world. In 2005, Kathryn D. Anderson, MD FACS from San Marino, California was installed as the first woman President of the American College of Surgeons in San Francisco during the College’s 91st Annual Congress. But it will be the first time in memory that an incoming President-Elect won’t be installed because of sexist allegation based on an editorial which Dr. Greenfield wrote “to amuse rather than to offend.”
On February of this year, in a Valentine editorial “Gut Feelings” penned by Dr. Greenfield who is the Editor-in-Chief of Surgery News, the official newspaper of the American College of Surgeons, he opined that meeting one’s significant other might have a physiologic basis, proceeding to discuss the mating habits of fruit flies. He then cited research from the Archives of Sexual Behavior, which found that “female college students practicing unprotected sex were less likely to suffer from depression than those whose partners used condoms” and that “their better moods were not just a feature of promiscuity because women using condoms were just as depressed as those practicing total abstinence.” The study also found that the “benefits of semen contact were seen in fewer suicide attempts and better performance on cognition tests.” Noting the therapeutic effects of semen, he concluded, “So there is a deeper bond between men and women than St. Valentine would have suspected, and now we know there is a better gift fo that day than chocolates.”
It was this last statement that did not sit well with some women groups. It spurred a lot of protests about how someone from the high echelons of the College could write something so “offensive to women.” One prominent female professor of surgery at a well-known institution who claims she was “aghast” even publicly resigned her membership at the College in protest. Despite Dr. Greenfield’s explanation and apologies, he had to resign his editorship of the newspaper which he helped launched, and his President-Elect status of an organization that has 77,000 surgeon-members who proudly append the word “Fellow American College of Surgeons” (FACS) after their name.
Nowhere has there been more awareness and sensitivity these days to social issues such as equality grafted to sex, age and race than here in this country. Some statement may represent the speaker’s or the writer’s true intent. Others may not really mean what they say or say what they mean. Others still can be misconstrued or misinterpreted. No matter what, one needs to be mindful of what he or she writes or says especially if that person is prominent or well known. The scrutiny by what somebody calls “speech police” of public pronouncements be it spoken or written that they are not ‘offensive’ or ‘demeaning,’ can be so rigid. Whether it is fair or not, whether it is justified or not, is what provokes debate and controversy.
Not too long ago, former Senator Alan Simpson, a Republican from Wyoming and appointed Co-Chair of the Debt Commission by President Obama, was vehemently criticized and asked to resign from his post at the Debt Commission by the National Older women’s League, an advocacy group when he e-mailed their Executive Director comparing Social Security to “a milk cow with 310 million tits.” He subsequently apologized for his inappropriate analogy, did not resign and remained in his post as a Co-Chair. Larry Summers, former Secretary of the Treasury and recently a member of President Obama’s economic team, earned the ire of women students and advocacy groups in 2005 when he was president of Harvard University. He stated off-handedly that women are inferior to men in their ability to excel in mathematics and the sciences. The statement spurred protests that eventually he had to leave the University. A North Carolina basketball referee avoided harsh punishment for “sexist” comments in a girls’ basketball game when he was given “corrective action” and not a suspension. Ron Franklin, the longest play-by-play announcer of ESPN, working football and basketball for the network since 1987, was let go for “insulting and sexist comments to a female reporter whom he called “sweet baby.” Recently, in April of this year, a Jersey City Superintendent of Schools caused an uproar when he was quoted while speaking at a public function that the school system’s worst enemy “is the young ladies. The young ladies are bad.” Despite the apology, he offered for his insensitive remarks, the Superintendent has not resigned.
The landscape is replete with spoken or written word, usually in a sentence or two that may be abrasive to the sensibilities of some. What it inflicts may be real or imagine. The eventual outcome may or may not be satisfactory to the parties involved. For what he has been portrayed to be because of what someone called “Semengate” editorial, Dr. Greenfield has a number of women surgeons on his side who considers him as above reproach and a member and advocate of women in surgery in his previous capacity as Chairman of the Department of Surgery at Virginia Commonwealth University and later at the University of Michigan where he retired as professor-emeritus. After a meeting with the ACS Board of Regents where again he apologized, he stepped down from his position as president-elect, so that the College “will not be distracted by any issues that would diminish its focus on improving care of the surgical patient,” so says Dr. Carlos Pellegrini, Chair of the Board of Regents.
There are many surgeons, however; men and women, especially those in academic and surgical society hierarchy who prefer not to comment on the matter for fear of repercussions. I may not have written 128 chapters in surgical textbooks, edited two surgical textbooks, authored and published 360 peer-reviewed papers, or developed a surgical device that literally saved thousands of lives. But whatever miniscule reputation and lifelong accomplishments I may have, I certainly do not wish to have them wiped out by a single sentence I have spoken or written which has been misconstrued or misunderstood. I would have put up a vigorous public fight and not let what I consider an innocent and amusing single statement obliterate what professional reputation I have carefully nurtured all my life.
This much I can say though — I am still a Fellow of the College in good standing. So I better bite my tongue and hold my pen. And I will attend the meeting in San Francisco.
Edward E. Quiros, Editor in Chief of “The Philippine Surgeon,” the official publication of the Society of Philippine Surgeons in America, Inc.
Autumn foliage photo from Lynne
” The sudden dead of Summer had left quite agog,
Distinctly I remember it wasn’t such a long ago
Wither had thee wander from our trysts of yesterdays,
Forgive me if I ponder, “What it from my dev’lish ways?
The Autumn trees are churning Autumn leaves high & low,
but forever I’d be burning from your love that wasn’t so !
-Sir Charles Dunifer
I saw Your Rainbow pass on by.
And thought I’d ask You why,
But then I decided, no way,
For You call all shots Lord,
Only You have the last word,
And we humans resign and say:
“The Rainbow hath worked so hard,
He is to be with You, his reward,
Clearly, surely, no shades of gray.”The Rainbow showed us its colors,
Digital messages and bright images,
To last through ages upon ages.
Digital sounds and many flavors,
Reaching out to cyber space,
So delightful to follow and trace,
No doubt helpful to us road warriors.
We Facebook, Twitter and say hello,
We Skype, we type: ” wuzzup, yo! ”
We iTunes, we iPad, nothing us bores.We iPhone, we iMac, we email,
We’re in touch, we’re everywhere,
We have no limits,we’re here and there,
We find the head and tail,
We joke, we teach,we walk,
Multiple languages we talk,
We boogie, we fly, we sail,
We twist, we shout, we prance,
We can do lots and take the chance,
We can speed or slow down like a snail.Lord, thank You for the Rainbow;
It has enriched our lives,
It helps us venture out of our beehives,
Of course Lord, You already know.
Thank You for the WWW and Internet,
Everything’s from You we shouldn’t forget,
For You lift us all creatures low.
Lord may every mind and heart
Not from You ever depart,
And never away any gift from You throw.
The rhythmic sound of the waves lapping the shore
gently nudged us into consciousness.
The sea beckoned.
Tiptoeing out and then skipping as we headed towards the sandy shores.
The wind is salty .
The sand tickled our bare feet.
We ran .We walked .We laughed.
We stopped to examine treasures from the sea.
We wrote our names on the sand.
We watched the pelicans fly away with their catch.
There was not a soul on the beach.
We note flickering lights from a distance, against the dark blue -tinged sky.
The moon is still high.
The stars twinkled and winked .
After three miles of our foot prints on the sand , we retraced our path back home. It is daybreak. We watch the sun rise from the East,
The warm waters of the sea caress our tired feet.
We are always grateful for His provisions.
Lynne
Dawn to Dusk by Lynne
Dawn to dusk
Dusk to dawn
Ever present
Ever steadfast
Burning as the mid day sun
Gentle as the cool morning breeze
In stillness , you utter
Our hearts gather
Devotedness unending
Reason can not decipher
Your power manifested
In the beauty that surround
Freely they fly
Merrily they cry
Deep as the blue sea
High as the azure sky
Such is Your love
Thankful all must we
The Advent celebration came in the form of the San Lorenzo Ruiz statue’s long journey from Manaoag, Philippines to Malden in Massachusetts. It happened in September 2007.
For several years, the Boston Filipino Apostolate (BFA) members had always prayed before a San Lorenzo statue on loan from Dr. Lee. This could no longer go on. In late August 2007, Dr. Lee said that she could no longer allow them to use it. The Boston Filipino Catholics were in a quandary. They did not procure their own icon because they thought it would always be there for their use. Now was the time to get one of their own. The San Lorenzo devotees did what they do best. They prayed for guidance in resolving the problem.
Mini (4th from the left) with her prayer group. Fred, her husband, is farthest right.
This posed a problem. No one could go to the Philippines just in time to get one for the San Lorenzo Feast Day in September. J. Manuel, the Filipino Apostolate Liturgical Coordinator, approached Ate Glo, the coordinator of the Santo Nino Prayer Group. What a coincidence! It turned out that Gloria’s sister lives close to the town of Manaoag in the Province of Pangasinan. This town is known for its excellent craftsmen of religious statues. Within ten days, a huge box containing the San Lorenzo statue arrived on the doorsteps of Ate Glo’s house. That was incredibly fast! The box was quickly opened. The statue was carefully unwrapped. The prayer group of Gloria P, Virgie P, Esther O, Paz M, Minnie and Fred N gazed at the four-foot high statue of a praying San Lorenzo Ruiz. His hands were clasped together and his face was looking up to heaven. It was as if the icon was inspiring the congregation to pray as well. No one knows how San Lorenzo Ruiz looked like but the image was more Spanish than Filipino or Chinese. The prayers of the San Lorenzo devotees were heard. Truly, one cannot underestimate the power of prayer. Prayer works!
Now the “M & M” Twin Cities
Manaoag and Malden – “M & M”–as the San Lorenzo Ruiz devotees now call the twin cities — have more in common than just being linked by a Filipino saint who lived in the 1600. Established in the 1600s, these old places have a similar population of about 53,000. Malden’s area of five square miles resembles Manaoag. But the similarity does not end there. The Filipinos in both places have a strong devotion to the Holy Rosary. A Living Rosary precedes the Filipino Mass in Malden while In Manaoag, Filipinos venerate “Our Lady of the Most Holy Rosary.”
The town of Manaoag in Pangasinan province, famous for its “Lady of the Most Holy Rosary” shrine, has seen countless miracles and healing powers attributed to the Virgin Mary. Located some 200 kilometers (125 miles) from Manila, it is about a five-hour leisurely drive. Its Church of the Most Holy Rosary was established 300 years ago; it is older than the churches in Lourdes, Fatima and Guadalupe. The shrine is visited by almost a million visitors during its peak months making it the town’s biggest tourist attraction. Thus, the town is dubbed the Pilgrimage Center of Northern Philippines. It is also known as the “Antipolo of the North.” Antipolo is a town in Rizal province that is a famous Marian site of the “Virgin of Antipolo,” also the site of many healing miracles.
Malden is a suburban city just five miles north of Boston. Once the richest city in Massachusetts, that label no longer fits. Malden has changed a great deal. Old money has moved out. Ethnically diverse, young suburbanites flooded in, drawn to it by its close accessibility to Boston with its two subway stations. Like some American cities, it is a city of contrasts. The slim majority is the early white immigrants while the rest are the fast-growing recent immigrants. The city’s population is 20% Asian. Out of the town’s total population of 53,340, a recent census showed that 157 are Filipinos, about 0.3%. Despite the population change, racial tolerance has long prevailed in the city. Here in this welcoming atmosphere, the Filipinos found a place to gather, meet and worship.
In the greater Boston area, Filipinos can always avail themselves of a Filipino Mass every Sunday, replete with Filipino cuisine and socialization after the Mass. A regular Filipino Mass is held every second Sunday in the St. Joseph Church in downtown Malden. Other Sunday Masses where the Filipino congregation come together are the following: West Roxbury (first Sunday), Boston College (1st & 3rd Sunday) and Quincy and Braintree (4th Sunday). Established in 1902, the St. Joseph Church reflects an international and ethnical awareness that comes from the city’s diversity. Its current pastor, Fr. William Minigan, has welcomed the Filipinos wholeheartedly. He prepared a special place for the San Lorenzo Ruiz statue on the altar.
San Lorenzo Ruiz
Very little is known about San Lorenzo Ruiz. He was born in Binondo, Manila, of a Chinese father and a Tagalog mother. His father taught him Chinese while his mother taught him Tagalog. Both of his parents were devout Roman Catholics.
Ruiz served as an altar boy at the convent of Binondo church. After being educated by the Dominican friars for a few years, Ruiz earned the title of escribano (calligrapher) because of his skillful penmanship. He became a member of the Cofradia del Santissimo Rosario (Confraternity of the Most Holy Rosary). He married and had two sons and a daughter with Rosario, a native. Life for them was generally peaceful, religious and full of contentment.
That’s about to change in 1636. While working as a clerk at the Binondo Church, Ruiz was falsely accused of killing a Spaniard. Due to the allegation, Ruiz sought asylum on board a ship with three Dominican priests, a Japanese priest and a layman who was a leper. Ruiz and his companions left for Okinawa, Japan on June 10, 1636, with the aid of the Dominican fathers. These missionaries will ultimately perform the conversion of the natives by preaching and teaching, not by violence. At that time, Japan was a place of grit, steeped in a history of violence and a legendary aversion to outsiders. Ruiz and his companions probably knew of the danger ahead of them and were prepared to meet the challenge. But nothing, nothing in their past, could prepare them for a future ordeal.
The Tokugawa shogunate had earned the reputation of persecuting Christians by the time Ruiz had arrived in Japan. Tokugawa wasted no time and the missionaries were arrested and thrown into prison. They did not stay there for long. After two years, they were transferred to Nagasaki to face trial by torture. That was a customary judicial procedure at that time. If you survived the torture, then you were innocent.
On September 27, 1637, Ruiz and his companions were awakened at dawn and taken to the Nishizaka Hill, where they were to be tortured by being hung upside down a pit. This form of torture was known as tsurushi (釣殺し) in Japanese or horca y hoya in Spanish.
That’s their way of investigating at that time. The method was supposed to be an extremely painful and slow torture. Though the victim was bound, one hand was always left free so that victims may be able to signal a recantation of beliefs. In such cases they would be freed. Ruiz and their companions were hung upside down with their heads inside the well.
Their temples were slit open to let blood drip slowly until they died from blood loss and suffocation. It was a painful, slow death. Despite their suffering, Ruiz and his fourteen companions refused to renounce Christianity to spare their lives. Their body was cremated and their ashes where thrown into the sea. Before he died, he reputedly said:
“ | Isa akong Katoliko at buong pusong tinatanggap ang kamatayan para sa Panginoon, kung ako man ay may sanlibong buhay, lahat ng iyon ay iaalay ko sa Kanya. | ” |
(English): I am a Catholic and wholeheartedly accept death for the Lord; if I have a thousand lives, all of them I will offer to Him.)
San Lorenzo Ruiz was the kind of man who could die for God and religion a thousand times if he had to. Canonized by Pope John Paul II on October 28, 1987, San Lorenzo Ruiz holds the honor of being the first Filipino Saint, the “most-improbable of saints,” as Pope John II described him during his canonization ceremony. Why the most improbable? I have no idea and I won’t try to guess. It remains a mystery to me.To mark the arrival of the San Lorenzo Ruiz Statue, a solemn Tagalog Mass was held at St. Joseph Church on Sept. 9, 2007. The Mass was preceded by a praying and singing procession that took place in the church grounds. The statue brought up the rear of the procession, which was the place of honor. Some parishoners were just glad to spruce up the statue. Cely C and Paz M had decorated it earlier with a lei of sampaguita flowers and rosary beads. It stood on a platform borne by Nards G, Peping V, Jose C & Danny T. The attendees solemnly prayed the rosary together during the procession to show unity in prayer with Christ. The procession ended in the church where the statue was carefully carried to its special place on the altar.
The church was full of devotees. Fr. Celestino P, the spiritual director of the Boston Filipino Apostolate, concelebrated the Mass with six other Filipino Jesuit priests from Boston College. The popular Malden Filipiniana Choir, led by the versatile pianist Evelyn D, sang the stirring Filipino religious music of Fr. Eduardo Hontiveros, SJ, the Father of Philippine liturgical music. Special prayers to San Lorenzo Ruiz were recited before the recession. To mark the end of the Mass, the lively San Lorenzo Ruiz hymn was joyously sang. After the Mass, there was a fun-filled reception in the Parish Hall, where food, camaraderie, stories, entertainment and picture-taking were shared. A participant was heard to say, “I am so glad I am here. I wanted so much to join in the prayers of the installation ceremony.”
This is just one of many examples of how the religious spirit continues to thrive in the Filipino community in Massachusetts.
Editor’s Note: A second Filipino saint, Blessed Calungsod of Molo, Iloilo, has been approved for canonization. Molo is a Chinese town in Iloilo where the famous pancit molo originated. This article was originally published in MabuhayRadio.com.
Fred Donaire (with wife Florie), Director, San Lorenzo Ruiz Association of America, Inc.
This is not the pancit Molo I remember from Prince’s Kitchenette or Fatima on Calle Real in Iloilo City but it was good. I used store-bought wonton wrappers and they worked just fine. I processed the filling in my ancient Cuisinart, a mixture of pork, shrimp, garlic and yellow onions and made stock from a whole chicken I boiled with slivers of ginger, Italian parsley and celery stalks. I found out that adding surplus filling that I dropped in half teaspoonfuls into the boiling broth made the resulting soup taste closer to what I remember. Then I added my own emendations: baby bokchoy and a few drops of sesame oil. Photo and article by Orlando.
RESTAURANT REVIEW
The New Formosa Seafood Buffet, a Review
In the Philippines, Chinese restaurants were everywhere and were, outside of the mercado, often the only choice for dining out. The situation is changed now. Restaurants offering native Filipino food but spruced up for the modern palate are sprouting as expression of a reborn nationalism, especially among young, educated Filipinos. My nephew even opened a traveling kiosk selling various flavors of guinamos, that lowly, smelly, native counterpart to the Western European anchovy!
The change in the U.S. is even more marked. Until the 1980s, ethnic restaurant meant Chinese restaurant, and Cantonese-American at that. Now, of course, we have Indian restaurants and sushi joints at every corner and Mexican groceries and restaurants are appearing even faster to serve the fast-growing Mexican expatriates. These are usually families with many children (Catholics, you know).
The new Chinese restaurants are no longer your familiar Cantonese. Insular Americans, even here in the Midwest, are finally getting their palates tickled by the rich variety of regional Chinese cooking. China is a gigantic country and its culture bespeaks the gigantic diversity. Surely this is the global village social gurus have been predicting and that we’re now in ferment of comprehending, fighting off (xenophobia is universal), and, for some of us, appreciating!
8 China Buffet (eight is a lucky number among the Chinese) used to be my go-to place after the now defunct Forbidden City (that in its day was the first to offer a Far East, not just Chinese, menu). Forbidden City is gone and 8 China has been floundering since The Journey opened in Fishers. Now the owners are trying to recapture their cutting-edge position riding the new popularity of seafood (yes, even among native-born Hoosiers) as our population think “healthy” and “cholesterol-friendly.”
Formosa Seafood Buffet opened today. When I called at eleven this morning the guy who answered the phone told me there was already a long line of people trying to get in. When I got there shortly before noon, the parking lot was full. Yes, it may just give TJ a run for the Chinese-food-lover’s money.
New uniforms outfitted many of the same people I knew from 8 China Buffet but the place was bustling with new staff, too, each cadre distinguished by their distinctive uniform. Maitre d’ staff had white and gold blouses, waiters rich maroon jackets, busboys had plain white shirts, and wandering from table to table were largely Caucasian (they spoke English!) manager surrogates in long white jackets. The latter asked the diners if they needed anything, anything at all, and if we did, the need was quickly taken care of! This is unheard of in two-dollar-sign restaurants!
Five long rows of steam-heated dishes line the central room whose stadium-like spaciousness was not mitigated by pillar, wall or partition. I was reminded me of an Asian market, lines of vendors under an open sky. Close to a half of the offerings were the old standby from 8 China but there were more than a handful of new dishes. At the top of my list were: pork rind in a rich sauce with veggies, spinach buns (the wheat pastry was thin like wet napkin, unlike the Middle Eastern spanokopita), crispy squid (thin pieces so they were tasty-crisp through), steamed white fish (tender and just the other side of mushy), fried “spring” chicken, crispy pork ribs and beef sticks (thin fillets of marinated beef still hot from the grill). One of the front desk staff who knew me from 8 China told me that the weekend brunch include wandering dim sum carts!
Formosa (recalls the old name of Taiwan, meaning “beautiful”) has some ways to go to seriously compete with The Journey but the new dishes were wonderful and all freshly cooked. It certainly has promise and the price, same as that charged at 8 China, might mean the inevitable demise of the older restaurant.
Part of my interest in the new restaurant hinged on how the owners designed a new restaurant. There is the choice of food to serve but beyond that, what other choices do a business owner take to separate himself from the competition? FCB tried to go for elegant. The booths were Chinese rosewood, the napkins were thick cotton oversized hankies matching the waiter’s jackets, the chopstick were long, lacquer-like black heavy plastic sticks. The dining areas were spacious but more people-friendly than the buffet room. You should see the bathroom with OVOToilet fixtures in gold against black faux-marble countertops. Instead of the goop most buffet offer as ice cream they had nine flavors of real ice cream and in addition to the restaurant-supply Chinese cakes good Bundt cakes. (The lemon cake was terrific.)
The staff was perhaps the big difference. The Chinese staff seated the patrons but the waiters and wandering quality-control staff were Caucasian or Hispanics who spoke English. The busboys, of course, were Mexicans. I was most impressed, after the food, by the incredible number of staff floating around. I congratulated the new manager, a former veteran waiter at 8 China. He was decked in ill-fitting Mao jacket but beaming with pride.
Just having a floor manager seemed to me a most unusual feature. Several members of the Chinese family that owns the new restaurant were also floating around, not interacting with the diners (unlike at the old Forbidden City where the owner herself went from table to table) but checking to make sure everything was running smoothly.
Here once again we see the Chinese showing us how they do business! Big and elegant they know how to do but now they’re borrowing a thing or two from American restaurants, like providing staff who speak the language and can explain the dishes and address diners’ needs. Viva diversity and the new global economy! (Written by Orlando G).
Tiny Violets Photo by Pete Calope
On December 9,1531, Our Lady desired to have a church built on a hill in Central Mexico.
Juan Diego, an Aztec indian was a recent convert to the Christian Faith. He was chosen by our Mother Mary to relay a message to the Bishop of Tenochtitlan , Fray Juan de Zumarraga.
On Tepayac Hill , our Mother Mary , appeared to Juan Diego on three occasions.
The reluctant messenger had to produce evidence to the Bishop that his story was not a figment of his imagination.On her third appearance to Juan Diego, our Lady provided proof of the veracity of his account . A tilma is an apron made of cactus fiber , which peasants wore back then. Juan used his tilma to carry the roses back to show the bishop as proof of Mary’s apparition. It was cold in the mountains , not the season for roses, and yet , there were beautiful roses on the hills .
Following the instructions of Mother Mary, Juan gathered the the roses and used his tilma to carry the roses back to show the Bishop. Juan opened his tilma and let the roses drop to the floor. The bishop and his companions, fell to their knees .The image of our Lady of Guadalupe was imprinted on the tilma exactly as Juan described her to the bishop .
Mary, as Santa Maria de Guadalupe is the God- bearer . This image shows that she was with child , carrying the son of God, Jesus.She actually looks Hispanic in this image, with her dark hair and olive skin, like a Filipina .
Our Lady of Guadelupe is the Patroness of the Americas and Filipinos abroad .
Her feast day is celebrated on December 12. To this day,the miraculous tilma can be viewed at the Basilica of Our Lady of Guadalupe in Tepeyac ,Mexico City, Mexico.
The tilma with the image of Mary remains intact . It is a mystery how the image was imprinted . It’s creation is unexplainable . The tilma shows no sign of deterioration after more than 4 centuries .It survived a bombing, fires , constant exposure to the elements and flash photography. It is indeed a miracle.
This Marian Apparition attained Holy See approval on May 25, 1754 during the time of Pope Benedict XIV . In 1987, Juan Diego was declared venerable by Pope John Paul the ll
And was beatified on May6, 1990 by Pope John Paul ll. He was canonized in 2002 as Saint Juan Diego Cuahtlatoazin.Our Lady is known as “the protector and advocate of the indigenous people “.She is the “one who crushes the serpent”. “The Queen of Mexico”
Lynne
My Hometown, Virginia Beach
BOOK REVIEW
Morning after another last week I woke up wanting to get to the computer to start writing. It’s all because of Jewish-American writer, André Aciman, whose first feature book, Out of Egypt, put me under his spell.
SEPTEMBER: Fred Donaire (Sep 2), Marietta Lozada (Sep 3), Johanna Valencia (Sep 7), Art Jurao (Sep 10), Jose Robles, Alice Lachenal-Dijamco, Freddie Custodio
OCTOBER: Luzbella Marcelo (10/1), Luz Bunuan, Gil Marasigan, James Zipagan, Charles Dunifer, Glo Montinola, Yet Dizon., Suzette Correa-Miclat (10/20). Boy Margallo, Evelyn Villena, Dado Castillo, Raffy Poblete, Florante Lomibao
NOVEMBER: Joe Leoncio, Connie Arceo, Erlinda Santos, Noel Guanzon, Charlie Capati, Mirla Manito, Mags Tiamson. Evelyn Basco, May Capati, Herminia Gayos, Vivien Gamo, Carmelita Mirabueno, Angie Espinosa, Cora Golez, Gani Laurencio, Greg Aglipay, Rod Polintan, Max Basco, Ronnie Jariol, Dulce Dungo
DECEMBER: Rancie Ragon-Tolosa, Deng Sitjar, Ed Quiros, Roger Liboon, Jessie Navarro, Evelyn Austria. Vicky Co, Seth Policarpio (12/25), Efren Regio
RECOGNITION:
Real Money: Should I Invest Retirement Savings in a Variable Annuity?
To view the entire article, go to http://www.kiplinger.com/magazine/archives/invest-retirement-savings-variable-annuity.html?topic_id=37
Lynda Baquero of NBC did a video interview of Norman San Agustin on December 1, 2011. As published in People Magazine over a decade ago, Norma and Biba’s only child died of a head injury from a ski accident. over a decade ago. Since then, they went on a mission to promote helmets for children in ski slopes and for a well-equipped and well-staffed medical emergency plan in ski slopes. Because of their efforts, New Jersey became the first state to impose helmets on children and teens below the age of 18. Nowadays, kids skiing without helmets is history. Watch the video on this link:http://www.nbcnewyork.com/video/#!/on-air/as-seen-on/Finding-The-Right-Helmet-For-Ski-Safety/134872768
Congratulations to Charlie Capati for being the Gawad Kalinga (GK) guest speaker during the GK Thanksgiving dinner hosted by the GK of Hampton Beach, VA. He was the recipient of the Most Outstanding Award for Community Service from the UST Medical Alumni Association of America.
Perception, Our Unique View of a Slippery Universe |
A friend who has moved away used to visit in the summer bringing me her herbed vinegar in long-necked, amethyst-colored bottles with simple garland and fruit designs. One does not usually think vinegar when remembering someone fondly but somehow those bottles have come to iconize the brief times we spent together.
How I perceive events, how others too appear to perceive events especially events we’re privy to together and divergently describe them, endlessly fascinate me. Not that by dwelling on the observable nature of perception understanding would necessarily purify its objects for me because nothing approaching human seems powerful enough to be its alembic but because the faculty of perception itself seems so at the core of what we call experience that any attempt to see it in action feels somehow right, even a responsibility for anyone interested in what makes us human.
To purify perception is antithetical: by its nature perception is subjective, a phenomenon of the inner self, mind sailing into its native harbor, its home port, its own part of the sea where it naturally belongs.
Mentioning those summer gifts to my friend, I heard back from her: “Oh, if I’d known you loved my purple basil and garlic vinegar, I’d have kept you supplied!”
Friends, mirrors of our different worlds, provide tiny escapes from perceptions that bind us in ignorance. Relationships are so beautiful because they add to our otherwise hermetically closed worlds that we can glimpse other worlds outside it, beside it: we don’t have to live alone as we do; we connect.
Awareness of the operation of perception may be end in itself. It’s not necessary to rid ourselves of experience. Imagine life stripped of perception and it’s life without meaning! For perception infuses an impersonal world momentarily with our presence and presence is, like it or not, what creates meaning.
I raise herbs on my tiny deck facing the lake so concocting herb-infused vinegars is no great feat but my vinegar would not be anything like my friend’s. Perception would have been so far from the icon I remember. It’s the old lila of Hindu philosophy, so is nothing new.
As humans we are immersed in the sea of our own making and perception is one of its creators. To be human is to live immersed in our unique “seeing,” our own karma-mediated perception and intoxicated we identify appearance as reality. Should we avoid intoxication?
Without the intoxication of perception would life still be the delight (and terror) it is to live?
So we take the entire spectrum of experience as it is, consoling ourselves when we’re located on an unpleasant point to see we’re moving endlessly on a slippery slope, now down but later up again, motion that distinguishes us for being alive, being human.
“It won’t be the same,” I wrote my friend, “but I’ll do it anyway. For the sake of our friendship, for the sake of what is gone.”
Indeed we might like to keep our friendships where they were when they showered us with grace and abundance but letting go too is human. Letting go we turn the carousel round: what goes up comes back down, what is gone returns. Maybe not in the form we recognize at once but it all comes back.
Merry Christmas to all and to all friendship, love and return!
Second USTMD70 e-magazine
SEPTEMBER 2011 SECOND USTMD70 E-MAGAZINE
THE GREAT AMERICAN
BY LEW HORTILLOSA
THE ENDEAVOR OR STRUGGLE TO MAINTAIN THE CENTER AND BALANCE OF LIFE by Lew Hortillosa
It is not unusual to encounter in my quotidian life, either professionally or socially, some persons who are out of kilter or off balance. It is neither unusual to hear “There’s just too much going on. I am down to my last raw nerve. I cannot cope anymore. I am about to pull my hair.” In the clinic, most likely, they are looking for a “nerve pill”. In reality and seriously, these persons need more than just a crutch or band-aid. As Physicians, we all know that automatically. Just to assure or improve their quality of life, such a person needs a minuscule dose of an anxiolytic, plus that extra reality of an “extra mile walk”. Yes, but it is not “for a Camel”. Remember the old commercial? That walk is the ” Teach me ” walk. “Sir/Ma’am, the nerve pill will not fix your problems. Nobody dies from anxiety, not even from Panic attacks. All those symptoms you experience come from the Adrenalin cascade or rush, very similar to what goes on when you are at the front row of a Rock ‘n Roll concert. Now, go to your therapist or counselor to learn some coping strategy and hopefully you will find your balance.” In the normal scheme of things, life is a true balancing endeavor.
From my own experience following a “derailment,” I re-awakened to the fact that it takes more than just behavioral therapy or counseling to maintain the balance in thinking, feeling and performing our roles in life. It needs CENTERING. To remained centered implies a deeper approach, i.e. a SPIRITUAL ” thing. ” To many, the spiritual aspect is ” different strokes for different folks “. To Christians, of course, GOD is The Centre, through Jesus in the Holy Eucharist. To Jews, Buddhists, Moslems, and others, it is something else. You tell me. This is an idea so easy to say or propose. But, in the reality of daily life, it is a true endeavor, nay struggle. First off, it is a difficult thing to even remember to do it. What to do? Tie a string around your index finger? Have your cellphone’s voice tell you hourly? Surely everyone has different ideas. Please tell?
What was it like during the student days? The day to day activities were studying, taking test after tests. Going home was more of studying and an occasional breaks for movies parties, fiestas, pool tables and back to the province looking for high school classmates. Dating was for the lucky few and even then, that was done clandestinely. People looked and talked and parents worried. Worry was minimal in our life then. What to wear and where to have pants sewn was important, on to Manlapat or Manlapaz tailors, not Mccomber.A Tancho tique for the hair and some money for the pool table,that was good enough. For food, tuyo, tsitsaron,sardinas and boiled corn was our fast food. I can only speak for some of the men. As for the ladies, I did not know what they liked. A hairdo fad, Jackie O or Susan Plashette look, head bands, dangling earrings and short skirts? I’m guessing; they were in that other world across.
We were closed to finishing school and on what was next, we cared little. The US, a world largely unknown was in the subconscious and for many, it just happened like a natural course of events. A life plan? Who cared? Who went where and what hospital in RP they went, did not matter. Everyone for himself It did not really matter where we found ourselves.For the most part we all lost connections as a class, splintered into small tribes. Some who became Residents in the University were the lucky ones For the rest, it was a life of drudgery, enslaved as doing H& Ps, starting IVs, inserting Foleys. The nights were no fun but came daytime, life was not so bad. Remember HB in RP? Those were the sweet little pleasures of anticipation. The drug Rep. was Santa Claus.
We turned the page and we were Interns in the USA. A signed contract was all we needed; it did not matter where or how much was the stipend This, we thought, was everything we wanted, not knowing there were other things in life we needed to know, like– some plans. This country was the marketplace of all life survival plans. Foremost of these was the Insurance business selling their wares: Life insurance, Disability, Health, Malpractice, Long term care, Cancer and Diabetes insurance, Car, Homeowners, Renters, Business. Then there were the Retirement Plans: Self-employment, 401k, Annuities. Most of these cost money and we grudgingly put up with those we absolutely needed.
There was one thing we in the US or, American citizens, have in common, and that was the Social Security we are qualified to collect now or soon now being of age.Yeah, a time to reap. It’s payback time from Uncle Sam. To all who anticipate getting Social Security checks this year or next, you might want to read the New York Times Magazine last weekend. In it, the author recommends that, if one is healthy and has enough to get by till age 70,waiting might be a wiser option. One would then anticipate an additional 1/3 increase in the check amount. If one is still working and plans to stay that long, this might be of interest to you. If one takes that option and live a long time, the ladies probably will, then one may come out ahead. The alternative will be left to the imagination. I’m sorry but, at this age, no doubt, life span becomes part of the equation for mathematical calculation. The older generation calls this predicament as, someone is in a jam or “Catch 22.”
The kids think of situations like this very lightly, being that they have yet to experience the complexities of life. Never mind telling them about it, but if you do, please expect no commiseration except for a short quip “that sucks”. Would they stay for dinner? No, sorry, they have plans and they go their merry way. Darn, why can’t I be young again and have my own little plans? Joe Leoncio
LOVE’S LABOR LOST BY JOE LEONCIO
Once upon a time in RP, the year was 1970-1971, in one hospital in Manila.here is one story I like to share with you.It is a complement to a friend but I would rather, he not be identified.One should just focus on this story.It could be similar in part to your story or someone you know, a Filipino tradition of how men court the women they love.
Joaquin was a physician ahead of us by a few years. He liked Surgery but there were only few slots at the medical school, he had to work as a house Resident in one of the hospitals in Manila.In that hospital, there were a lot of surgery to assist which suited his area of interest.The house residents did all the H&Ps, started IVs, insert foleys and assisted in surgery. There was very little learning that took place but was a respite from the medical school where one was forced to read everyday and passed exams.
Every morning at the doctors lounge, the Residents congregated to wait for the drug rep which was usually one of the highlights of the day.The day schedule and what one does was predictable except the house call request from outside which came 2 to 3 times a week. Joaquin did all the house calls. He asked me to come with him once. We took a jeep to the sick person’s house, an old lady who had fever. She was given a shot of anti-pyretic and a prescription for aspirin and antibiotics. He was paid 50 pesos which he shared half for me.
One can only go so far in a life like this and once boredom comes in a way, what was more exciting than showing interest in a woman one gets attracted to. Joaquin fell in love with Lucy, an attractive girl who worked at the Lab. It looked like they were a good match.She was about 5 feet and 4 inches.
Joaquin was tall, nice and personable physician, socially adept, liked by everyone.The surgeons like him as he has big arms that can pull retractors well for long operations.Joaquin hanged around the Lab a lot and fantasied about Lucy that maybe she would be the girl he would marry but at that point, they were just friends and murmuring at the hospital discouraged too much togetherness. He was much preoccupied about Lucy, it gave him reason to stay in that hospital despite the meager salary of which he liked to buy 33mm records for his stereo.
One weekend when the girl was on vacation in the province, Joaquin decided to visit her and meet her family. I wasn’t sure whether it was a surprise visit which may well be as phone service were not always available.They were from neighboring provinces. He took a bus and reached the place by nightfall and by then it started to rain. He had to asked where she lives by asking neighbors as not all the houses had numbers. He waded through mud and gravel ,his shoes and umbrella were dripping wet when he got there.Her father by his account,warmly received him ,and as a “pasalubong”, he had a basketful of “ bangus” That much of the story, he shared with me.
Unfortunately, the relationship did not have time to mature which by curse of fate it would be rudely interrupted by this Gorilla, Uncle Sam.The girl’s visa was approved for an employment to the US. I doubt Joaquin proposed marriage He could not support a family.He could not follow for various reasons.Should he have proposed marriage anyway and let her make that decision to accept or not? If I was any wiser, I probably would have urged him to do so, knowing he liked her a lot.
If she considered, it might have been a leap into the unknown, a sense of uncertainty that would have discouraged her.There was one Filipino tradition of eloping which is usually for those impulsive ones especially when families object to either partner.That was not the case here and it didn’t happened.
At the time the girl was to leave, he took a jeep to see her one last time at the airport. Crowds of relatives and friends stood there with her who were all excited to send her off. Joaquin could not get close,she was always talking and smiling to all who were like a cordon around her. He lost his will to get any closer and he decided he wanted to give her that time for her relatives who might not see her again for sometime.Their eyes met, he longingly waved goodbye from a distance.He went back to the hospital with a heavy heart.
I know he could managed this what he thought was a great loss.He was not prone to brooding. He had enough social connections to distract him. Besides there was work that must be done, a chore at times but a real therapy for the idle and idle he was not.He spoke to everyone, from the telephone operator to the clerks at the desks.I’m sure some of the nurses like him or the physician ladies who he always had a good talk with.
About 3 months later he shared me a photograph of her which she sent from San Diego. She was wearing a horizontal black striped white T shirt very well fit for sailing at the bay.She was with her 2 girlfriends and they were about to board a small boat along with 3 Filipino men who were US Navy guys. I kidded him that one of those guy might end up marrying her, a comment meant as a joke which I regretted for following that I saw a sadness in his voice and his face.In RP, we don’t say I’m sorry, we just keep quiet and change the subject as soon as we can which I did. I would not see another photograph or letter or at least he did not share again.
There was something about coming to the US, that one has to live in that world and soon ,friends from RP seemed so far away. In terms of men and women, unless they are married, the gap widens as time passes That gap would disentangle whatever emotional attachment for someone of the opposite sex. For some it is a long goodbye till another person fill that sense of emptiness.
I have not seen Joaquin since I left.The only two times I went home, I wanted visit that hospital, but there was no parking lot. People normally get off the side road from a jeep and walked. If one has a car, it was almost impossible to park. In Manila one could get lost easily and stopping was a risk, Besides I was not sure if the people I know were still there if I came.
Some years had passed and I at times wonder whatever happened to him. Some of those nurses at the hospital then are now in the US. It’s a small world. I met some of them here and I asked about Joaquin. I was told he married one of the nurses at the hospital maybe 3 or 4 years after I left. I was not a bit surprised.
Joaquin is now a practicing Surgeon.He never left RP and stayed in that same hospital.The senior surgeons there I’m sure taught him hands-on learning.
As for the girl of his dreams, Lucy, no word about her and her whereabouts. My best bet is, like us, she stayed in America and maybe somewhere, married with , perhaps with grandchildren. She may well at times mistily remember Joaquin whose courtship was one the best of its kind—only in RP.
Joe Leoncio
SUNSHINE IN THE BARRIO by Pete Calope
IN SEARCH OF MY ROOTS by Herminia Perez Festin-Navato
Never in my life did I think that I would trace my ancestors over several generations. Never in my life did I imagine that I would have fun writing about them. The search for my roots begins in Banton, one of seven islands in the province of Romblon. Romblon is located right in the center of the Philippines. My mother, Patria Yap Perez, came to this world on January 12 in Banton. It was 1928. The United States was at the height of its prosperity. However, the following year, the stock market crashed and ushered in the Great Depression. You would not know it in Banton, one of about 7000 islands in the Philippine Archipelago which was acquired by the the United States after the Spanish-American war. The Great Depression did not affect the Bantoanons. Modern civilization seemed a thousand miles away in this tiny island. The Bantoanons lived in a world of their own. They received news of the outside world from vacationing relatives and friends several weeks or months after the events happened.
It is so isolated or remote that, in the old days, anyone who got seriously ill had no choice but to pray and pray and pray — not to recover but to plead that the welcome at the gates of Kingdom Come by St. Peter would not be unfavorable.
The Rocky Island
The name Banton means rock from the Visayan word ´bato.´ Banton is an island of rock. Sharp rocks dot the island. Banton’s boulders are so numerous and huge, and its terrain so rugged that there is hardly any flat land. It is hilly with few arable fields.The island was so poor then that famine, especially during the months-long rainy typhoon season when fishing was impossible, was not uncommon, and it is so small that one can walk around it in a few stumbling hours. Since there is very little flat land, people are forced to live in steep hillsides. Good farmland is also scarce. Hills, which are not good for farming, cover most of the land. Forest grow all over the island like moss covering stone. Banton was dependent on nearby Mindoro for rice, its staple food. Life was harsh in Banton and people would work tirelessly to farm its little precious soil. From this harder way of life came a kinder and more tolerant attitude. Many of Romblon’s professionals come from Banton. Unfortunately, the unpromising future in Banton drove these professionals to leave and seek greener pastures elsewhere.
Mom and Dad
Miss Commonwealth of Romblon Patring, as my mother was affectionately called, grew up, under beautiful rural circumstances, in a quiet farming and fishing community in Banton. The wives grew vegetables in their small garden plots while their husbands either went deep sea fishing or raised crops. It was the kind of village where you worked hard from dawn to dusk even if, at the end of the day, you could only bring home a few fishes and some vegetables for dinner. Patring spent the first ten years of her life in Banton before she and her family moved to nearby Simara island where land was cheap. Her father Alfredo Perez had taken the job of municipal treasurer of Corcuera, Simara and built the biggest house in the island. Despite the move, the hard-working habit of the Bantoanons left a lasting impact on my mother. An island girl, she cultivated a strong work ethic and had big dreams. Throughout her life, she firmly believed that hard work and perseverance brought success. Growing up with few material comforts, she believed that personal success meant success in economic terms. I was brought up to believe in hard work, perseverance and taking advantage of every good opportunity that came my way. A strikingly beautiful woman, she was tall and slender with milky-white complexion and jet black hair. At the age of 15, my mom won the provincial Miss Commonwealth beauty contest and Uncle Eking (Enrique Fallarme) was her prince consort.
A Bataan Death March Survivor My father (Napoleon Famadico Festin) was different. He was the product of an upper-class upbringing and Manila schools. To him, a better indicator of personal success was the contentment with which we viewed our lives. The story of my father also began in Banton. He could trace his roots to barrio Sibay in the island. Almost all of Sibay’s population is a Festin or originated from a Festin. I still have many Festin relatives living there. Many Festin’s became priests and nuns. In the 1990s, Cardinal Sin honored the Festin clan for raising many priests and nuns.A Festin uncle (Augusto) donated land to establish a major seminary in Odiongan, Tablas, another Romblon island. My family donated a church to the Archdiocese of Romblon while the clan gave land and money for a Gawad Kalinga village in Tablas. My dad signed up voluntarily to be a soldier in WWII. While hiding behind a tree, a bullet almost grazed his cheek but he survived the war unscathed. Otherwise, I won’t be here.
The Colonial Life under Spain By order of Governor General Narciso Calveria y Zaldua, the Spanish friars started baptizing the natives of Romblon on November 21, 1849, choosing their surnames from the “Catalogo de Apellidos.” Thus, everyone in Banton had a last name that began with the letter F – Fabella, Fadriquela, Fabicon, Fadrilan, Falqueza, Fajutrao, etc. (It´s a good thing we did not get a curse word from the catalog). In Spanish, ´festin´ means a small festival. Three-hundred fifty years of Spanish rule gave us our names, our religion, and influenced our music, cuisine and language. The melodious Romblon dialect, like Spanish, is a phonetic language. It is pronounced as it is written. The Spanish catalog was also used in the neighboring island of Sibuyan, where names begin with ´R´, and the main Romblon island, where names begin with ´M.´ To learn about the Spain of 40 years ago, read Romblomanon Eddie Calderon’s article on this link. http://sanrokan.com/newsanrokan/archives/jan04/op_ed_spanish3_calderon.htm. Elderly folks in Romblon still remember the legend of Ulo Aweng, my great-great grandfather. Here is how the legend goes.
The Legend of Ulo Aweng, the Jono of Barangay Sibay Early in the 19th century, Ulo Aweng, the village philosopher, was one of those unfortunate islanders who was believed to have been taken as a slave by the Muslims. He served his masters well. Aweng certainly gained his masters’ trust and confidence for he became a constant fishing companion of the Muslims. Aweng later was allowed to fish alone. These solo fishing expeditions gave Aweng the opportunity to escape. One night, Aweng packed his bags and sailed his masters’ outriggger boat northward. He reached an island, but, much to his dismay, he found out that it was still Muslim land. Aweng did not panic. Out of the blue sea, a big fish appeared. Aweng yelled, ´If you were sent by God, come to the shores and take me home.” Somehow, the fish edged to the side of Aweng and off they swam to another island. The Spanish authorities believed Aweng’s fish story and he was brought back by boat to Banton island. Ulo Aweng was baptized and given the name Manuel Festin.
Lolo Enyong Auntie Ely Auntie Perla, Uncle Pepe
Lola Incay
The First Filipino Gobernadorcillo of Romblon Lolo Aweng, credited as our family patriarch, had 5 children, 3 sons and 2 daughters. One son, Eugenio Festin (Lolo Enyong) was my great-grandfather who moved to Odiongan around 1860 during the second wave of migration of the Bantoanons to Odiongan. The first wave occurred in 1840. He became a judge in Tablas and later gobernadorcillo of Romblon. Tough as he was to other people, he was gentle at home, almost hen-pecked by the formidable Lola Inkay. Because of the Spanish-American war in 1898, the Spanish friars left Romblon and Lolo Enyong became an Aglipayan priest to fill the void. He was also creative, concocting many herbal medicines for the people’s ailments. As a result, he acquired many large tracts of lands in Tablas. One son (Santiago) became the deputy governor of Davao. His only daughter, Felipa Festin, married to Susano Negado, NAWASA Director, became the Dean of the Philippine Normal College.
Mama Mariana Auntie Nitang Uncle Bebs
Papa Nardo
The Traditional Politician Lolo Enyong’s other son and my grandfather, Leonardo Festin (Papa Nardo or “Papa”), was the longest-serving Assemblyman (now called Congressman) of Romblon from 1916 – 1946. A lawyer, he founded the Nacionalista party in Romblon early in his career. He started his political career when, fresh from law school, he was elected to the Municipal Board of Odiongan. Odiongan was then the seat of the Romblon government. He went on to become the President of the Municipal Board (1910-1913). Following this stint, he caught the eye of the Provincial Board of Capiz and was then appointed to the Board. At that time, Romblon was still a part of the province of Capiz. At the age of 29, while a member of the Provincial Board, he was elected representative (congressman) of the third district of Capiz (including Romblon) from 1916-1919. As a representative, he enacted several bills into law, among which was the Electoral Reform Law which removed Romblon from the jurisdiction of Capiz in 1917 and made it into an independent province. This is his most noteworthy achievement. He became Romblon’s first assemblyman which lasted thirty years. Together with the Governor of Mindoro, he transferred Sibale from the jurisdiction of Mindoro to Romblon. In the lower House, he was elected the Majority Floor Leader and also the Speaker of the House at one time. Following his stint in Congress, he became the Commissioner of Census.
Papa Nardo was noted for his fiery, passionate and powerful campaign speeches delivered in a booming voice that could be heard a kilometer away without a loudspeaker and drew a huge crowd. His eloquent oratory, powerful debating skills and his mastery of parliamentary rules and procedues earned him the status as the “Dean of the House.” My grandfather was an authoritarian figure and an honest man. When Vice President Lopez gave him a gift of P25,000, he thought it might be a bribe and returned it. He said his duty was law-making, not million-making. There was no mistake about it.
Nanang Buric (Fainsan) and Tata Salo Famadico
The Fabon-Fainsan-Fondevilla-Famadico-Festin connection Leonardo Festin’s grandfather on the maternal side was Bruno Arcenas of Capiz. When Bruno was accused of being insolent to a Spanish friar, he decided to leave Capiz. He remembered a tiny, remote island which was not even on the map. It was quite a distance from Capiz, far from the long arm of the law. And it was sparsely populated where it would be easy to assume a new identity and start a new life. So, under the cover of darkness, he sailed away into the night, bound for Simara. Bruno Arcenas changed his name to Bruno Fabon, moved from Simara to Tablas and married a local girl. His daughter was Francisca Fabon (Lola Incay), my great-grandmother who married Lolo Enyong, His son, Papa Nardo , married another Bantoanon native, the reclusive Mariana Fainsan Famadico of Despujols, Tablas. She was the gentle and quiet only child of wealthy landowners, Dolores Fainsan (Nanay Buric) and Nazario Famadico (Tatay Salo). A caretaker of their vast land holdings, the well-dressed and sociable Nana Buric acted the imposing boss of Colis that she was. The father of Nana Buric was Teoderico Fainsan, an Indian deserter of the British Army which invaded and captured Manila in the early 1800s during the Seven Years’ War, “the first world-wide conflict.” Dolores had a sister Leoncia (Nanang Onsa) who married Andres Fondevilla who belonged to the largest documented clan in the province.
The Story of Papa Dako In Madras, India, the British Army combined with the East Indies company to recruit Indian soldiers, one of whom was my great-great grandfather. They sailed from Madras to conquer Spanish Philippines. During the two-year British rule of Manila and some parts of northern Luzon, they inflicted horrible atrocities on the Spaniards and native Filipinos. My great-great grandfather could not stand these brutal acts and escaped from the British army. He found his way to Banton, far away from the seat of the British government in Vigan. Upon his arrival in Banton, he was baptized Teoderico Fainsan. He opened a big store in Banton with supplies from his frequent trips to Manila and became the richest man in town. The town folks nicknamed him “Papa Dako” because he was tall, dark and bulky. “Dako,” in the Banton Asi dialect means tall and big.
He married Tiburcia Mapili of Romblon, Romblon, with whom he had two daughers. One daughter was my great-grandmother, Nanang Buric. An older daugher Leonza married a Fondevilla with whom she had 8 children. The Fondevilla’s originated in tiny Simara and many Fondevilla’s still live there. The word Fondevilla means “founder of the village” of Corcuera, Simara. There is now a Fondevilla shipping line, plying the route between Romblon and Manila making some Fondevilla’s wealthy. My Indian ancestry explains why some of my relatives look like Indians.
Back to Banton,,,
Eons ago, underwater volcanoes in the South China Sea erupted, giving rise to submerged mountain ranges. About 300,000 years ago, the sea level fell, exposing the mountain peaks, which formed the islands. The Tres Islas , which comprise Banton, Sibale and Simara, were some of these volcanic islands.
Marble Country of the Philippines
The main island of Romblon, Romblon (the marble island), has a special place in Philippine art, architecture and industry. In the remote past, its rock was heated and molded by magma (underground lava) which rose close to the surface. The rock deformed under heat and pressure and re-crystallized to natural marble formations of different shapes and colors. In fact, Romblon is the only place in Southeast Asia with marble deposits of commercial value. All the islands of Romblon have marble but Romblon island has the richest deposits. European tourist ships would periodically dock in Romblon to view its scenic harbor (see picture above) and buy native marble products. Its naturally well-protected harbor is the most landlocked harbor in the Philippines. It is the seat of the Provincial Government.
The Sister Island of Boracay The aboriginal mangyan and negrito tribes who inhabited Tablas island earlier were driven to the hills when the more advanced people from neighboring islands occupied the lowlands. Eventually, they fled to Carabao island where they are now settled as a community. Carabao island, one of the islands that make up the Romblon province, is only a half-hour boat ride from Boracay, currently the most famous international resort in the Philippines. Carabao Island is being developed by foreign nationals as the next Boracay. Carabao Island has the most beautiful beaches in Romblon, without the crowd.
Photo below of Carabao Island beach with Boracay in the background.
Sibuyan by the Sea A small German community has sprouted in Sibuyan, the second-largest island of Romblon. They brought their own equipment from Germany and cultivated a community which has attracted many European scuba divers to the island. Snorkeling is also popular. They have their own medical clinic and airplane. Some Germans have married local women who bore brown-skinned, handsome children. Slowly, they have infiltrated Romblon politics and someday may become a political force in the province. My Ruga ancestors come from Sibuyan. Sibuyan is noted for its difficult-to-climb Mt.Guiting-Guiting mountain (see picture above).
The Tree island
Tablas is the largest of Romblon’s major islands. The word Tablas is derived from “tabla” which means a large plank of wood. Fine beaches and inlets abound in Tablas. It is also blessed with beautiful waterfalls and exotic coral reefs. With rolling hills thick with coconut trees, it has a good covering of natural forest.The Romblon State University and the airport are located in Tablas. Odiongan, the main town of Tablas, is the richest town in Romblon. Since it is the economic fiber of Romblon, my Festin and Famadico ancestors settled there. I saw my Famadico relatives only a couple of times in my life. As a result, there was no bonding between us and to date, I have no contact with them. A Romblomanon priest, Fr. Famadico, is probably my relative.
Photo of the Aglicay beach in Alcantara, Tablas
The Greatest Naval Battle in World History The Battle of the Sibuyan Sea went down in history as one of the greatest, if not the greatest, naval battles in WWII. The Battle of Sibuyan Sea was the opening act and a turning point in the famous Battle of the Leyte Gulf, the greatest naval battle in the world. The Battle of Leyte Gulf was a massive, four-pronged Japanese attack involving the Sibuyan Sea, the Surigao Strait, the Leyte Gulf and the Alaska Strait. The total number of warships involved was the largest in naval history. It involved the largest number of Japanese and American war planes, battleships, transport ships, destroyers and cruisers. It was also the first time that the Japanese used kamikaze suicide pilots to bomb the American fleet. This suicide tactic was first used when Gen. MacArthur landed in Leyte on Oct. 20, 1944, with devastating effect on the US Navy. My uncle, Professor Nestor Famatigan PhD, covered this battle comprehensively in his book,The Great Battle of Sibuyan Sea, and wrote that many Romblomanons perished in this Battle.
L-R: Papa Nardo, President Manuel Quezon, two unnamed officials on a trip to Leyte.
The main drama of the Battle of Sibuyan Sea took place between the Main Imperial Japanese Navy and the US warplanes/bombers in the waters near the Tres Islas of Sibale, Banton, and Simara. When the Japanese Main Armada got wind that General McArthur had landed in Leyte, they sailed to the Leyte Gulf through the Sibuyan Sea to wipe out McArthur and his small army. En route in the Sibuyan Sea, they encountered numerous Tres Islas guerillas in sailboats (baroto) armed with slingshots, stones, guns, machetes, bolos and rifles. It was David against Goliath…… and David won. When the Japanese naval commander spotted the numerous sailboats, he ordered his ships to turn back, contrary to the Japanese spirit whose motto was “Die rather than surrender.” The flagship Musashi of the Japanese Imperial Navy with her 2,399 men on board sank in the waters of Sibuyan Sea. But why? The Romblomanons, thinking they had scared the Japanese Imperial Navy into retreating, claimed victory for the Japanese ships’ turning back. The Romblomanons still talk about their victory in the Sibuyan Sea to this day.
Up in the north, the Alaskan Japanese Armada planted a decoy and created a commotion as if to attack Leyte. So, the stronger bulk of the American Navy went after the Alaskan Japanese armada. The Alaskan Japanese Armada succeeded in luring the main American Navy force towards Alaska where several Japanese outposts were located. Japanese history books documented that the Japanese Navy commanders could not believe that the Japanese decoy plan actually worked and mistakenly assumed that many American battleships still remained in the Leyte Gulf. They feared that the Japanese Navy in the Sibuyan Sea were outnumbered and were no match to the (actually outgunned) American battleships. My suspicion is that they also thought that their Japanese reinforcements in the Surigao Strait were weak. Following the sinking of the flagship Musashi and two aircraft carriers, the Japanese Admirals wanted to preserve the Japanese warships for the defense of their homeland. The Japanese commanders did not want to go home to Tokyo with a major portion of a defeated Japanese Armada decimated. That’s why they turned back from meeting the American fleet in the Sibuyan Sea. Actually, unknown to the Japanese, the decoy plan worked 100% because it drew the stronger bulk of the American warships towards Alaska away from Leyte, leaving a very weak defense for McArthur. So the landing of McArthur in Leyte went without a hitch and changed the course of world history. After McArthur occupied Leyte, Japanese use of the Pacific Ocean to carry their reinforcements, supplies and resources was blunted. The American soldiers could now launch attacks on Japan from the the Philippines. That was a miracle whether somebody else prayed for it or not.
Uncle Malvs
Before this, the American experience in fighting the Japanese made them in awe of Japanese disregard for their own lives in battle. But the Japanese Admiral in the Sibuyan Sea acted out of character. He turned back even before he could reach the Leyte Gulf where McArthur’s landing was in progress.
Another drama had unfolded in the hills of Tablas where guerrillas and townspeople were watching the Japanese ships ply the Sibuyan Sea. Also watching was the Americans’ secret weapon, a radio operator who supplied the Americans minute-by-minute account of the movement of the Japanese warships in the Sibuyan Sea. It is possible that the American commanders didn’t know that a huge Japanese Armada was on its way to Leyte slipping quietly through the back ways of the Sibuyan sea and that was crucial informationn. As documented in history books, the Americans would not have won the Battle of the Sibuyan sea without a certain guerilla radio operator. None can match the sheer spirit, courage and cunning of that radio operator who was my father’s brother, Malvar Festin, a guerrilla communications engineer stationed in the Southern Tagalog provinces.
The beautiful Auntie Nen had to smear her face with mud so as not to attract the attention of the Japanese soldiers who often visited them, desperately hunting for Uncle Malvs who had escaped to Mindoro. Already, some residents in a sitio in Despujols, when they were identified as those who hosted Uncle Malvs one night, were massacred. They put to death the residents of an entire sitio whom they believed were hiding Uncle Malvs. The entire Festin family was taken hostage for several days. They were released when the Japanese were convinced that they were telling the truth and that they were really ignorant of their brother’s whereabouts. The Romblomanons would flee to the mountains when they hear of the coming of the Japanese , or the American soldiers too, even if they were just passing through. They were afraid that their women would be raped or their men recruited for hard labor. And, surprisingly, the Japanese soldiers would not follow them to the mountains for fear they would be shot by snipers.
The Filipinos would obey the Japanese quickly; otherwise they would be slapped repeatedly, or worse. They also saw the Japanese officers do this to their own for the sake of discipline. When the Japanese soldiers occupied a town, the American soldiers would come and pulverize their defense structures and the Japanese would retreat. Uncle Maning, who was a doctor, treated Japanese and American soldiers from the camps or houses they occupied with low rent. Some of them had a high level of education and, at that level, some Filipinos became friends with them. How could we kill them?
The Oldest Burial Cloth in Southeast Asia
The majestic island of Banton rises above the shimmering waters of the Sibuyan Sea, still largely unspoiled. It is an island of dramatic beauty, surrounded by exotic, lace-like coral reefs and white powdery beaches. Coconut trees are everywhere. I used to sit on a rock in the beach and gaze into the horizon, admiring God’s handiwork. I could feel like I was on the edge of the world. Sometimes, I can hear the island calling me in my dreams. One of its artifacts is a boat coffin with a well-preserved mummy and a pre-historic burial cloth. The 12th or 13th century burial cloth is reportedly the oldest in Southeast Asia. (see photo below). I would like to visit the Guyangan cave where this burial cloth was found.This is where my journey in search of my roots begins. This is my ancestral home.
Credit for my ancestral photos goes to my cousin, Manoling Festin-Martinez, the youngest delegate to the Constitutional Convention (Con-Con) and former Press undersecretary.
OUR HOMETOWN, ROCHESTER, NEW YORK BY TED MARIANO
Rochester has been our home since 1973. After a brief stint in Meriden, Connecticut and Boston, we moved to this city in uptate New York. When I told my colleagues in Boston, their only comment was that is snowy in Rochestser and very cold. We were sad to leave Boston, a place we enjoyed very much. They were right about the weather. But my friends failed to mention that the city is home to a few of the biggest comopanies in the world. Kodak, Xerox, Bausch and Lomb, Taylor Instruments, Ritter, Castle Company and many other high tech small companies. There were many things we learned about the city after we got here. University of Rochester, Rochester Institute of Technology, Eastman School of Music are the three main higher institutions of learning. Strong Memorial Hospital is a world-class medical center with extensive medical research facility.
There are more attributes to the city. Recent ranking by MSN Real Estate and the Sperling’s Best Places puts Rochester number one in the country’s most lovable metropolitan area. They cited the region’s “big city culture, highly educated population, picturesque scenery, affordable housing, high tech job base, relataively low unemployment and short commute time.” It has one of the best public school systems. It is a medium-sized city with big city offerings. It is a good place to raise a family, we found out.
Kodak, in many ways, have touched our lives. We took pictures with its cameras and films. We have recorded memorable pictures on film, both black and white and colored. Kodak was called “the big yellow giant.” George Eastmen did not invent photography but found a way to mass produce and make them available to the masses. Xerography was invented here. It started as Haloid Corporation. Its name changed to Xerox after inventing the dry copying method. It became a household name like Kodak. “Mag Kodakan tayo.” Remember the microscopes we used in the laboratory? Made in Rochester by Baush and Lomb. Rayban glasses? Or the contact lenses you are wearing? Two of my examining tables are made by Ritter. Craftsmanship is excellent and they are still working decades later.
Things have changed though. Taylor Instruments, maker of the thermometer and sphygmomanometer, is gone. Ritter company, make of OR lights and sterilizations, this company no longer exists. They were bought out by other companies. Kodak is not the same company. They had 66,000 employees in Rochester in the 80’s. Currently, it is about 6000, a casualty of changing technology and lack of foresight. They invented digital photography but this was not developed. According to one of my patients, a retired Kodak employee, they had the capability of storing data in tetrabytes back int eh 80’s. They decided not to pursue it because they were making so much money in film. Xerox is holding its own. Bausch and Lomb sold their sunglasses division, stopped making micorsopes and binoculars. They continue to make contact lenses and eye care products.
Today, Rochester remains economically stable due to the many, small high-tech companies. Pay Chex, the biggest payroll service in the USA, was established in Rochester and its headquarters remain in Rochester. By Ted Mariano.
On Work
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Back to back programs on public TV last night (Ape Genius, How Smart Are Animals) featured studies on animal intelligence suggesting that the animals studied had abilities that lay at the heart of what we think of a “culture” among human beings e.g. communal rituals, memories, technology, etc. I’ll set aside thoughts about culture for future examination and today concentrate on what I consider a feature of human intelligence, purposefulness of activity, a feature of what ordinarily we call “work.” Work or contributing to the Gross Domestic Product of the country is such an integral part of being a member of society that we often don’t tease it out for specific (i.e. species-focused) examination. Everyone simply assumes that as long as you’re able (unless you “retired”), you have to work unless there is something wrong with you—you’re disabled or, worse, lazy or a “burden on society.” As a social construct, work is any activity involving physical or mental effort (maybe even spiritual effort although here we enter into theoretical controversy depending on our understanding of spirit and spirituality) to achieve a purpose or result. Effort is part of its definition along with purposefulness. In normal usage (by which I mean thoughtless, unmindful or conventional usage), effort is struggle. It denotes what in Buddhism is called dukkha, suffering. It does not come easily, as, for instance, thoughtless, unmindful or conventional thinking or activity. Effort implies attention and the focusing of energies whether physical or mental in deliberate or intentional awareness resulting in action. Culture is often created with the same deliberateness and effort although in modern times and in the so-called industrialized countries, with the overwhelming choices around us, poorly examined or intentioned contributions to culture are increasingly the norm. Someone initiates an action or idea and with the 100th monkey it enters into the lexicon of general culture and everybody takes it for granted i.e. automatically includes it in any unmindful iteration of commonplace phenomenon (i.e. the norm). I often conceptualize work employing the definition of mechanical work in physics (the study of physical energy and matter). work is the distance (and direction) that energy travels. More accurately, work is the distance (and direction, which is purpose or intent) created by energy focused and utilized to create it. To me therefore work involves space, energy, time (the occasion of applying energy and the succeeding occasions that display the resul) and consciousness (both awareness and intent). Stated this way, work equals being alive. To be alive is to labor, as suggested in Bereshit, the first and pivotal book of the Hebrew Bible (Genesis 3:17-19):
- Because you listened to your wife and ate of the tree about which I commanded you, ‘You shall not eat of it,’
- Curse be the ground because of you.
- By toil shall you eat of it all the days of your life.
- Thorns and thistles shall it sprout for you
- And your food shall be the grasses of the field.
- By the sweat of your brow shall you get bread to eat
- Until you return to the ground—for from it you were taken;
- For dust you are and to dust you shall return.
According to Divine Revelation in the Jewish tradition, to work is inherent in being human. From this derives the metaphor of man and woman coming from the dust of the earth, the earth cursed by its Creator (Father) that they must cultivate it with the sweat of their brows to bring forth what the need to nourish and sustain life. Life is hard because to live means to labor to sustain it. YHWH, of course, didn’t content with human ingenuity. Maybe Adam and Eve ate not of the fruit of the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil but of the Tree of Knowledge period. Maybe knowledge has no inherent morality or being good or evil, morality created as Buddhists believe, in the motivation for its use or the activity it inspires. The Creator didn’t anticipate (so much for omniscience forward into finite time) that humans would discover agriculture and, even more powerfully arguing against their eternal dependence on YHWH, husbandry for humans learned they could get more highly concentrated “energy-for-life” by eating the flesh or synthesized products of other animals. Animals process life source into denser forms of energy, not through the primary action of the sun and other celestial lights that YHWH created but through the “learned” secondary action of life itself—biochemical reactions—and someday we we may even be able to create energy from submolecular activity since we learned to split the atom and access energy like to that of the sun! Already in the West we are redefining work. Some may wish for manufacturing work to return to North America but it is more likely that increasingly the work we shall be doing in industrialized countries will be through mental effort. Land was “real” property when manual labor was the norm. Now intellectual property is the source of Western wealth and power. No matter. Work is still intentional i.e. directed or focused energy or effort resulting in the desired result. (Desire is a whole new field of inquiry which must wait for another day.) If it were just effort or suffering, we would not be so inclined (some of us even “addicted”) but there’s a silver lining to work. Through work we get rewards, again of two kinds (three if we invoke spiritual work): material or psychic reward (which latter falls into the same realm as desire, of which as I wrote I shall later explore). Christian monasticism (largely absent in the Muslim and Jewish religious traditions) prescribed manual labor as part of the monk’s day. There is good reason for this. Physically moving the body is itself work but work that activates the body’s capacity to use energy. If this is confusing, it is confusing because we rationally divide a seamless reality into categories like matter, energy, spirit. But in our conventional world we live conventional lives i.e. lives according to conventions. Language itself is convention so I have to be satisfied with what language can achieve, itself a kind of work, but here work of delight!
On Publishing
- “To be or not to be: that is the question;
- Whether ’tis nobler in the mind to suffer
- The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune,
- Or take arms against a sea of troubles,
- And by opposing end them? To die; to sleep;
- No more; and by a sleep to say we end
- The heartache and the thousand natural shocks
- That flesh is heir to, ’tis a consummation
- Devoutly to be wished.
We make the best product we can then send it on its way. It’s like anything else we decide to do in life. Survey the landscape, aim our arrow and let it fly. Wherever it lands we have the chance (and oh, it’s an enviable gift!) of picking it up again to resend it on its way. We don’t always hit the mark but experience may show that where the arrow does land is often better than where it was originally intended to lodge. Biographies of great and successful producers of art and literature, philosophies or inventions abound in anecdotes of how they shilly-shallied within themselves sometimes for years before deciding their work was “good enough” to take the onslaught of public criticism. Good enough and they can be sent out into the world to face those foreign armies with their slings and arrows but where is that point and can we be sure we’re there? Anything we create is always perfectible but only God, if one believed in such an incredible entity, makes perfect things because She is perfection itself. An artist has to decide sooner or later to let her prodigy out into the world, ever fearful and gut held in, fearful that the child is no match for that onslaught of outrageous fortune. Do we protect them from hurt and keep them at home until they’re themselves grandparents of protected offspring or, worse, dead like a fearful Hamlet? No, we send our children into the fray and more often than not they’re fine. The conflict may not even occur or if it does the child proves master of the worst scenario we can imagine and write. How else to experience success if we don’t try? To create for public consumption is to adulterate our genius (from Latin gignere, to beget) with a skill few if any possess—divining what others like or want. For me this is the true essence and strength of capitalism. It’s when we mix in something from outside us that it takes life beyond our private (from Latin privatus, withdrawn from public life) means to create. It’s a mixed blessing but adulteration is at the heart of creating art. Who was it said that the greatest artist or writer was he who plagiarized from the most sources? Picasso himself said, “To copy others is necessary, but to copy oneself is pathetic.” Exposing our work to potentially hostile onslaught is the final polish we put on a gemstone, the friction this begets rubbing and rubbing it until it shines.
HEALTHY FRUITFUL EATING
Easy Summer Fruit Sherbet |
Making sure we eat plenty of fruits should be part of our nutritional plan for healthy living. Using the ubiquitous kitchen blender for making healthful shakes for breakfast or snacking is one easy way to do this. I recently junked my old Cuisinart blender and bought an updated model that also doubles as a food processor. I’ve put away my 30-year old Cuisinart food processor and saved precious counter space, one gadget taking the place of two. Having a blender again has been sheer delight. Summer, of course, is great for blending fruit drinks. And you can just about put anything into your blender shake. Since I don’t have an ice-maker, I use frozen chunks of banana that I keep in freezer bags. Whenever my banana supply starts turning brown, they get sliced into blend able pieces and stored in the freezer. I could do the same thing with any fruit. This eliminates the need for ice cubes and the result is more concentrated flavor! I concocted this morning’s after-the-gym breakfast from frozen banana, fresh, ripe peach, cooked Irish-cut oatmeal, whey protein, orange juice, goat’s milk yogurt, and whole cow’s milk. The result is fantabulous! And I had surplus I poured into a jar for snacking the rest of the day. Frequent small meals is another way that nutritional experts say enables the body to better utilize food and avoid glycemic peaks that lead to obesity and diabetes mellitus. I should know this, coming as I do with a strong family history of the latter. But consciousness about health is surely just one consideration when designing our lives. Physical health is the foundation for happiness but it’s like the sponge cake in a torte. We add layers of it and in between sandwich smaller quantities of pleasure, challenge, confidence, productivity, creativity, friends, family; the blender result is more likely to create that happiness we seek.
As the sun blasts us and the earth in July and August, we can still take comfort in the abundance of fruits and vegetables burgeoning from the fertile earth. What to do with this bonanza while trying to stay cool? Think fruit sherbets! The old way if you don’t have an ice cream maker is to blend the mix, freeze in an ice cube tray, stir every 15 minutes while the mixture solidifies until you have a smooth frozen concoction. My way is easier. Freeze chunks of fruit, process quickly in the blender and voila! Sherbet that satisfies the sweet tooth while keeping your fat and cholesterol intake low. Here’s the recipe for blackberry peach sherbet: For two huge servings, take 1 C. of frozen banana,1 C. fresh chilled ripe peach, 1/2 C. frozen blackberries, 1/4 C. each orange juice and whole milk, 2 Tb. whey protein powder and a basil or mint sprig for garnish. I use Bally’s Performance Whey Protein that is sweetened with Splenda but you can use any good quality whey protein and skip the sweetener or add a little demerara cane sugar or honey. Pulse in the blender and serve!
BOOK REVIEW: THE HELP BY KATHRYN STOCKETT BY EVELYN AUSTRIA For those interested in participating in the book club, our selection for the month is “THE HELP” BY KATHRYN STOCKETT.
I just barely turned the end page and will start the conversation rolling, I hope. This fictionalized story of black women during the Martin Luther King/John Kennedy era was set in the center of the racial ugliness, Mississippi (Yikes, did I spell that right?). Inventively written with strong hints that it may not be just fiction. The women worked as maids for affluent white families and are befriended by a young white woman determined to become a journalist. They collaborate and weave stories from the maid’s point of view. Of the 3 characters, I found Minni fascinating……tough, sassy, a creature with immense potential. Miss Hilly was my poor second choice but her characterization is portrayed as so mean spirited, there is no saving grace in her. Many times during the reading (took weeks to finish as too many other distractions at home). I stopped and thought about how maids were treated back home. I believed we were kind and gracious, but really, for me, they sort of disappeared in the kitchen, were poorly recognized and most often remembered for “bad events.” Was this your memory of them too? I had a yaya but only for a short while as a child and I don’t remember her at all. How very sad to be so beholden to someone and not even know her name. I enjoyed the book at lot. Thanks for the suggestion of Cherie Co-Barnett. Comments? Evelyn
The Help is the first novel written by Kathryn Stockett. Published in 2009, the setting is Jackson, Mississippi in the early 60’s. As Aibileen remarked, “when the civil rights movement was like a pot of boiling water.” Ms. Stockett lived in Jackson until the age of 24. Then, she moved to New York city where she wrote the book. The book, I feel, is a love story, inspired by her love and pride for her birthplace, Jackson Mississippi and her love for her nanny, Demetric. She wrote the book as an attempt to know and understand fully the person of Demetric, whose love left a lasting influence on the author. Many African American women helped raise white children in those days. When one is loved, one cannot but love in return. This is demonstrated by Ms. Skeeter and Constantine, Mae Mobley and Aibileen, Minny and Miss Celia and Mr. Johnny. And others in the book. That love is unconventional, transcends skin color, social status and the prevailing prejudice that existed in those times. Prejudice that exists today.
The book helps us understand people, humanity, love, courage. It is not a religious book in any shape or form. But as the story unfolded, one cannot but think of Christ and His teachings on love. Aibileen, Miss Skeeter and others embraced His teachings on love. In contrast, one is dismayed by the antithetical emotions held by many at that time. But then, hatred, injustice, indifference, guilessness exist today.
The story is narrated by the three main characters. Miss Skeeter and others took turns telling the story from their own perspectives. It is quite interesting and delightful with differences in personaly and style. There are 34 chapters. Aibileen opens the story in Chapter 1 and closes the story in Chapter 34. They talked about their day to day life and how the women of different color and status worked together courageously to effect much needed change. Int he last chapter, we find Aibileen walking away thinking “Maybe I ain’t too old to start over and I laugh and cry at the same time at this.” The mean Miss Hilly accused her unjustly of being a thief.
Included in the book is a short essay by the author, “Too Little, too Late.” She explains the point of the book and I quote “What is the point of the book? For women to realize we are just two people .Not much separates us. Not nearly as much as I’d thought.” It is one line in the book she truly prized, she said. At the end of the book is a reader’s guide iwth discussion questions for book clubs. It is well-written, easy reading, exciting, touching. It seems that, as a nation, we have come a long way from black and white buses, schools, toilets, And we are all grateful for that. But then again, is it still “too little, too late” in one form or the other, at present? Enjoy! The movie is great also.
Ted and Lynne Mariano
Ed. note: This film is currently showing in theaters.
TRAVEL
WESTERN MEDITERRANEAN TRIP BY RAMON AND MINDA DOMINGO 9/13 – 9/16 2006September 13, 2006 It was a sunny, pleasant day when my wife , Minda, and I left Midland, Texas flying about 1-1/2 hours by Continental Express to Houston to catch the Air France plane to Paris, Charles De Gaulle (CDG) airport, then to Barcelona, Spain. Our Indonesian friend, Linda Nagy, drove us to the airport with 4 luggage and 3 carry-on with one filled with my usual accoutrement of books, magazines, maps and my books in French, Spanish and Italian as well.I was quite excited having now the chance and opportunity to finally see this center of western civilization; that part of Europe which the Romans used to call the “Mare Nostrum” or Our Sea. The Cote d’Azur or French Riviera, Rome, the seat of Catholicism since Sts. Peter’s time. Anticipating a wonderful time in my life, I was extremely excited but with some trepidation in speaking once more in Spanish or French. I believe my Spanish will be okay. I had only yesterday made reservation for an 8:15pm Flamenco Show, sin comida and when they did not send the confirmation, had to call Barcelona by phone. Had no difficulty in communicating with them in Spanish about my predicament…Somehow, 9/11/06 was a National Holiday.We arrived at the Bush International Airport, Houston and proceeded to go to Terminal D- on the Shuttle train. Left Houston about 4:10pm and arriving Paris, CDG at 8:45 am the following day, Thursday. My watch still had Manila time which I had not corrected since arrival to the US, end of August. It was getting to be confusing for me. Tried to speak to the air stewardess “Je suis en vacances et Je voudrais parler et pratiquer mon petit francaise a vec vous.” My seatmate on the right was from San Diego and was flying to Paris to Istanbul whereupon she would taking a 2-month cruise through the Black Sea, Straits of Bosphorus, Sea of Marmara and Dardanelles Straits then visiting the Greek isles, Marrakesh in Morocco, Gabon, the Cameroon in Africa, South Africa and ending in Brazil after crossing the Atlantic Ocean. It sounded very exciting and interesting. The Air France flight was a little disappointing. I was hoping we would be offered pate de Foie Gras or at least have Escargot but none was offered. I did drink some champagne. However, the food was so-so but written in French.We approached Paris by air and at outskirts of Paris, saw the usual geometric designs of arable fields with houses made with “toit rouges” or red roofs, presumably, red tiles. The new airport at Charles de Gaulle looked spectacular in Crystal Glass like the I.M. Pei’s Pyramide, the entrance to the Louvre in Paris. The “Correspondence” was chaotic. We had to descend down to a bus and be transported to the plane at the tarmac at a distance. I am not so sure whether the aeroport was really that impressive but I suppose being in Paris even though I was just at the airport was a thrill for me. The flight from Paris to Barcelona was better. However, outside, the ambience at 10am was one of a gray and dreary day, similar to the time when we flew to Paris 2 years earlier on an autumn day. The Air France Airbus was spacious and airy. My wife, Minda, was by the window and next to me was a young man of 25 or so with his wife and a young infant son across the aisle. They were from Brazil and only spoke Portuguese. I only spoke a smattering of Portuguese, and it was frustrating to carry on a conversation, though attempting to do so in Spanish. BARCELONA : September 14 – 16, 2006Barcelona is a great and fun City along the Mediterranean. We arrived at the “el Prat de Llobregat” airport about 12 noon or so, flying from Paris. The City was wet with puddles of water along the landing field and depressed area. At the airport, and for a moment, we saw unrecognizable signs written in a strange and alien language above the obvious Spanish ones below it but realizing quickly that I was in the land of separatist Catalunya. I quickly changed my vouchers for the Barcelona Cards and also the Turistic Cards at the airport. We decided to take the taxi to center Barcelona rather than taking the bus or train. It would have been a sight lugging and pulling those many “maletas.” I immediately started talking to the taxi driver in Spanish. In his Castillian lisp and inflections, he responded that it had been raining since Tuesday and only started clearing up Thursday, the day of our arrival. I tried to imbibe and relish the city as it presented itself to this traveler. The trees were lined by “planteros” tress along the boulevard. They reminded me of the Marroneriers lining the boulevards of Paris.Finally, we arrived at out B and B place at 11 Ronda Universitat near the Plaza de Catalunya. This was the very first time we ever tried a B and B place but which actually tuned out to be a hostel place. I was shocked when I saw the old antiquated elevator that could barely fit anything and which I had to take with two maletas to the 4th floor and leaving my wife below. The Hostel was closed for lunch. I had told Thomas, the proprietor that I would perhaps be arriving in Barcelona by 1 pm and here we were and he was out for lunch at 2:30pm. I was shocked not only because of the antiquated elevators which we are not accustomed to in the US but because we were tired and needed to rest. Fortunately, an English speaking couple from Germany opened the hostel and let us in. So far, I was disappointed by the whole series of events and was in remorse by my attempt to have an adventuresome stay in Barcelona and with everything seemingly a mess for my poor wife and myself. However, Thomas told us that we were not staying at this location but at another one and brought us to the 25 Ronda Universitat where we had a large suite with a balcony overlooking the Ronda Universitat with wooden floor and refrigerator, good private bath/toilet for ourselves and very close to the Metro at the Plaza de Catalunya and the Ramblas. I was pleased with the accommodation.The main Plaza in Barcelona would be the Plaza de Catalunya. The Rambals which is a famous pedestrian boulevard, lined by the trees. Planteros extend from the Columbus monument at the Port area and runs diagonally to the Plaza de Catalunya and then proceeding on a northwardly direction. Ramblas is an Arabic word, Remla, which means sandy riverbed. They had transformed it into a wide pedestrian boulevard for promenade. It is the most famous of boulevards in Barcelona similar to Champs Ellysees in Paris or Fifth Avenue in New York but pedestrian friendly and teeming with people, restaurants, tapa bars, lining the outer edges of the boulevard and stores including pet stores, birds etc lining the inner course of the Ramblas. There were two metro stops – the Dressenes and the Liceu along the Ramblas going towards the Columbus monument. My wife and I had both Barcelona Card and the Turistic Card which allowed us to use the tourist buses to see the interesting spots and with the Barcelona Card being able to move around Barcelona the faster way with the Metro. Time was valuable in this short trip to Barcelona. After settling ourselves at our hostel, we took a leisurely walk along the Ramblas with the idea of going to the Boqueria de St. Joseph for a late lunch. The Boqueria was just like it was pictured on the guide books. There was an entrance arch of wrought iron with intricate designs, a jamon/sausage stall on the right and fruit stands or stall with heaps of colorful fruits of all kinds and sorts. After we quickly glanced through the market and including the Tapas Bar on the right, we decided to have our late lunch but at 3:45, the tapas bars were closing down by 4 pm. Fortunately, we espied one which was still open. This was our first visit to Spain or Barcelona at that. I was too excited and, like a child in a candy store, ordered as much Tapas and delicacies I could order, ranging from sardines, bacalao or cod fish to gambas, cuttle fish or squid cooked tempura style, fiedeos, patatas bravas, amba tomate and including the San Miguel Beer which originally came from Manila.After the meal which we relished immensely and excited by being in this exotic place with a foreign tongue, we then strolled through the Boqueria. It was an exceptional market similar to the one in the Grandville island market in Vancouver or the Quincy Market in Boston. I have not seen one as spectacular a sight as this one with countless stalls with heaps and piles of fruits of various hues; a vision to behold and enjoy . we bought some fruits which included a carton box of cherries, a whole box of extremely large purple figs, grapes, the sweetest I have ever eaten which the lady told me in Spanish as being “Italian Muscatel.” Though I must confess the ones in Paris were also sweet and noticeably aromatic and fragrant. I went over and spoke with two hombres selling jamon serranos and cured meat and chorizos just inside the entrance to the Boqueria and asked them whether they had “chorizos de Bilbao” explaining that I was a Filipino. The man responded and saying “that all Filipinos have asked him whether he had any chorizos de bilbao. He then said “El chorizo de bilbao no existe and there was no such thing. I then told him that as a child, I had seen them with my own eyes in large red and gilded cans like a half gallon ice cream containers filled with lard and chorizos and until now were real.After the late lunch, Min and I, as planned, took the South Trip (red), which for us commenced at the Plaza de Catalunya on the Turistic Bus and passing though the Casa Batlo, Plaza de Espanya, Montjuic Park, We got off the Port Vell area, near the Columbus monument.We continued on with a promenade along the Ramblas, joining the throng on this wide pedestrian thoroughfare lined with countless stores, stalls or booths, shops along this tree-lined boulevard. It is probably more than a kilometer from the Columbus statue to the Plaza de Catalunya. Live human statues, powdered and gilded or bronzed on pedestals lined areas of that Boulevard between Dresenes and Liceu exits and for a Euro or so would pose for a photo with you; people on stilts; musicians performing and playing their instruments or some teenagers troupe doing gymnastic gyrations. Barcelona to me is a vibrant, exciting and memorable city. It was as exciting as an Easter Parade on Fifth Avenue. I was able to get tickets to the “Tablao de Cordobes” flamenco show for 8:15 pm on our day of arrival through the Internet. It was entertaining but with the glass of wine and the evening getting late, I was getting sleepy despite the “Zapatiadas.” Took the Metro from “Liceu” to the Pl. de Catalunya after getting some baguettes with jamon Serrano, pastries and a few cans of San Miguel beer. I found it incredible buying these jamon serranos from a man who looked like an Arab, selling pork products. He must not have been a devout moslem or was just a hired help manning the store. We took the Metro. Like in New York, I just grabbed one of those long poles rather than look for a seat. A man and a woman was holding on to the same pole. As the Metro was reaching the next exit, I felt and senses somebody almost toying with the lassoed end of the strap around my neck which held my secret security pocket containing my document and money tucked into the recesses of my trousers. I quickly turned around and am quite sure that I heard her say “sorry” as she quickly exited out of the train.FRIDAY – 15th of September, 2006Woke up a little late and ate some of the baguette with jamon Serrano and the fruits. Min and I took the Metro to the Sagrada Familia. A Filipina in the train told us that there were 18,000 Filipinos in Barcelona and that it was a pity we could not meet them. Had a quick breakfast again with café and pastries and with Min having chocolate. The word “gaudy,” my daughter tells me is derived from “Gaudi,” the architect and developer of the Sagrada Familia. He was a fervent Catholic and a Catalan loyalist. His art to me, like a Modernistes, appeared fantastic, imaginative and playful. Who could imagine such towering spires adorned with Venetian globules or globes sesemingly like a sprig of oranges or grapes or fruits on top these towers. Who could imagine such towering columns quadrifurcating like tree trunk? We joined the crowd to take the elevator to the top and viewed the whole Barcelona on this clear day from Mount Montjuic to Tibidalo…MontJuic by the way means the Jewish Mountain and like the Canal Judaica or the Jewish Canal in Venice, must signify a large (financial) role played by the Jewish community in these cities. We then took the Metro to the Parallel Exit to experience the “Funnicular” whatever that was and to go up Montjuic. It was almost like a Metro train but one hugging the mountainside and climbing uphill to Montjuic. Wandered through the Miro Muserum followed by the Museo Nacional del Arte de Catalunya. The Museum was atop the Mountain overlooking the city. It was a very clear day, sunlit and bright. The view from the wide extensive frontage of this magnificent building was spectacular and fantastic. It was a perfect day or so I thought. Having learned of this fantastic restaurant with a fantastic view from the guidebooks, tried to dine at the restaurant at the top of the Muserum but, because it was already 1:30pm, was told that the tables overlooking Barcelona were already all occupied and reserved. We were then seated. We quickly had a change of hearts and I explained to the waiter in Spanish, that without the view, we would decline having lunch here with them but would go elsewhere. We then took the elevator and had lunch at the Museum’s cafeteria and ordered most of the interesting tapas or delicacies available to choose. We then had sardines in oil with Vinaigrette, jamon Serrano, Panini with tuna and other stuff and a “torte de Naranjas” – a slice of a round big Cake washed down with sweetened expresso coffee. After lunch, we proceeded to see the exhibits, paintings and the special Numismatic collections of the Mediterranean. Chatted in Spanish with the young curator about my interest in these areas and having studied and translating from Latin the “Campaigns of Gaul” by Julius Caesar as a high school kid and which commenced with the sentence “Omnia Gallia in Triae haec partes Divisa est” or All Gaul is divided into three parts ! I was astonished when he commented and said that “I must be a doctor!” Of course, my wife and I were surprised by his accuracy. I proceeded to tell him about my limited knowledge about Barcelona and, in the past, having learnt that this was originally a Carthagenian colony, named after Hamilcar Barca, the Carthagenian father of Hannibal, though it seems there was a subsequent Roman General called Barcino involved in Barcelona’s history, thus making it a big confusing for me at this point to determine which version was correct. Tunisia (previously called in history Carthage) is so near Spain, just across the Mediterranean Sea and where the dye for purple Royal Toga (Roman) came from some sea shells of that region of Carthage. It so happened that the curator’s father and his brothers were physicians and surgeons and, of course, he was not a doctor. I replied in Spanish: Cada uno, su gusto or in French: Chacun a son gout or to each, his own taste !!!From the MNAC or the Museo Nacional del Arte de Catalunya, took the Turistic bus to go to the Aerial Tram to cross over from the mountain, Montjuic to the Port Vell area down below but unfortunately, it was a windy and was closed for the day. I really had wanted to see Barcelona from this aerial tram but couldn’t . Took the Turistic bus again and got off at the Columbus monument and took the elevator up that tall pedestal of a column up to Columbus feet. That column actually holds an elevator and about 4 or 5 people can get into it.We then took off and went to Parc Guell, getting off at the Lesseps Metro exit. I do not know if there is an easier way to get up that mountain but we did climb that steep mountain although there were two or so long escalators that helped the tourists or residents help climb that mountain – walk, walk, walk then escalator followed by climb, climb, climb then escalator, then climb, climb, climb. By the time we reached the top, we were exhausted and tired especially my poor wife, Minda. We come from flat West Texas and were not used to climbing steep mountains. The Parc is quite unique with what is termed as “moderniste” design and with characteristic designs by Gaudi. It was commissioned by a wealthy individual by the name of Guell and designed and done by the same Gaudi of Sagrada Familia fame. Going down the mountain was certainly less strenuous but had to wait in line with the rest of the tourists and then took the Red Line to finish seeing the North route of the city. It was late when we arrived at the Plaza de Espanya but just in time to see the magic Fountain show at 9:30pm. At this point, it was not only a delight but a relief to be able to get a response from the street vendor to my pressing question: donde estan aqua los banos? With a response: en aquel hotel, al otro lado del camino y por la derecha el entrar el edificio. Meaning which was across the street on that hotel, on your right as you enter the building. We enjoyed tremendously the Magic Fountain show which was a performance done by the water fountain spraying and spouting water from this huge fountain while being bathed in successive different shades and hues of colored light. Barcelona, like the rest of Europe, is famous for thieves and snatchers. After the Dancing Fountain show, we then took the Metro connecting the Plaza de Espanya to go to the Plaza de Catalunya which was about one kilometer away. It was about 10pm. The Metro was huge and cavernous and brightly lit. There was an inscription in Latin on the left wall. I have forgotten what was inscribed. Minda took a seat while I was holding onto the metal rail. About the third stop or so, I noticed two women and a man come into the train. The man grabbed the metal pole or rail which I was holding to. I actually was musing whether these people were possibly a trio of con artists or thieves. I saw one of the women with two gold bracelets on her wrist. Surely, I told myself, she has enough gold on her body and so, surely she was not a con artist. I, however, continued to secretly observe them. The next stop was our stop to exit to the Plaza de Catalunya. I noticed one of the women go towards my right to the front of me and the other woman went, from the corner of my eye, went to my back, on my left side. As the doors of the train was opening, we were all set to cross that door, when I suddenly sensed something was amiss on my left pocket. I had a digital camera dangling on my neck and was carrying a small canvas bag on my right hand, like a briefcase. I quickly glanced to my left pocket and saw a lithe hand actually inside my left trouser’s pocket and the rest meaning the palm still outside. I quickly grabbed and held onto my left thigh. I looked to see who it was and I saw the same woman with gold bracelets. Instinctively, I shouted and kept shouting at her even as we were all crossing over to the platform: “Maldita, Maldita, Maldita (meaning Bad girl, Bad girl, Bad girl). Subsequently, my wife who doesn’t speak Spanish told me that she was at a loss on why I had kept shouting and shouting in Spanish in the middle of that busy Metro platform. On reaching Midland, TX, I looked up the meaning of this word and it actually meant “Wicked, Wicked, Wicked.” She certainly was wicked. From a distance, I espied her nonchalantly looking away and elsewhere, unperturbed and defiant in her wicked ways. The $200 dollars, however, were still in my trousers. I became extremely agitated and felt violated even as I kept on shouting at this thief. However, despite this experience, I still love Barcelona.We were running out of Euros and wanted to have some for the next day. It was Friday night and the whole Ramblas was teeming with people. We went inside a chic brightly looking restaurant called Café Catalunya and decided to have supper here and to calm down from our ordeal. They accepted credit cards. We then proceeded to order a lot of stuff including the following : Cadiz Bacalao, amanida; Chorizo Pamplona; chipirones fritos, patatas bravas, paella mixta, Cava champagne, Crema Catalanta for dessert and , Cana Barril (San Miguel beer).I felt very at ease while in Barcelona. It truly was a joyous experience to be able to express and communicate in Spanish, the mother tongue of Cervantes. Yet, deep within me, I am sure, my Spanish could be better improved by more Immersion Spanish or perhaps with a long Spanish sojourn.Saturday, 16th of September 2006Saturday morning, we explored the Barrio Gothica and saw the Barcelona Cathedral taking the Juame metro exit and prayed at this huge Cathedral with a large plaza fronting the cathedra. Prayed and lit votive candles at one of its side altars to the Nuestra Senora de la Virgen del Pilar, the patron saint of Zamboanga with its feast day being October 12. Saw the Swans at the Cloisters. We had pictures taken with a thin Don Quixote on his pedestal with his grey-colored armor and sword. I whispered in Spanish whether he also could sing. He responded that they would throw him out from the square if he started singing (Echar fuera). We proceeded to go to the Palau National de Catalunya to see the famous stained glass ceiling using those colored covered motorized rickshaws. It was a disappointment. It was our last day in Barcelona and we couldn’t get in to see the theatre.From here, we went to the Museu Picasso and saw his pieces including a roomful of erotic ones. He certainly had a wide range of works. Ended up by sauntering through this area of narrowed pathways with one wondering if one could ever be hopelessly lost in this narrowed pathways seemingly like a maze. An old lady told me in Spanish how to get out of this maze and pointed where the Metro was. However, I espied a “Basque” tapa bar called Pinxtos and where the Tapas are put in place with a toothpick. You may eat to your heart’s content but do not throw away the toothpicks because they determine how much you need to pay or how much you have eaten by counting the toothpicks. Between my wife and I, we had 11 toothpicks at 16 euros plus a glass of Spanish wine about 1.5 euros per tapa. They were all delicious and for me an experience in delight with at least a chance to partake of a Basque meal from Euskadi, (the Basque name for their homeland or region while trying to get autonomy from Spain situated along the Pyrenees mountains made famous by Hemingway). One of our most famous of Saints, the Jesuit Ignatius of Loyola is a Basque. I seem to have lost the list of tapas we ordered. It would have been nice to know the delicacies ordered if not just to remember the dishes by their basque name. At about 2:30 pm, Satuday, we proceeded to go to the luxury ship, “Voyager of the Seas, a huge ship with possibly 1000 to 1500 passenger tourists en route to Marseilles and Nice in France, to Livorno the gateway to Tuscany’s Pisa and Florence, then to Civitavecchia, the port city to the Eternal City, Rome and thence finally to Naples to see Mt Vesuvius/Pompeii and the Amalfi Coast. This ship is a huge floating city with 14 floors. We checked in into this huge building prior to actually boarding the ship. There were about 20 or so counters to facilitate and see that all the necessary documents and visas were in order. Chatted with the personnel in Spanish at the registration booth , explaining that this was our first voyage to Spain and the Mediterranean. Wasn’t too sure about the genders of some words but it seems things were understood and answered back in Spanish. Spoke with a Filipina who, after 20 years in Spain, carried now Spanish citizenship. Asked me whether I was an Ilocano – with a name like “Domingo.”Left Barcelona for Marseilles at exactly 7pm. Had to attend a medical meeting with a 14 hour credit dealing with Women Medical issues. Had cocktails at 8pm and had champagne and tried a martini (actually my first). This was part of our CME lecture group of 25 or so of us followed by dining at the Windjammer dining on a wide selection including Chicken curry, Sushi, Roast beef, etc. Tom and Norma, our friends , had ordered a bottle of wine and enjoyed their company for that first night. Sunday, 17th of September, 2006It was still dark when I woke up and from our veranda, saw flickering lights from what possibly looked like fishermen’s boat off the coast of France. Immediately took a shower and dressed up to see the city as we approached the coastline. The famed Basilica could be seen up a hill from afar and brightly lit. The ship swiftly and efficiently docked to its harbor while we all hurriedly took our breakfast a t the 11th floor of the ship. Min and I were the only ones among our group who took the excursion to Arles and Les Baux. After we convened at the theater, we were all assigned to designated numbers corresponding to the excursion bus we would be using. We passed through the outskirts of this city and sped through this rugged rocky limestone like mountains, almost bald except for some short shrubs or trees, made bald by wild forest fires, perhaps arson done during the period of the “Mistral,” a north wind that sweeps down causing the temperature to drop down to 20 degrees below and being sub-freezing if it came during the winter months. Supposedly as well, these mountains were part of a seabed but during one of Earth’s geological cataclysm, the earth’s crust shot up and was uplifted producing the hills and mountains with sea life fossils atop these mountains. The depression made low by these uplifted earth crust subsequently became the Mediterranean sea. (This is a similar explanation for the extremely beautiful rugged beauty of Highway 1 on the Pacific Highway from Santa Barbara to Carmel wherein one can’t just be amazed by this spectacular Blue Pacific on one side, the towering mountain cliffs on the other side and with a canopy of blue heavens above you on a clear day). The hills towards Arles were dotted with vineyards and olive trees and very picturesque; a forgone expectation of the Provence countryside. Reached Arles and saw the Roman Arena and amphitheatre. The tourist guide explained to us the Church façade with the façade illustrating Christ and His teaching for the illiterates (except the Clergy and Nobility who were educated). The area was colonized by the Romans and was called Provincia or (Roman) Provence. Next, we went to a mountain top overlooking the Valley of Le Baux. Le Baux – wherein the word Bauxite was derived and being a mineral used in the aluminum production-Le Baux had a citadel above the mountain top and was a stronghold for the French protestants, called Hugenots or Calvinist of followers of John Calvin who taught the heresy of predestination. It was under Cardinal Richelieu’s orders (the Prime Minister of the Realm) when this Huguenot citadel was ordered destroyed to protect the Crown from heretics and dissidents. Le Beaux from this mountain top overlooked a picturesque valley of green vineyard and olives. Had lunch at this wonderful restaurant with a spectacular view with wonderful French cuisine, vin rouge et blanc, French baguette followed by a salad with tomatoes, cheese, olives; a main course of beef stew consisting, per my French teacher, of a Camargue bull taureau simmering overnight in vegetables, followed by dessert and a demitasse of sweet expresso. It was a jovial table with all of us interacting and talking. Tried to practice my French at all possible times. Bought some souvenirs. On the way down the valley, passed through a town celebrating a feast day or a festival because the moutons were being brought back from the mountains. Men and women wore their native costumes of the region. From the bus, one could see stalls selling olives, lavenders and delicacies of the region. A woman was playing a “flute” and eight or so couples were prancing around doing their regional dances. Left Le Baux and Marseilles at 7pm without seeing downtown Marseilles. The ship slid quietly through the breakwaters of Marseilles and we proceeded to go to Nice. My regrets include not having eaten the bouillabaisse in Marseilles and not having visited the famous ‘Garde” Basilica wherein the founder of the Oblates (St. Masenod) is buried or interred. This bishop was so holy that supposedly Victor Hugo who was not well known to be a friend of the Clergy was actually describing this saintly bishop in the first chapters of Les Miserables. As the story goes, the whole town was scared of this mean-looking man (Jan Valjean) who wanders through the town looking for an inn or at least a bed to rest for the night with no one helping him in fear until one woman points to him to go to the house at the end of the road. This bishop as one recalls, despite the protest of his housekeeper, allows the released convict from the galleys to stay at his house; invites him to have supper ordering the best silver to be used and give him a bed to rest for the night. However, later in the middle and silence of the night, one could hear the sounds of footsteps through the house and with the convict stealing the bishops’ silverware. The man flees in the darkness of the night but was apprehended at a distance by the police with his sack full of silverware. He claims they were gifts given to him by the man at the end of the road. He was brought back to the Bishop’s house and when confronted, the Bishop responded that indeed he had given the silverware to this man, the convict. At this instant, the man undergoes a Mestanoia, a religious and spiritual conversion with a change of heart due to this saintly priest, the bishop, and thereafter leads a virtuous life. However, later as the story goes, Inspector Javert hounds him when he recognizes not as the successful wealthy businessman (with his initial business capital from the purloined silver) he had become but as the convict from the galleys. NICE, FRANCE September 18th, 2006Arrived in Nice, France the following day, 9/18/06 Monday, after an overnight sail from the harbor of Marseilles and anchored off the coast of a place called Villefrance. We had to take the Tenders which commenced to ferry the tourist towards land at 8am. Again, had to assemble at the theater called La Scala (not in Milan) and then the individual groups depending on what shore excursions they had chosen would then take the shuttle boats, called Tenders and from Villefrance would take our tour buses. We had chosen to take the Excursion to Nice, Eze and Monaco. First, we drove to nice and saw the highlights of the City which included marc Chagall’s Museum, the Russian Church and residence of the vacationing Tsars and Tsarina and the huge hotel for the English crown. The English and Russian royalties and other lesser royalties would vacation and spend their holidays, during the summer in Nice. Nice, being nice, had cool weather during the summertime with the French Riviera being cooler along the coastal cities. Took pictures at the Promenade Des Anglais, like our CawaCawa Boulevard, named after the English Royalty and entourage who would parade in their finery along the boulevard fronting the Mediterranean. The Russians had a huge yellow-colored residence and the English had their now called “Hotel Victoria” overlooking the Riviera and huge enough to house 400 of her majesty’s entourage. Went to the flea market. Tried to look for a restaurant featuring the “Succa” and couldn’t find one. Succa, unlike the ordinary crepe, was made of the flour of “garbanzos or chick peas.” From Nice, we went to Eze and Monaco taking the “moyen route” or the middle of the “Coirniche Drive.” It was a long and winding road on the mountain side overlooking the Mediterranean sea. She pointed out houses and villas owned by prominent individuals and including one previously owned by the King of Belgium who apparently was a very astute businessman and not too well-liked. I told her that, in my childhood, I remembered there were two Congos during the Colonial times, the Belgian Congo, Leopoldville, now Zaire, and the French Congo, Brazzaville. She then stated that must be the reason these properties and assets, though owned by Kind Leopold, were actually registered officially as “Congo,” I presume a corporation or business entity. Eze is a very picturesque town at a mountain top overlooking the French Cote. Cities of this sort were perched and situated up the mountains to secure some protection from the marauding pirates which I presume were the Ottoman-controlled “Barbary Coast pirates” from North Africa and wherein, I believe, the so-called “gunboat diplomacy” was first applied by the United States. We had lunch at Eze. Of course, they served us a wonderful salad called “Salade Nicoise” or Nice Salad consisting of tuna, lettuce, tomatoes, olives and olive oil followed by beef slices with pommes frites fried in distinct flavor of Olive Oil with lots of baguette and wine followed by sweet expresso.
From Eze, we went to Monaco, a very picturesque city, perched on the mountainside and overlooking the French Riviera and Yacht basin and alon ghte French coast. It is the “Principaute de Monaco” ruled by the Grimaldi family. When Nice was taken over by France from Italy, they stopped the gambling in Nice and so the Prince of Monaco had this brilliant idea of developing Monaco’s Monte Carlo and inviting the rich émigré to gamble away in Monte Carlo. He commissioned Garnier, the architect of the French Paris Opera to build an opulent Casino, an Opera and a nearby Hotel worthy of the nobility. Monte Carlo has a mountain cliff with the promontory at the mountain top called “La Tete de Chien” or Dog’s Head. Somehow, it was mistranslated from “top military” Headquarters to “Dog’s Head.” The guide led us around and saw the Museum of Jacques Cousteau, pointed out Stephanie’s and Caroline’s residence, brought us to Monaco’s Cathedral of the “immaculate Conception” wherein Princess Grace and Prince Rainier and the rest of the Grimaldi’s were buried behind the altar; the Prince’s Palace with its huge cobblestoned plaza and with a great view of the Cote’D’Azur. Thence, we proceeded to the Casino, with the hotel on its left and a huge plaza directly in front of the casino and restaurants, stores and people dining on the sidewalk trattoirs on the right. We had to pay 10 euros each to enter the casino. Lost 9.50 euros and kept 0.5 euros and kept the casino token for souvenir and two orange plastic bucket with the casino’s inscription. The casino was high-vaulted, gold-gilded with plush thick carpets. The boat left for Livorno, or Leghorn in English, for Tuscany, Italy, at exactly 7pm while we were dining for the evening. Our waiter was a Filipino and a Hungarian assistant (a Magyar). The headwaiter was an Indian who thought it was unusual that I knew of his birthplace, Varanasi or Benatres of Rudyard’s Kipling’s fame, of the Ganges and its Gats, of fakirs and widows who atone for their conceived ideas of sin; that they were the cause of their husband’s early death in life and now had to spend their life along this hole river that would cleanse them from their sins. They made special dishes of pancit, adobong beef and curried chicken for our table. Our whole group which consisted of about 20 plus Filipinos was a lively group. LIVORNO, ITALY September 19th, 2006 – Tuesday We docked in Livorno at 7am. Livorno, the seaport gateway to Tuscany, is the region where Italian cites like Pisa, Florence or Firenze, Assisi, Sienna are located; famous for its Chianti Wine and its vineyards and olive. Went first to Firenze. Along the way, saw the Apepenine mountains to our left; vineyards and olives and dried sunflower fields with good irrigated fields. It took us about 1 and a half hour to reach Florence. Stopped at a rest stop and got a Biscotti for the group of us. The guide explained that the mountains to our left were the Appenine mountains. The marbles used to fashion David came from these same mountains from an area called Carrera. I recalled reading the biography of Michaelangelo when I was in high school at the Ateneo de Zamboanga. The bus stopped a few blocks away from the Duomo or the Santa Maria del Fiore, the Cathedral with its huge, famed dome built by Bruneneschelli and with the Baptistry fronting across the Cathedral, and the Tower towards the right of the main altar. After the flood wherein Arno River flooded Florence, the huge Baptistry front door illustrating Christ’s life was removed and sent elsewhere, replaced with a copy. END MOVIE REVIEW
We’re all tourists if we think how short and ultimately inconsequential our stay here on earth is. We’re all tourists because to most people that we meet in the course of our workaday day we don’t matter. We’re ships passing in the night: here this minute, gone out of mind and of the world we memorize minute by minute. We’re all tourists until someone asks for our name and touches us, and we enter each other’s world: we become real. Donnersmarck’s movie, The Tourist, is about a fantastically elegant, sexy woman who meets a ho-hum-boring guy, as forgettable as the next stranger we pass walking down a train. He turns out to be a tourist on his way to Venice. Elise sits down across from Frank who can hardly believe his luck that this gorgeous woman has chosen to sit with from him. Well that’s for starters. Elise talks him into inviting her to dinner on the train then they separate, they get back together then separate, get back together then separate, back together separate. Meanwhile their identities change and unravel until the final identity revelation that ends the movie with heart-stopping panache. The director has a moniker you wouldn’t expect a tourist to have: Florian Maria Georg Christian Graf Henckel von Donnersmarck. If the name sounds Teutonic it does because Donnersmarck was born in Cologne. He moved to LA at age 34 and took back the princely “von” in his name. Only in classless America can royalty wear their titles with impunity and class. I first encountered Donnersmarck in the movie, The Lives of Others (2006), engrossing but nothing like The Tourist with its gorgeous scenery, gorgeous costumes, and two outstanding if a rather unlikely pair of stars: Johnny Depp and Angelina Jolie. To tell the truth, I had not seen Jolie in a movie before. All my images and stories of her came from news reports about her fantastic life with Brad Pitt, their adopted third-world children, and the very public charities the two have dedicated their non-starring lives to. Pitt and Jolie redeem their fellow stars by work with less fortunate people that their wealth and names enable them to help. They could just as well sit at home, count their Oscars or shop till they drop but don’t. Not tourists, these two. Donnersmarck says his movie has three stars. Venice, the doddering old lady of the Adriatic, gorgeous as the movie’s human stars but infinitely older is to my mind this biggest star of the three. Initially the director hoped to shoot there for 3 weeks but the producers went hog-crazy. Instead of building sets in London why not use Venice and really do her proud? Elise and Frank stay at the iconic Hotel Danielli but the director found more suitable hotel interiors at the Palazzo Pisani-Moretta. Filmmakers luxuriate in an embarrassment of riches in Venice. Every corner, every bridge, maybe even every water-logged brick on which a pigeon is hopping on Piazza San Marco makes an extraordinary setting for any movie, especially one as drenched in romance and Hitchcock-like suspense as The Tourist. And you have choice, more than tourists on package tours have, which sights to include in your adventure, which to double the pleasure of seeing again. I visited Venice in 2006 and 2008. The first time we arrived via the Marco Polo International Airport on the mainland and took a launch to our elegant, little hotel in Canareggio, the second largest sestiere in Venice. The following day we took a water taxi down the Grand Canal for a dramatic view of and entrance into the St. Mark’s piazza. In 2008 we had a nine-hour layover at the airport and a friend and I decided to trip the light fantastic and see Venice from the backdoor. We grabbed an ACTV bus to Piazzale Roma. We shared the bus with the locals, making us feel a little less like tourists, more like people who lived there and were not blinded by its tourist glow. Once at the piazzale (big square; piazza is just square; piazetta is little square – don’t you love Italian?) it was just a few steps to the Grand Canal station where we took a vaporetto to San Marco. If I had a chance to visit Venice again, this would be the way I’d want to come, through the backdoor. Flying to Italy via Venice is a seasoned traveler’s secret. It is small, almost third-world and eases entry into the splendors of Italy that we don’t stare like star-struck tourists. Chat up a teacher or housewife on that bus and you’ll step out of the movie, become real as these people are. For movies are about living our uncinematic lives, not as tourists but with guts enough to know, touch and be touched by others. And for all the gorgeous visual feast that Donnersmarck’s movie offers the viewer, maybe as important is the hint it gives about the primacy in our lives of enduring friendships, of relationships that last like moldering but beautiful cities on a distant sea. Ed. note: You can catch this move in Starz2. In Boston using Verizon, it’s on channel 342. |
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JULY BIRTHDAY CELEBRANTS Ando Dijamco, Puring Cruz-De Los Santos, Butch Gozo, Lily Berroya, Toy Aure, Vicky Pingul, Nora Dalman, Jun Bautista
AUGUST BIRTHDAY CELEBRANTS Dante Ragasa, Emilio Salazar, Manuel Franco, Mila Galang-Gonzalez, Tony Bernas, Harry Salceda, Cata Guzman. SEPTEMBER CELEBRANTS: Fred Donaire (Sep 2), Marietta Lozada (Sep 3), Johanna Valencia (Sep 7), Art Jurao (Sep 10).
THE WAY WE WERE
L-R: Seated: Mirla Manito, Baby Sagnip, Ofie Ramoso, Alice Dijamco, Luz Duque; Standing: Jessie Navarro, Elsa De Guzman, Zeny Andaya, May Capati, Nieves De Guzman, Angie Diaz, Grace Duque-Dizon, Evelyn Gonzalez, Ando Dijamco;Last row:Roby Diaz, Ma. Rita Hernando, Mike De Castro, Rod Polintan, Rommel Mangubat
L-R: three unknown, Luz D, Grace D, Evelyn A.
L-R: Luzbella M, Grace D, Luz D, unknown
L-R: Jing O, Nieves De Guzman, unknown, Linda S, Evelyn G, Yet D.
L-R: unknown, unknown, Brenda C, Luzbella M, unknown, Luz D, unknown
L-R: Deng S, Ruby Padolina, Joey L, unnamed, Baby Sagnip
ANSWERS TO GUESS WHO? BABY PHOTOS IN FIRST E-MAGAZINE:
SOLO: RALPH RANCES; BABY WITH MOTHER: LEW HORTILLOSA
Guess Who???
Clue: ” Tom Cruise?…Brad Pitt?…George Clooney? Close, but no cigars, folks For this adorable little bundle of joy was born in the historic province of Bataan sometime on March, 1946.With guile, a savvy disposition coupled with dogged determination and
sheer audacity of haracter, he managed to weather and finished his Medical education at our prestigious regal & pontifical university without a hitch.And with the same constellation of attributes, he asked the hand in marriage of one of our own, who obviosly turned his life right-side up according to friends & relations.He then when abroad to further his education
in Internal Medicine at the St. Mary’s and Strong Memorial Hospitals in Rochester, New York. After which he embarked on to practice as an Internist-Cardiologist and is presently
dividing his time between such and family. His is an awe-inspiring life though based on a stereotypical generic format which makes it a challenge for anyone to decipher who he really is.So, if you would try to guess, I’d advice that you do so on a wing and a prayer though my money is still on George Clooney !
EVENTS November 29, 2010: Birthday party for Max Basco. Southern CA classmates were present. Dado and Cora Castillo flew in from Alabama to attend the bash. October 2011: Golf tournament at Roy and Mila Gonzalez’ residence in Ohio. Monet Abragan, current President of the Phil Chapter, will be there. September 17 2011: Mini-reunion at Norman & Biba San Agustin’s house, Mendhan, NJ